- April 16, 2022 at 9:35 am #639138Betty RockwellParticipantRegistered On: March 9, 2022Topics: 18Replies: 146Has thanked: 229 timesBeen thanked: 1328 times
I am wondering how many of you have a wife that is intimate with you while you are either fully or partially dressed?
I try to be accommodating in this regard for my husband even though it is not my preference. It seems a lot of the ladies I have talked to would love to be intimate with their wives while dressed but it is a hard pass from their wives. Genuinely curious.
- September 26, 2023 at 6:36 pm #768891Tricia DreamLadyRegistered On: July 7, 2023Topics: 1Replies: 42Has thanked: 113 timesBeen thanked: 181 times
I guess it depends on her mood. Sometimes my wife would let me pick something out to wear or pick something out herself. Other times, she would start getting in the mood, feel the tights under my jeans and completely stop and roll away from me. Our intimacy time is so few and far between now that it’s a moot point
- September 26, 2023 at 12:40 pm #768817Patti MyselfLadyRegistered On: September 25, 2023Topics: 5Replies: 68Has thanked: 166 timesBeen thanked: 333 times
- September 26, 2023 at 2:44 pm #768852J JLadyRegistered On: September 13, 2019Topics: 13Replies: 1110Has thanked: 1 timeBeen thanked: 4697 times
That is my take as well. Sexy lingwrie is just plain erotic. No reason it can not be as erotic on men as women. My wife knows I like it and likes to please me, so ir is great in thay respecrt, but I like to pleasure her, and if she will acxept me in swxy lingerie, I.will do my best to please her as best I can. It is teuly a.qin/win situation.
- September 26, 2023 at 10:58 pm #768917Cece XLadyRegistered On: April 8, 2020Topics: 56Replies: 244Has thanked: 6627 timesBeen thanked: 1950 times
I am having a similar situation with my girlfriend, JJ, She has a very large collection of sexy bras and panties and keeps buying more and more. I think because she likes them for herself, she likes them on me too. She just bought me a sexy, lacey bra and panty set. She and I agree that sexy is sexy, no matter who is wearing.
Curiously, however, she has stated that she does not want to see me in full drag. Even mentioning dresses or shoes is a tremendous and immediate turn off for her. I can only fully dress when I am home alone. I can live with that compromise.
- September 26, 2023 at 2:54 pm #768854Patti MyselfLadyRegistered On: September 25, 2023Topics: 5Replies: 68Has thanked: 166 timesBeen thanked: 333 times
- September 18, 2023 at 11:18 am #767279Sam BondLadyRegistered On: May 3, 2021Topics: 0Replies: 3Has thanked: 1 timeBeen thanked: 15 times
Hi Betty,unfortunately my wife thinks its an abomination and if she catches me crossdressing again she will leave me. I understand her feelings but it is such a shame she is so threatened by it that we are no longer intimate at all.
- September 26, 2023 at 4:02 pm #768865LadyRegistered On: September 25, 2023Topics: 5Replies: 68Has thanked: 166 timesBeen thanked: 333 times
Wow. That is just so sad. I can only imagine how you feel with her saying that to you. I would think your marriage would mean more to her than just having a crossdessing hubby. Have there been other issues and she may just be adding this to them? If not she is being totally unreasonable. Really sorry that you have to face this. :(
- September 20, 2023 at 9:44 pm #767737TheresaDuchessRegistered On: March 13, 2016Topics: 0Replies: 27Has thanked: 43 timesBeen thanked: 122 times
Sadly, I can only dress when she’s away on business or whatever. It’s sad but I also understand. I wasn’t forthcoming when we first met. I love her and it would be wonderful to be able wear something pretty in bed with her sometime.
- September 18, 2023 at 4:07 am #767193AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
MyMy ex-wife wasn’t into sex with me dressed as she said I looked like a trussed up chicken.
My girlfriends since my divorce have all been willing and in some cases very keen to be intimate while I was dressed and it is really good.
I don’t think I would want a relationship where I couldn’t dress all the time.
