would you swap with your SO or girlfriend or boyfriend for the week

if could swap for the week would you swap genders with SO or girlfriend or boyfriend

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    • #505496
      Molly
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      Yes I would, if it would not harm her in any way.

      I suspect it’d allow the SO to understand what it feels like to be me…. I can say that I imagine that it would be quite the shock for her and she’d be pushing the button, pretty quickly, in an attempt to change back.

      Perhaps it would help, perhaps it would not help us, but I’ve always maintained that she’s the most gorgeous woman I’ve ever laid eyes on and I would love every second.

      I imagine that this would probably be one of the best diagnostic tools for being someone being transgendered. No more imagination required to feel what it would be like to have a body of the opposite gender. Lots of Counselors may be out of business, but perhaps the focus would change to “Coping with having to go back”

      – Molly

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        Donna
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        Remember once when was married we exchanged role as for normal lives beside real jobs But she would cut grass and all things normally done by a man and I would do the laundry clean house inside. Once we had a discussion that we would accuse each other of easy work. lol surprised both us but we did it for week.

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      Abbie Normal
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      I voted no, but only because I like my wife as a woman. If there was a button I could hit the would swap my gender overnight I would hit it often, definitely for a full week.

      — Abbie 😘

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        Donna
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        after so many pushes button would break and be stuck as female.

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          Abbie Normal
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          sometimes I think that would be pretty great!

           

          — Abbie 🥰

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          Alice Black
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          LOL Donna

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      Lola Caprice
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      30 years ago maybe. These days I don’t think either of us would want to deal with the others health problems. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
      💖Lola

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      Sammatha
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      Yes i am single now. So yes would love to have,a bf for the week.
      Nice thouggt xx

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        Donna
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        not to greedy take one for the day too hehe.

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          Sammatha
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          Would be nice to be enfemme and your bf arrives home. Nice x

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            Donna
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            sounds nice now need to find a good steady bf to move in with one day or a husband.

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      Stephanie Bass
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      Yes Donna i would like you said just for the chance to see her side of life and her to see mine .. Then show her a few things that would make her life a little prettier as im the woman of the house he he sounds like so fun  ..

      Stephanie  bass

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        Donna
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        hehe she might decide she like being the man of the house

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      Ambermaria Martinez
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      Donna that would be so so Wonderful to live as a woman like you said to see what it’s like before we transtion I’m hopping to finally trastion this coming season it’s been to long to live the way I definitely want to

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        Donna
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        With you there for sure. Will be a woman myself end of November this year. if all goes to plan.  No going back for me. Maybe one day come out with something for trail in future to switch genders. Right now switching pretty much fantasy. Maybe again could be reality in future.

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      Aoife
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      of course! who wouldn’t at least want that perspective? not only is she my favourite woman (even if not exactly who i would be if my bits were different), but it would be great for each of us to see what the other would do with the other’s body. maybe i would even end up liking my male self more! everything about it would be great.

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      Eva Kelly
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      I picked yes. What if at the end of the week, you didn’t want to switch back?

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        Aoife
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        i think in a lot of situations neither would be in a rush to switch back. i don’t know how any loving couple wouldn’t, ntm i’ve always felt like if you’re that into being your own gender are you really that attracted to the other one?

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        Donna
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        that a possible outcome both have to agree to stay . Depending on who does what could be easier or could be harder.

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        Jeannie Jones
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        You would see if you could get your so to stay a husband?😊

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      LisaT
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      That’s a definite no. I just want to be me. That’s free to dress as I want and be the person I want. I find it super convenient that at 64 I have perfect breasts, not only that but they are in different sizes and I can pick the perfect pair for every occasion then pop them back in the box.

      Hugs

      Lisa xxx

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      Caty Ryan
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      No, 70% of me is the male me that’s been happily thus for well over my “3 score and ten”. The other 30% loves being “Catherine Louise” if and when she can.

      Overall women get the “lesser deal” career wise home life, (including full time mother and lover) and have (ahem…) far more “general health maintenance issues” than men.

      Until latter years they were also expected to look like a movie magazine cover every time they stepped out of the house. Post pandemic, I think its gone too far the other way, but then I can slouch around in tracksuit pants and slippers with the best of them. So who am I to judge.

       

      Caty

       

       

       

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      stephanie plumb
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      No.  Another one of these daft fantasy swap ideas. What’s the point in speculating on what cannot happen. Maybe I would like to be an elephant for a week.  Daft isn’t it?  Lets stay in the real world. Please!

