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    • #433881
      patty williams
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      Registered On: January 19, 2019
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      HI Grace,

      I couldn’t agree more.

      I know a lot of our C/D ing  has a sexual side to it and there is nothing wrong with that.

      I love feeling sexy its a part of being feminine.

      However This place is set up to be a place we can talk and share about wonderful feminine things and gain friendships In a safe and clean manner and be safe .

      I think our staff does great job keeping this place safe and clean and allowing us to skirt right up to the line of what’s  not acceptable.

      I know they struggle to not offend us for being over the line and at the same time protect us and keep this place wholesome.

      Thank you to all the staffers that struggle everyday to protect us and at the same time not offend and insult us.

      I know my self I love feeling sexy and talking about it from time to time.

      I hope I dont make you staffers jobs any more difficult.

      As Grace said lets think a bit about what we are about to discuss and consider our fellow CDH mrs and our wonderful staff that works so hard to give us this great site.

      Patty

       

       

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    • #433689
      Bettylou Cox
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      I’m with you all the way, Grace. Since this is a “free” site, we will attract folks who are looking for a hookup site or other cheap thrill. They are always here, then gone in a couple of days because of the great work our moderators do to keep us PG-rated. And I truly appreciate their work. If I wanted the other stuff (I don’t), I would go to …… hub  and get my fill.

      Hugs,
      Bettylou (and Ziggy)

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      • #433754
        Anonymous
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        Thanks Bettylou

        even with my vivid imagination, I just cannot conjure up a picture of Ziggy try to access pornhub……and long may it remain that way!!!

    • #433636
      Rozalyne Richards
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      Hi girls I’m laughing my socks off at all the lovely jokes, keep up the good work please x I love coming on CDH because of all the wonderful people on here, i know it’s a safe place to come to and share my love of cross-dressing with like minded people,

      Can i join you in the naughty corner Grace

      Hugs Rozalyne x

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      • #433753
        Anonymous
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        Roz…once you are sent to the Naughty Corner three times…your a life member!!

        from……”Carry on Cabby”….

        Hattie Jacques, after she is given a fur coat: “Oh, it’s lovely.”

        Sid James as husband: “Genuine mammoth, that is.”

        Hattie: “Oh, don’t be silly.”

        Sid: “It said so on the shop window ‘mammoth fur sale’.”

        Grace xx

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    • #433223
      BillieJay
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      sooooooooooo… tell me…

      these posts are searchable from Google.

      Trolls see them, and come into the site to get in on the flirty and the “sleeping with”.

      how do I delete a troll doing the same thing without being a hypocrite?

      things that detract from our mission, whether it be politics or “had a date and slept with…” are just that, distractions from our mission.

      don’t get me wrong, I like flirty, I like images that “inflame the soul”, but things that attract trolls and detract from our primary mission of supporting the needs of the CD/TG/TS emotional and counseling support do not belong on this site.

      take them elsewhere.

      • #433229
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        Omg…searchable by Google…I didn’t know that, not that I am worried about me!!

        …but what you are saying is that every bit of ” dodgy stuff” that gets through can snowball!!!????

        we live and learn…

        Thank you BJ.   xx

    • #433207
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      Yes….I know it’s HARD TO BELIEVE, but even as we discuss this…a post called ” if a guy made love to me” has been removed from the forum….it’s really beyond belief…and to be honest, I really have had enough….I don’t need this c**p in my life

      • #433560
        Laura Lovett
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        That was the post I was referring to, Grace.

        Wish I could think of something funny to say, but posts like that make me lose my sense of humour for some reason…

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      • #433233
        Araminta Purdy
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        I should add that if someone wants to private message me about their sexuality or mine, I don’t mind. Nobody does, so I don’t expect much anyway.

        However, if you are just going to be, shall we see, suggestive or importuning, without any flair or imagination, my interests will be:

        Why do you do this?

        What do you expect or hope to accomplish?

        Are you just abysmally lonely? (Aren’t we all, really?)

        Do you get a thrill from being shocking?

        Does it make you feel empowered? Why?

        Are you just desperate for human contact and lack the social or conversational skills to initiate a conversation?

        I would like to understand.

        Araminta.

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        • #433555
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          Are you just abysmally lonely?.

          you are so dry, you should be a martini…haha

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          • #433623
            Araminta Purdy
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            Green Vesper, actually. Made with the good stuff!

            Araminta.

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          • #433581
            Laura Lovett
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            Reminds me of the lovely German person who went into a bar and asked for a Martini.

            The barman asked “Dry?”

            The gorgeous blonde fraulein said “No, just the one, please…”.

            Then a Roman came in and asked for a Martinus.

            The barman asked “Don’t you mean a Martini?”

            The Roman said “If I’d wanted a double, I would have asked…”.

            Another Roman came into the bar, held up 2 fingers and said “Five Martinis please”.

            A giraffe walked into a bar and ordered 6 Martinis.

            Shame on you for waiting for a punchline, this giraffe needs help!

            A man starts choking on the garnish in his Martini.

            The barman asks “Are you alright?”

            The man recovers a little and replies…

            “Olive.”

