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    Stevie Sometimes
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    Registered On: April 9, 2022
    Topics: 1
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    Hi everyone. I guess I should tell you a bit more about me so here it goes.

    I started dressing about a year ago following a traumatic experience in my relationship that forced my wife and I to really open up with each other. I had always been fascinated with nylons and high heels and had urges to wear them but that was as far as it went. Following the chat I decided to explore and bought myself an outfit and wig, it was actually my wife that suggested trying some makeup as well.

    The first time I got fully dressed and made up, I looked at myself in the mirror and something just clicked, it wasn’t just a fascination about clothing, I liked the way I looked and it felt really good, I actually liked me which is something I have always struggled with when I look in the mirror, even though people say I am good looking and I know they have a point.

    Since that day I have been embracing this new side of me about once a week. I am happy as a man and have no desire to dress full time, but at the same time I now recognise that there is this other side of me that needs to be part of my life.

    My wife has been really supportive, she prefers me in male mode which is completely understandable and I don’t have an issue with. But she is always there to talk to and compliments me on my look when I am dressed and says if I have created a good look with my makeup.

    I joined this site because as supportive as she has been, this can still be a lonely process sometimes and I wanted to be able to connect with people who might have a better understanding of my thoughts.

    Thank you for reading this.

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    • #638266
      Terri Anne
      Ambassador
      Registered On: February 7, 2018
      Topics: 32
      Replies: 1287
      Has thanked: 1907 times
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      Hello Stevie,

      Welcome to our amazing CrossDresserHeaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compaasion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrosDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat, Groups, etc.

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

       

      Regards,

      Terri Anne, Ambassador

       

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      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/chat/

       

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    • #638153
      Brianna Bay
      Baroness
      Registered On: March 24, 2021
      Topics: 4
      Replies: 57
      Has thanked: 373 times
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      Hi Stevie, welcome, its a wonderful place, and a wonderful life to live!!!! Embrace it, treat your wife as your BEST FRIENDS!!!! Because she is, best of luck
      Xx
      Brianna

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    • #638141
      Stevie Steiner
      Managing Ambassador
      Registered On: June 11, 2020
      Topics: 85
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      Stevie, welcome to CDH!   Congratulations on having found your way to the most supportive and warm hearted site  anywhere!  I am so happy you have a partner who is willing to understand and support you, however, as you said, it can be very lonely at times.  Though you may still be lonely at times know you are no longer alone.  The gals here are the best and always willing to lend a hand of help… or a shoulder to lean on!

      Welcome again  Stevie!  And I must say – what a pretty name.  😁

      Stevie

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    • #638136
      Alicen Thairms
      Lady
      Registered On: July 15, 2019
      Topics: 54
      Replies: 447
      Has thanked: 1752 times
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      Hi Stevie, welcome to CDH 🙂

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    • #637940
      Liara Wolfe
      Lady
      Registered On: August 14, 2021
      Topics: 3
      Replies: 1607
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      You are a lucky girl Stevie. Welcome to CDH.

      Hugs, Liara

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    • #637733
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
      Topics: 35
      Replies: 6372
      Has thanked: 12802 times
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      Stevie welcome to Cdh

      Stephanie 🌷

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    • #637723
      Tara Ryan
      Lady
      Registered On: April 20, 2021
      Topics: 4
      Replies: 524
      Has thanked: 1787 times
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      Hi Stevie,

      Welcome, I am also from the U.K. and I too have a supportive wife.  While this is really nice, like you I wanted to connect with other girls for friendship and support.

      It would be great to keep in touch, please feel free to message me.

      Tara.

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      • #638307
        Krissy
        Lady
        Registered On: June 4, 2021
        Topics: 0
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        Welcome to cdh stevie, glad you could join us, think you’ll find that this is the most relaxing inspiring place you’ll ever find on the whole Internet! When i joined I was just a every now and then dresser but since joining its spurred me on to be who I want to be ( female) and ive not lookEd back since, you couldn’t find a greater bunch of girls that will make you feel at home and no pressure at all. So whatever stage you’re at its all ok. So kick back and enjoy my friend. Hope you chat to anyone you like sweetie 💗

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      Stephanie Roberts
      Duchess
      Registered On: May 20, 2020
      Topics: 24
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      Hi Stevie, and welcome to CDH!
      It’s so lovely to meet you. It’s so great to see your wife encouraging you with this part of your life. As some others have said please thank her for her support.
      Love and hugs from Stephanie ❤️

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    • #637714
      Robyn Drake
      Managing Ambassador
      Registered On: March 19, 2019
      Topics: 55
      Replies: 754
      Has thanked: 1310 times
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      Hi Stevie,

      Welcome to CDH!

      – Robyn

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    • #637634
      Alice Underwire
      Lady
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
      Topics: 95
      Replies: 5400
      Has thanked: 7469 times
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      Hi Stevie,

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

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    • #637608
      Paulette Parfois
      Duchess
      Registered On: November 17, 2021
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 555
      Has thanked: 1879 times
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      Hi Stevie, and welcome. You sound so much like me. While I have no intention of ever transitioning, I truly enjoy being Paulette, and as you say it is not just about wearing the clothes but rather allowing my feminine nature to have an outlet. I too am fortunate to have an understanding wife and she too prefers me as a man, but then she does not object to the times we spend as girls as long as I don’t overdo it. Kind of the best of both worlds I guess. Hugs, Paulette

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    • #637512
      Stephanie Bass
      Hostess
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
      Topics: 25
      Replies: 3915
      Has thanked: 56087 times
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      Hi Stevie nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here on the best CD site on the internet so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies here telling there stories about there travels down there femme road in life .. When you get comfortable with us please join in with some comments to these ladies then girlfriend he he your turn yea just a story or two about your heart feld travels down your girly path in life .. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with.. As for your wife she is a gem her so please tell her thanks from our heart for being understanding of us and you..there is also a place for her here to join as For Wifes and Significant others for them only we cant go there just them to have a private place to chat with other wifes and SO s .. Again nice to meet you and buy your wife something nice as a thanks many of us here have very supportive wifes as my self included lots i feel for as still in the closet it will be a great day for them someday hugs girlfriend..

      Stephanie Bass

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    • #637506
      Chrissy Simpson
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: January 14, 2022
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 287
      Has thanked: 1670 times
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      Hello Stevie and welcome.  Glad to see your SO supports you.  There are a lot of forums for you to read here that can answer some questions for you and ask others of you  Enjoy the.  Also enjoy making some new friends.  It is a place to be safe and flourish.

      Chrissy

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    • #637503
      Jane Mansfield
      Lady
      Registered On: December 27, 2020
      Topics: 4
      Replies: 320
      Has thanked: 644 times
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      Hi Stevie, open discussions with partners can reveal and improve relationships.. So well done now on realizing this important part of yourself, and recognizing your wife. It is hard to go it alone.
      As you continue to become comfortable with this side of your life, buy your wife something for being understanding, or have a weekend somewhere. Works a treat.
      Stay calm wear a dress.live life.
      Best Wishes
      Jane

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