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        Donna
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        ok steph let you trade with a elephant for week hehe

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          stephanie plumb
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          Oh good.  I often get a little elephants trunk  on a Saturday evening.  🍸

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      Chelly Kross
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      I would not for the simple fact i like to wear skirts, dresses, high heels all the time. Thats my favotire part of being Chelly. She will dress up, but its for special occasions or special date nights. I want more!!!!

      Chelly

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      Gail Rich
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      If I swapped with my wife, would I still be able to wear a dress?

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        Jeannie Jones
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        I think you would have to dress the same way your wife did before the swap😊💋

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          Gail Rich
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          Then, no thanks. I’d rather wear a dress.

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          Donna
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          yes of course maybe she does wear dresses

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            Gail Rich
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            She hasn’t worn a dress in years.

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            Jeannie Jones
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            If I was a woman for a week I would have either a dress or skirt everyday.😊

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        Donna
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        Of course you be the wife be able wear what she wears. So if don’t have any can go out buy some deciding to start wearing them.

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      Carolyn Kay
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      I think it would be wonderful for both of us to live life as the other for a while. It may help both of us understand the other more.

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        Jeannie Jones
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        My sentiments exactly 😊💋

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      Stephanie Kennedy
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      Hi Donna Great subject It amazes me how much our SO,s have the ability to do and the details they can remember. I have spent my forty year marriage really not knowing what my SO did with her time and the money she had available to her. Unfortunately for me I had to learn on the run IT IS NOT EASY by any stretch of the imagination. Having the time to get cute and pretty is a luxury not the standard. Some how she always managed to look cute and pretty no matter what time i got home. I used to think its no big deal, I would love to be a mother and house wife its a great life I could get to dressed up watch Judge Judy, go shopping just enjoy being a girl. Do not forget they have been in training for the marathon of being a woman in a house hold of children and a husband for their entire life. They watched their mother and her mother and every mother that she came in contact with her whole life. The whole time we were busy denying what we felt was wrong. She was busy learning and doing. We maybe be able to go for a week on the cute and pretty part but the real stuff that makes up a woman’s life we would have no chance. My SO was diagnosed  with cancer of one her breast years after having a mastectomy and reconstruction of the other. She has to go through the same procedure over again. She has several other serous issues that need medical attention also. The other issues involve pain that will not go away unless she has surgery. She still manages to look cute and pretty. The details of a woman’s daily life I could write a novel. Its not only what she does its the things she worry’s about. She is intimately involved with the lives of the people she loves and when she has time to talk with her friends she gets involved with their lives and adds some comfort and support. She is endless when it comes to her love. There are times when she just wants to rest and wants to be loved and supported. That is the time when we have to be there for our SO. She remembers who was there for her during her time of need. If you are there for her she will be there for you. Giving you a week to try and do what she can handle in a day would be a vacation for her. On a lighter note she ask if she could borrow one of  one my breast inserts until the reconstruction was finished. So I am the singled breasted CD for a while{ only kidding I stuff with panty hose}.Be kind to your fem side and your loving SO. They both deserve it.

      Luv Stephanie

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      MelanieElizabeth
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      Yes I would. It’s only temporary, it would be a learning experience for sure. Btw if it happened to everyone across the planet for one week it would change society for the better. Not just for cds and trans people but for everyone, to walk a mile in the shoes of the opposite sex would enlighten many misogynists and change the world forever in so many ways.

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      T.J. Byron
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      No…happy being the person I am ,75 in October…not interested in becoming a women at this point. What I see how Hard it is to be a female…no , if a choice, no, too hard. When I watch the discrimination women have to put up with, especially my Black Wife…no , would not choose to be in her Size 5 shoes. I have seen too much abuse of women’s talents to switch, even for a week. I sympathize with women for these conditions. Maybe it makes me a better CDer.

      I love my wife, & enjoy being her husband, my kids father, my grandkids “Papa”,  my Brother’s brother.

      Switch….nope, wouldn’t be interested. Only trying daily to be the very best CDer I can be.

      Love to all….Dr. T.J.

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      Alison Anderson
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      For starters, genders is more of what’s between your ears (or your behaviors and conformity to “social norms”)than what’s between your legs.  In that regard, I’m probably more feminine in many ways than my ex, so my answer would be no.

      Even if it involved other changes, I don’t think I would go for it, nor would she.  So again my answer is no.

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        Donna
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        would gain her or his behavior everything he or she is outside and inside emotions the whole package.

         

        thank you for your answer.

         

        Hugs

        Donna

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      Gwyneth
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      This result should be very one sided. I’ll add a caveat. I would swap genders, but not body shapes. And/or desires! If you know what I mean! And I wouldn’t want to swap work status, since I’m retired.

      So there’s only the one thing I would swap. Maybe not fair.

      Gwyn

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