            #GetsCoat

             

             

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          • #433756
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            Haha…brilliant….

            Name : Laura

            Hobby: Roman around bars!!

             

      • #433220
        Sa•man•tha
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        Oh the irony 🙄

    • #433160
      Angela Booth
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      I love to discuss proclivity but won’t be Woo’d otherwise some may have it infamy….

      Our matron can’t be woo’d……

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      • #433212
        Anonymous
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        Oooeerrr…stop mucking about!!!

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        • #433551
          Amanda Burton
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          Mucking about “That a pound”

    • #433150
      Araminta Purdy
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      I am a big fan of openness, frankness and honesty in matters of sexual intimacy. I probably prefer some degree of explicit discussion simply to counteract the millennia of ignorance, misinformation and, frankly, lies. We need and deserve the truth and cannot progress meaningfully without it. I may be a bit insensitive at times with my eagerness to understand and to express myself but I do not intentionally intend to offend and do not like it when some people are deliberately and cruelly offensive.

      On the other hand:

      There is a need for empathy, courtesy and above all a need to be a (if somewhat shady) lady at all times. What we do affects others and affects the way cross-dressers are generally viewed.

      Additionally:

      I like to flirt. If I see someone who looks particularly pleasing I like to express that pleasure. I try not to be too crude and If I am, I am sorry. Otherwise I just LOVE femininity regardless of the other person’s sex.

      Araminta.

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      • #433213
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        Araminta…”the shady lady”

        love it !!!

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    • #433134
      Laura Lovett
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      I honestly wonder if some people even notice threads lime this sometimes.

      I nearly threw up when I read a recent forum post…

      Then I nearly replied – but, out of deference to my lovely sisters, I restrained myself…

      😍😍😍

      Love Laura

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    • #433090
      Emily Violet
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      I look some time to decide whether to join this site or not.

      Then more time to start to take part in any forums, I sill haven’t taken part much, I’m taking my time

      but my reason for joining this site above any other is that its first and foremost  a support site and not a sex or fetish site and long may it last

       

       

       

    • #433066
      Cindy Lou
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      It’s unfortunate that we can’t discuss the unique relationship cross dressing and sexuality have within a couple without it degenerating into garden variety sexting. There must be ways it can be done but I’m hard pressed to conceive of a set of rules that would allow it, even then it wouldn’t be too long before somebody would step over the line.

      As an example consider the popular fantasy many heterosexual CDers have of being with a man in the biblical sense, to which I might counter ‘That’s not for me per se, but when I’m dressed I’d like to explore that kind of sex with my wife’. My point that I’m sure most of you intelligent ladies already understand is with the right choice of words we can convey pertinent concepts and paint a picture that readers can fill in for themselves without getting vulgar or altering the intent of this helpful and supportive forum we have all helped create.

      (3) The Simpsons – I Had Sex – YouTube

       

       

       

       

      • #433189
        Kathleen
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        Carefull however.. we know the trolls and scumbags are out there waiting to pounce. I truly love the conversation here and I really don’t want them to wreck it.

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        • #433225
          Cindy Lou
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          I do understand why it can never happen Kathleen. Early on when I first joined another forum I naively made a post wondering why the topic of sex never seemed to come up, it didn’t take long before I received a PM telling me how I should check out a site I had never heard of before called ***life. Eager to learn all I could I joined up there with the intent of educating myself, long story short I quickly deleted my account after seeing things I wish I could unsee, and believe me I’m no prude.

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          • #433585
            Kathleen
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            I’m sure. For me I trust my sisters here as I’m sure you do as well

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    • #433043
      Jamie Taal
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      I agree. I have been a member of CDH for over a year now and i love the fact that I can have decent conversations with CD’s and their SO without the topic being dragging through the mud. I followed a few other CD sites and Reddit and I tired of them quickly. This is why I found and am almost exclusive to CDH. I also directed my wife to this site to be a SO member for insight and perspective for non-sexual discussions and articles from both CD’s and SO. I hope it stays this way since it is already an uphill climb for me to get my SO to see my situation/predicament from our perspective without it still being viewed solely as a degenerate sexual deviance. Onward and upward.

    • #433036
      Sally Drinkwater
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      It was once stated that there are lies, damn lies and cross dressers fantasies. (I think it was Danny la rue or it could have been me?)

      I trawl through the forums every day looking for something I can reply to without upsetting the author so why bother?

      What stops me is the number of people who thank the sender and send in an unlikely reply of their own!

      Perhaps there should be a ‘no thank you button?’

      See Danny la rue in Private Fred.

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    • #432970
      Stevie Steiner
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      There must be more than enough places on the internet for people to get that sorta crap.  Leave CDH alone!!  I’ve always thought we shine brightest as a support site, and we do.  A safe house for those looking for help, understanding, sharing the stories of our journey – good and bad –  and, oh ya, some fun too!   Everything else can bugger off.

      Stevie ❤

    • #432968
      Dawn Wyvern
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      Hi all

      As you may have seen I am one of the site Admins who look after the Forums and Chat Rooms areas. We are a small team who try to maintain site standards and remove inappropriate posts and individuals when and where needed.

