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    Michelle Doherty
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    Registered On: January 1, 2022
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    Hi all

    I am pretty new to the scene, with my only real experience being wearing my ex-girlfriends clothes, when she was not around. Alas, we then broke up and much to my surprise, I started buying my own clothes. I am now at the stage, that I dress whenever I can, which is pretty difficult, as I live in  shared accommodation. I am looking for friends, who will help coax me into going outside and start dressing the way I want to and not the way I am “supposed” to. Any and I mean any advice, will be greatly

    My dream, is a crossdressing holiday. Somewhere, that I can go and be the the girl that I want to be 24/7, even if it is only for a short while. It sounds like a great way to build confidence, meet like minded girls, get advice and most importantly relax.

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    • #604785
      Stephanie Bass
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      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Michelle nice meeting you and hope you have some wonderful times with us we are very supportive of all who pass thru these doors so look around ask many questions and have fun girl  hugs..

      Stephanie bass

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      Alice Underwire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Michelle,

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

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      Requal Joanne
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      Welcome Michelle to this wonderful Heavenly address of friendly and supportive people; who probably share your dream of a CD holiday.

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      Sylvia
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      Registered On: October 10, 2021
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      Dear Michelle ,

      Welcome to the Sisterhood her on CDH !
      I am from the Netherlands myself.
      I am still in the closet , so I know everything
      about hiding my Feminine stuff , and taking advantage
      of every dressing opportunity that i get !

      I hope you will enjoy yourself here Michelle ,
      See you on the Forums !

      Love Sylvia.

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      Terri Anne
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      Registered On: February 7, 2018
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      Hello Irish,

      Welcome to our amazing site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore to your heart’s content.

      The warmth and hospitality of our community is just awesome.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on our site.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.  You can find the link on each member’s Profile page.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each.

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

      Regards,

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      Jennifer Sullivan
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      Registered On: December 31, 2021
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      Hi Michelle
      I had a a shared apt what I did was dress in my room put on sweat pants and took wig and shoes in bag I would go the cd gay bar change and Jennifer was out if roommate was working I wold go home as Jen if not I would reverse the pros was never was caught
      Hope this helps you

      Peace and love Jennifer Sullivan

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        Michelle Doherty
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        Hi Jennifer

        There are not many gay/clubs where I live and although the added pleasure of doing something naughty, is appealing, the consequences of being discovered are horrific.

        That said, I suppose I could get half dressed and cover up, like you say and drive to the countryside for a walk or to many of the small villages here.

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          Jennifer Sullivan
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          Yeah I am very careful when driving in high heels my worst fear is being pulled over by the cops fem looking male I d

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      Paulette Parfois
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      Registered On: November 17, 2021
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      Hi Michelle, Welcome! This is a place where love and support are in abundance. I think you will discover than most of us live pretty normal lives, and many of us have wives and family who are understanding and in various degrees of acceptance. The one thing I do know is if you have a question or concern, the ladies here have a wealth of advice, based on experience. By the way, much of my family is from Newry in the south. We try to get back there from Arizona whenever we can, even though this COVID nonsense has put a bit of a ‘crimp’ in our travels! Take care. Hugs, Paulette

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      • #604623
        Michelle Doherty
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        Hi Paulette

        I have already seen a lot of  the love and support, in the short time that I have been here. I am single, so at least that is not something to worry about.

        I hope you use sat nav the next time you come over, as Newry is in the North, not to far from where I live.

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          Paulette Parfois
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          Registered On: November 17, 2021
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          I thought you were in Belfast? Our family is actually from the little town of Mullaglass which is right on the A28 about .

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          • #604648
            Michelle Doherty
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            Newry is only 45 minutes away.

            Have you been over here much ?

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            Paulette Parfois
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            Not as much to Northern Ireland. We usually spend most of our time in down south with a good friend in Galway, then down to Doolin for the music and pubs! We normally fly into Dublin because of the abundance of flights from the US. I also prefer flying into Dublin because you can clear US Customs right at the Dublin airport when you head home, much like you can in Canada. The UK is a bit more ‘stodgy’ with its passport control (even though I lived there and had an office there for a while)!

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            Michelle Doherty
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            Lovely part of the country. Unfortunately, some people in the North of Ireland are centuries behind, when it comes to anything to do with gay/trans people or rights

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      Liara Wolfe
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      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      welcome to CDH.

      Hugs, Liara

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    • #604561
      Krissy
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      Registered On: June 4, 2021
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      You have a holiday in Brighton as its the most friendly city ever! As people just get on with there own stuff and the good thing is they dont stare or laugh! Seriously you would love it as it has a host of trans friendly shops,pubs and clubs and you also get a huge lung full of sea air! What’s not to like? Xx

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      • #604604
        Michelle Doherty
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        I have thought about Brighton, as I have read good things about the gay and trans scene there. The sooner we get rid of Covid,  the sooner I can plan in more detail. Hopefully I will have plenty of new girlfriends by then

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      Tara Ryan
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      Registered On: April 20, 2021
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      Hi Michelle,

      Welcome, it is nice to meet you.  The girls here are really friendly and supportive.  I am happy to help if I can, please feel free to message me if you have any questions.

      Tara.

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      • #604608
        Michelle Doherty
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        Registered On: January 1, 2022
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        Hi Tara

        Absolutely love your hair and eyes.

        Any advice on hair removal, wigs and push up bras would be lovely.

        Unfortunately I am not really in a position to practice make up and watching the videos, just makes me sad that I can’t do it.

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      Stephanie Flowers
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      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Welcome sweetie..happy to have you join with us.Certainly a place to discover cross dressing and learn if there really is more to this.Our ladies here are fabulous in helping out, from advice to tips on improving ones self to the emotional feelings we are experiencing .Make friendships and feel free to contact us if there’s anything that you may need. Happy to meet you and enjoy being part of a community that cares.

       

      Stephanie 🌹

       

       

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    • #604553
      Alanna Ross
      Registered On: January 2, 2022
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      Welcome to CDH Colleen,

      You have come to the right place for support, friendship and advice.

      Take a tour of the forums a lot of great information can be found there.

      Alanna

      xo

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    • #604545
      John Fitzpatrick
      Registered On: October 13, 2021
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      Hi colleen.i have increased my wearing over the last few months and as of the 1st january.full time am Mandy fitzpatrick.my first wig arrived today.very excited

      Mandy

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      • #604612
        Michelle Doherty
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        Registered On: January 1, 2022
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        Ooh you have me all excited now too. It is posts like this that let me know that my life can begin again

         

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