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This whole thing feels kinda weird to me. I’ve had these desires for the past 25+ years. Like many others they were handled poorly at times. The classics of purging & suppressing. The big change for me is that my wife is more open/trusting of me to explore the crossdressing. This has been healthier so far but has brought up unexpected feelings & thoughts. Particular shame as I’m not forced to deal with it, anxiety, & excitement because female clothes are so much more enjoyable. I did not know how much I’d enjoy putting on a necklace for the first time. I’d figure I come to a supportive place to get tips and not be as alone. That’s a nutshell about me.
Other notable things about me. I’m married with two young kids (the stress they cause has definitely reinforced the importance of crossdressing as a means of stress relief for myself). I love gaming in general. But my two favorite currently are Magic the Gathering and Dungeons & Dragons.
James lonelyness is something that shouldn’t take away from the happiness to dress. it’s wonderful to have someone to share with theses experiences even if it’s only through a site like us . Meet many of our ladies here and actually talk with them .tell your story we would love to hear. Always there to listen and offer comfort and support to help you with your concerns. We’re here and do understand so feel free to post your questions and answers will come and hopefully our help will put you at ease . Welcome …
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Hi James and welcome!
You really touched on something that hit me when you wrote about feeling shame for what you do. I didn’t truly grasp my feelings and desires to dress when I married my current wife. It had been something I had always felt ashamed of as if there was something wrong with me, and I had gone through several periods in my life when I was actively dressing in private. I would always reach a point when I’d tell myself “you’re a straight guy, why are you doing this?” The purge would come and then it would be years before I’d get that itch again. Having come out to my wife after our kids were born was terrifying and yet there was a sense of relief at finally telling someone else I still wanted to dress. After many nights of conversation, we came to an agreement that we were both happy with and allows me to be myself yet still be her husband and the father of our boys.
The current situation in the world has been stressful for everyone, and I can see how your situation is difficult. Mine is not as I’d like, since our kids have been home for over 7 months, so no cleaning & cooking in a pair of heels for me! Having a day off during the work week always allowed me the freedom to wear a cute outfit while doing some housework or just relaxing with a cup of coffee while watching a movie. I still have time at night when they are off to bed, when we can be together in our room and I can slip into something adorable for a few hours. Fortunately she is accepting of my need to relieve some stress and enjoys spending time with Heather a few nights a week. I hope you can find some time for yourself and keep reading many of the stories that are shared here. It’s been so refreshing to find a place to be open about who I am and my feelings for how I choose to live. Keep your head up!
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