This is a thing I attempt to test in the early stages of a possible relationship because it is important to me.
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- August 25, 2023 at 4:46 am #762416Emily ShyLadyRegistered On: August 12, 2023Topics: 0Replies: 71Has thanked: 299 timesBeen thanked: 314 times
My SO has been on occasion. The first time I dressed in front of her the sex was amazing but kinda fizzled from there. Other things happened in our life and opportunity hasn’t really allowed anything, the occasion i underdress we have been intimate but I’m not sure how forced on her behalf that is lol. I wish she was more into it an I’m jealous of other relationships that openly enjoy it
- August 24, 2023 at 5:21 am #762223LadyRegistered On: April 8, 2020Topics: 56Replies: 244Has thanked: 6627 timesBeen thanked: 1950 times
My girlfriend and I often enjoy wearing a bra and panties together, but not every day, only a few times each week. This is her limit. She will not permit me to go any further, either in or out of bed.
I wish she was open to more. She knows I have forms and dresses in the bureau. These are for DADT situations when she is traveling and I am home alone.
I have to accept her conditions. It is better than nothing. I feel blessed but also live in hope that someday I will be free to live and lie down in peace with her without limitations on clothing.
- June 30, 2023 at 2:09 pm #748218Ashley FloresDuchessRegistered On: March 26, 2023Topics: 1Replies: 8Has thanked: 20 timesBeen thanked: 66 times
My wife is intimate with me while I am en femme. However, I am careful to make sure that she’s okay with it before we get intimate. There are times when she would rather be intimate when I’m not en femme..which is more than okay! I respect her wishes. We’ve gone as far to develop code words to use when she’s not in the mood to be intimate with Ashley, and when she’s in the mood to be intimate with Ashley. The code words seem to work out extremely well for us because it allows us to break the ice easier about intimacy expectations while I am en femme.
- September 20, 2023 at 9:54 pm #767738TheresaDuchessRegistered On: March 13, 2016Topics: 0Replies: 27Has thanked: 43 timesBeen thanked: 122 times
When she’s okay with it, is she feeling you as another woman? That would be pretty nice actually. Or does she run her hands over your panty and feel you down there? I’d definitely be aroused feeling fem, wearing jewelry and pretty clothes.
- September 21, 2023 at 9:07 am #767866karley delawareBaroness - AnnualRegistered On: October 23, 2017Topics: 10Replies: 472Has thanked: 2634 timesBeen thanked: 1548 times
Hi Theresa ……………I’d like to be the ………other woman …………..the lipstick lesbian …………………….wearing the pretty clothes and jewelry …………………..the sweet girly one ……………karley
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- June 3, 2023 at 5:56 am #742385AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
My wife did twice and then never again. Like some of the other posts my stated she is not attracted to females so this does not work for her. I loved the two times we did this.
Same here, it was amazing. I still dress but our intimate days have gone forever, unfortunately.
- June 2, 2023 at 11:47 am #742242Alanna RossRegistered On: May 25, 2023Topics: 1Replies: 43Has thanked: 29 timesBeen thanked: 203 times
I am single and even though I consider myself bi I prefer to date men. And if I am intimate with a date it is as Alanna.
I want to be girly, feminine for my date and what better way than wearing something sexy to bed.
- May 24, 2023 at 4:31 am #740623AnonymousLadyTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
Since transitioning to live as Michelle I’ve only been intimate with men, but it’s an absolute precondition that I am Michelle the entire time. I will only play the “female” role and must be wearing my wig and breast forms. This sadly means that I have to keep my bra on. I’m looking forward to the day when I can take it off and be fully naked with a lover.
- May 23, 2023 at 10:07 am #740471JennyLadyRegistered On: January 5, 2017Topics: 7Replies: 45Has thanked: 3 timesBeen thanked: 134 times
So on and off my wife will not mind me dress as Jenny. This means a bra and breast forms then a nice teddy on with lite makeup. She even gets into it and will rub my chest and talk dirty to me. And then there is times when i try and i am dressed and she wants nothing to do with Jenny and if i say ok i will take it all off she states don’t bother she is nit in the mode and walks away.😥
For me i love to be dresses, and when it comes to sex i get more accited and feel more romantic when i am dresses in nightgown or teddy of some sort.