      We are not prudes by any stretch of the imagination, but have guidelines and protocols we follow to ensure constancy as well as a hierarchy of control where we can defer things upwards.

      Personally, I have been busier here with some of the posts where people seem to be asking ‘raunchier’ questions and we have had a large amount of unwanted interest from ‘admirers’ and ‘trolls’ over the last few months which required an exhaustive effort from all the team on every level to overcome and manage.

      Most of the time I tend to nudge people to amend their posts with a gentle word in their ear, sometimes I’ll amend posts and inform them, and in the worst scenario I’ll remove a post that is not seen to be meeting the site standards or that has become a ‘heated’ discussion.

      Thank you all who are on the site and support us who moderate the posts, we try to do our best, but we are also active participants here too.

      See the link that Sa*man*tha has posted please for guidance on the site

      Hugs

      Dawn ( Matron, WPC,  and Admin)

      • #433026
        stephanie plumb
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        Carry on Matron!

        Matron: “I’m a simple woman, with simple tastes, and I want to be wooed!”

        Sir Bernard Cutting : “Ooh, you can be as ‘wude’ as you like with me!”

        Hattie Jacques was wonderful, as are you dear Matron.

        • #433032
          Dawn Wyvern
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          Well I am a  Nurse Practitioner  and getting on a bit, so have been labelled a matron at work by my crew !!

          it just seems to fit – and I love Hattie who was one of my role models with I was a student nurse in the 70’s !

          Dawn x

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        • #433030
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          Steph…don’t start me off on ” carry on films”….where no entendre is left undoubted!!!

          Doctor…..I dreamed about you last night nurse

          Nurse…… did you doctor???

          Doctor…..no, you wouldn’t let me!!

           

          • #433561
            Amanda Burton
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            Dreams “They are extras” how much? “That a be a pound”

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          • #433063
            stephanie plumb
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            What a wonderful, slightly naughty, rich-picking  ground that could be!  Opportunity knocks!  Food for thought and consideration…… Carry on CDH!   We could cast Rei as Ivor Biggun!  We’ve already got Dr T.J. as Mary Poppins.  Oh! the possibilities……

            If  Matron doesn’t mind…..

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          • #433577
            Amanda Burton
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            Casting “That a be a pound”

          • #433093
            Anonymous
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            Carry on dressing!!!

            Can I put forward Sammy as……….

            Constable Constable

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            Amanda Burton
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            How about Kenneth Williams, played by Stevie Steiner, Joan Sims, played by Stephanie Plumb.

            Anyone seen “Cooking Fat”

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          • #433755
            stephanie plumb
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            Grace – she would make a lovely  Babs Windsor. She is a saucy blonde is she not? –  a perfect Goldie Locks. Waving her jiggle sisters about.

            And Rei Durden as Sarah Allcock?   Amanda could play Gloria Passworthy or Daphne Honeybutt.  Or drag up as Sid James?

          • #433099
            Emily Violet
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            Infamy Infamy

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          • #433116
            Anonymous
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            Oh yes Emily… brilliant…..

            Dann Dann, the sanitary man x

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        Matron Dawn….you all do a wonderful job and long may it continue….I’m sure I can speak for others when I say, we all love you !!!

    • #432967
      Sa•man•tha
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      *CDH Community Guidelines*

      Please stick with these, everyone.  This is a family friendly support site for cd and tg individuals, it’s not for kink, fetish, sex chat or dating. These guidelines are contained in the terms of service everyone agreed to when they joined.

      Thank you 🙂

    • #432962
      stephanie plumb
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      Yes…. Totally agree Grace.

      What girls get up to, or want to get up to, in the  bedroom (or wherever,) is personal to them, and I and many others have zero interest in sharing it with them. Bragging of one’s sexual proclivities, or prowess can be an indicator of inadequacy.  It is also insidious because it can (and has been), used as bait to tempt the unwary, or as a platform to be suggestive and lewd,  in the guise of  giving compliments or appreciation.

      I would be interested in a statement from the Constabulary as to whether there has been a recent increase. It could be that some newer members are not aware of the boundaries and so unwittingly fall into the trap, out of pure enthusiasm, when they read something containing overtly sexual content.

      I too sometimes like to “sail close to the wind”  with the naughty corner (proud to be a member) – purely for fun  – and I am careful to keep within the bounds of decency.

      Free speech is one thing – subverting it publish ones sexual desires or to peddle filth is another.

      As Grace said :   “Think before you ink.”

      notinterestedinyoursexualadventures, Stephanie P

    • #432767
      Amanda Burton
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      Totally agree Grace, although sailing close to the wind is some times exciting to a point. Like you I don’t want to read about someone sexual adventures.,or read absolute filth. Conversation, support, help, company, and some humour thrown in with advice, all under an umbrella of a safe haven where we can make some amazing friends, and be what we want to be just us,with a lot love to share.

    • #432765
      Regine Rich
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      Couldnt agree more, Grace. I come here to feel safe, and explore my femininity, to learn more about myself, and yes, to laugh at all the silly stuff we post. I thank our wonderful police force:-)
      Hugs, Regi

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