- May 22, 2023 at 9:37 am #740285Yael LyonsDuchessRegistered On: October 9, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 48Has thanked: 553 timesBeen thanked: 149 times
My wife did twice and then never again. Like some of the other posts my stated she is not attracted to females so this does not work for her. I loved the two times we did this.
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- May 22, 2023 at 9:13 am #740279Jill QuinnLadyRegistered On: July 24, 2021Topics: 5Replies: 382Has thanked: 3447 timesBeen thanked: 1786 times
To answer your question, yes, my wife is willing to be intimate with me while I’m dressed, whether partially or completely. However, I respect the fact that she married a man because she is attracted to men and not women, so I don’t dress up very often for intimacy. It’s to her credit that she is willing to indulge my fantasies now and then. I’m very lucky to have her.
- May 23, 2023 at 6:08 am #740446LadyRegistered On: September 13, 2019Topics: 13Replies: 1110Has thanked: 1 timeBeen thanked: 4697 times
This has been pretty much the dynamic in our house. She seems to enjoy my being dressed and the sex has been great when I am (and it is great when I am not), but I do not want, or need, to dress to often. I jokingly blame her for my desire to dress, because the sex is so good when I dress that she positively reinforces my dressed because it is so good. I have always told near she can tell me if I have gone too far, but that has never happened, so I have to assume she is fine with me being dressed. While she has never actively encouraged me to dress, she has never discourage it, and by her active participation does encourage me to dress, though I intentionally keep it limited.
That all said, it has been awhile since we were intimate fully dressed (though my wear lingerie is quite frequent), so I am looking forward to getting fully dressed with her very soon.
- May 20, 2023 at 4:44 pm #739942Jennifer GriffithsLadyRegistered On: August 7, 2021Topics: 3Replies: 13Has thanked: 47 timesBeen thanked: 98 times
I personally am very lucky to have a wife who embraces me being femme or masc. She is a bisexual woman who occasionally desires the feel of being with a woman. She really enjoys intimacy difference when I am fully dressed and smooth. Once in a while we even reverse roles and she assumes the position as a the male.
I don’t get the opportunity to dress as often as I would like and be intimate, as I still get feelings of wanting to hide it regardless of her level of acceptance.
In summary, we both enjoy the intimacy in a different and new way.
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- May 22, 2023 at 11:40 am #740299Tiny TinkerbellLadyRegistered On: May 19, 2023Topics: 3Replies: 137Has thanked: 1530 timesBeen thanked: 540 times
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- May 22, 2023 at 4:53 am #740224Darlene Rose,LadyRegistered On: May 19, 2023Topics: 0Replies: 31Has thanked: 195 timesBeen thanked: 109 times
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My wife and I recently tried reversing the roles, and although she didn’t really care for it, it was heavenly to me. I would love to do much more often!
- May 20, 2023 at 2:44 pm #739926HarrietteLadyRegistered On: April 22, 2023Topics: 16Replies: 982Has thanked: 3517 timesBeen thanked: 2410 times
To be intimate with me en femme, my wife might want to be interested in being intimate with me at all.
She gave up many decades ago.
- May 20, 2023 at 4:46 am #739831Darlene Rose,LadyRegistered On: May 19, 2023Topics: 0Replies: 31Has thanked: 195 timesBeen thanked: 109 times
My wife dislikes and don’t even want to see me when I dress Feminine, let alone be intimate, But I will tell you that it would be my dream to be able to dress Feminine and be able to be intimate with the one I Love, I believe it would be very arousing , and it would take sexuality to the next level , But for now it’s just my Fantasy, Thanks for the article and your story,
- May 17, 2023 at 1:45 am #739257Christy775LadyRegistered On: April 18, 2023Topics: 1Replies: 24Has thanked: 27 timesBeen thanked: 124 times
Yes my wife and I have been intimate together while I was dressed, and actually it’s extremely rare that I’m not dressed , either simple panties and a nightie or maybe even more. She accepts that it’s me and it’s what I enjoy, and if I’m enjoying it then I’m even more into it and wanting to satisfy her needs before my own. I asked her was it like being with another “real” woman? She said it didn’t really matter because she loves me and regardless of what I’m wearing she is getting what she needs from the situation. We have taken it further at times to test the waters, having her call me by my female name, teasing me and only touching me in the way you would touch a female, can’t get to detailed or graphic here though! But the simple answer is YES, it’s our normal routine now.
- May 16, 2023 at 11:07 pm #739159AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
It seems as if your posts here point to how you really feel. You love your husband but you are not comfortable with where things are going. Just as though we cannot change ourselves, you cannot change yourself either. So i would say either set concrete barriers, go to marriage counseling, or its time to have a serious talk.
My wife also “accommodates” me. We have set barriers and I respect them, but I do fear that one day its all going to come crashing down. Just like “i didnt ask for this”, she also didnt “ask for this”. It will be an ongoing test of our love and respect for each other. I hope everything works out for you as it does for us also. Try to keep open communication about how you feel. It doesnt do any good to keep feelings to yourself even if they are “negative”, or in other words, honest.
- May 16, 2023 at 8:57 pm #739150Diane JonesLadyRegistered On: January 5, 2019Topics: 0Replies: 4Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 31 times
Yes, my current girlfriend is very supportive. When I am not dressed,she checks on me to make sure I am ok. Our intimate moments just keep getting better. I may have to keep this one 🤗🤗
- May 16, 2023 at 6:48 pm #739131Marlene RobertsLadyRegistered On: December 9, 2019Topics: 0Replies: 468Has thanked: 7031 timesBeen thanked: 1302 times
Wife is OK with me in pantie and bra, or a nightdress. She is not into women sexually at all so me being fully dressed (she has seen me many times and is fully supportive) would be/is a big turn off for her. Best, Marlene.
- May 16, 2023 at 5:37 pm #739123Mariana S.LadyRegistered On: April 10, 2023Topics: 2Replies: 81Has thanked: 262 timesBeen thanked: 302 times
When I first came out, a handful of times. She said that, even though it was not her thing, the confidence I had in panties turned her on. Once she even took pictures and commented on my garter belt during the act. And then… she realized she doesn’t like it. Yesterday she actually reinforced that she “can’t deal with the panties thing”. She also asked if it hurt me. I half-lied and said “not really, but I would be very happy if you did like it”.
So I pretty much stopped letting her see me when I dress, and will be careful not to let her notice I’m underdressing, either (panties with clasps do help). I will also keep my dirties in a laundry bag in a nightstand drawer so she doesn’t have to wash them accidentally — even though 99% of the time I’m the one doing the laundry. My main concern is that, if (or when) my dressing goes beyond underwear, I will have to choose between being honest to myself or keeping her happy.
- May 14, 2023 at 6:35 am #738549Briana BrianaLadyRegistered On: October 30, 2022Topics: 5Replies: 28Has thanked: 232 timesBeen thanked: 133 times
- May 13, 2023 at 10:07 pm #738498LadyRegistered On: April 8, 2020Topics: 56Replies: 244Has thanked: 6627 timesBeen thanked: 1950 times
When my girlfriend and I began dating last summer, she was supportive enough to buy me several panties. Now, 10 months later, I suspect the novelty is wearing off on her. She has told me that underwear was her limit, so she has only seen me in bra and panties. I wish I could wear them (and other lingerie) to bed with her every night, but I am cautious to wear them with her only sporadically.
- May 13, 2023 at 9:10 pm #738494DuchessRegistered On: March 13, 2016Topics: 0Replies: 27Has thanked: 43 timesBeen thanked: 122 times
I love feeling pretty in lingerie. I get hard wearing pretty things. Does that happen for you as well? Just curious what might be happening. I also love to wear jewelry and that has been a problem as I guess it’s a bit too feminine.
- May 16, 2023 at 8:23 pm #739142DuchessRegistered On: March 13, 2016Topics: 0Replies: 27Has thanked: 43 timesBeen thanked: 122 times
Off topic because it’s not regarding a wife or SO but I’m totally the same way… I love wearing pretty things and jewelry is always the first thing I think about even before nice clothing. I just love the way necklaces, bracelets and rings feel on me. I’ve only done that alone however because I’m not sure how that would be accepted. This is the first time I’ve talked about it so thanks.
- February 28, 2023 at 1:15 pm #721632Kara McNallyLadyRegistered On: November 8, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 86Has thanked: 7 timesBeen thanked: 330 times
Always wear lingerie usually a panty, bra, half slip or full slip, woman’s fragrance and a woman’s robe to start. Married 45 years. I do like to throw on a lesbian DVD to move things along.
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- May 13, 2023 at 9:11 pm #738495DuchessRegistered On: March 13, 2016Topics: 0Replies: 27Has thanked: 43 timesBeen thanked: 122 times
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I love perfume. Subtle and not overpowering. I fantasize about being kissed and only then can he smell it. And it turns him on even more kissing my neck. You get it I’m sure.
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- February 27, 2023 at 11:46 am #721375Brenda MaidenformLadyRegistered On: December 17, 2018Topics: 3Replies: 138Has thanked: 234 timesBeen thanked: 605 times
Yes we have wonderful times while I’m dressed as long as my outfits aren’t too scratchy!!
- February 27, 2023 at 10:34 am #721370Shelly Diane LynnLadyRegistered On: March 27, 2018Topics: 1Replies: 37Has thanked: 268 timesBeen thanked: 214 times
We are both in our late 60s and early 70s my wife is fine with me being more of a woman than a man. We have not been intimate for years now our relationship is much more like best girls friends rather than husband and wife. I think we are very happy and would rather be girl friends.
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- February 27, 2023 at 8:27 am #721343Sherri RemingtonDuchess - AnnualRegistered On: August 8, 2018Topics: 2Replies: 336Has thanked: 294 timesBeen thanked: 1333 times
Hi Betty, I have to say how envious I am of all you out there that have the chance for intimacy with your SO. As somewhat excepting my wife is with Sherri, there is no way she will be intimate with her. It is truly a wonderful thing that you share your intimacy with him and care for his feelings.
- February 27, 2023 at 7:29 am #721322Sarah CarLadyRegistered On: February 25, 2023Topics: 4Replies: 64Has thanked: 99 timesBeen thanked: 271 times
Hi , yes we do get intimate , she likes to be in bed with her girlfriend as she calls me , it adds a bit of spice to things and brings us closer together
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- October 23, 2022 at 5:15 am #685237MeredithLadyRegistered On: November 27, 2017Topics: 3Replies: 79Has thanked: 190 timesBeen thanked: 291 times
Ex wife was on and off. One day great with it, the next throwing, literally throwing a fit about it. She was very controlling and looking back, I think very uncertain of her own sexuality. My wife is ok with my dressing around the house. Not so encouraging, but consistently ok. We tried intimacy a few times with pantyhose and she found she was not comfortable. So, I dress for all but sex. That is a compromise, but one we can both be happy with.
- October 23, 2022 at 12:43 am #685197Wanda OvahearRegistered On: October 19, 2022Topics: 16Replies: 918Has thanked: 1758 timesBeen thanked: 2910 times
I wasn’t active from courtship until our kids were grown. There was banter about role reversal but that’s all. For us it started in the bedroom and grew from there, it’s our thing now. I still go at her pace in terms of public dressing — while pushing the envelope, of course.
- October 23, 2022 at 12:16 am #685191DuchessRegistered On: March 13, 2016Topics: 0Replies: 27Has thanked: 43 timesBeen thanked: 122 times
For us, it’s sort of a down the middle approach. She’s fine with me wearing anything I feel pretty in, teddy or nightgown, although I don’t really like nightgowns lately, it seems old fashioned and I prefer something shorter, also lighter and lacy. Bra is okay but no forms. Jewelry is okay too, which is great because I love the feeling wearing necklaces, rings and bracelets. No wig or makeup. I feel pretty lucky actually. She looks pretty in lingerie or even flannel jammies so it’s okay she doesn’t really share the same passion although I do love it when she has a long silk nightgown on and we snuggle up.
- October 15, 2022 at 1:42 pm #683543Christine ThomasLadyRegistered On: October 12, 2022Topics: 10Replies: 276Has thanked: 941 timesBeen thanked: 1077 times
What a fantastic question. Well done for bringing this up. It is obviously generated a lot of interest based on the large number of responses.
For my wife and I, we are intimate both ways, girl on girl and the more conventional husband and wife. My wife says my dressing does not really ‘turn her on’, but she understands my needs to be dressed and to be as much as a woman as I can. So I am often (usually) dressed: lingerie (and even heels) or night wear (but always a bra) and often makeup and wig. But I also want to cater for her needs and this involves nudity on both sides. Afterwards however I do dress up in a nightie/bra again and we continue cuddling.
So we look out for each other’s needs and desires – but this is true for all aspects of our joint lives, not just during the most intimate of interactions. This is what makes an enduring and happy relationship – things cannot be only one way and selfish (even though the dressing is sometimes overwhelmingly compelling).
I do like Lisa L’s idea of matching lingerie and night clothes. I’ll have to make that suggestion to my SO.
I would like to give my heart felt praise to all the tolerant, accepting and even enthusiastic SOs who allow us ladies to be so in all aspects of our lives.
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- May 16, 2023 at 8:32 pm #739143DuchessRegistered On: March 13, 2016Topics: 0Replies: 27Has thanked: 43 timesBeen thanked: 122 times
I love that you can put on something pretty again after you both make love and then just cuddle and fall asleep together in each others arms. That sounds very romantic and loving. You’re very lucky to have found her love. And also in this way of course.
- October 15, 2022 at 12:34 pm #683539LadyRegistered On: September 13, 2019Topics: 13Replies: 1110Has thanked: 1 timeBeen thanked: 4697 times
The short answer is yes, we are intimate while I am dressed frequently. Mostly it is lingerie, but I have been fully dressed except for wig and make up in bed several times. She always enjoys it and has very intense orgasms as do I. We have a great sex life when not dressed as well. My dressing, and her exposure to it has been slow in developing, and I always give her veto power which she has never exercised. She is pretty indifferent to it, and is just as happy with us being naked as dressed.
I came to dressing well into our marriage, and very slowly. I always had an interested in all things feminine, and put on mom’s things a couple of times as a kid, but then nothing, and no desires for many years. The first time I wore my wife’s pants was when we were engaged and she was out of town. On a total lark I put them on and wore them all day. That evening we were talking on the phone and I admitted I was were a pair of her sexy panties, that I was aroused and we had phone sex. I didn’t wear anything for many years after that. I always like nice lingerie, and bought things for her frequently then one day asked if I could wear her panties while we were in bed. She was fine with it, and seemed to enjoy how turned on I was. I admitted how much I liked wearing them and she just said that it did nothing for her, but if I enjoyed it then fine. She said they were just clothes.
I have added items over time and she has always been fine with anything new. I am sure to let her know how much I enjoy it, and I make sure she is well satisfied in bed as well. I started wearing more and more outer wear and while not really keeping it a secret, I kept it well out of her view. I finally just told her I like to dress en femme and if she ever had a problem with it to let me know, which she has not. Her only comment was I probably should go out in public, which I admitted I probably shouldn’t, (I didn’t tell her I do). We were having an intimate dinner with wine at the time and were both wearing sexy lingerie and silk robes when we were discussing this and the evening quickly moved first to the back patio after losing the robes and on to the bedroom for some passionate sex. Since then I have worn matching bra, panties, garters and stocking plus a black dress and 3″ heels for more amazing sex. She seems to really go out of her way to please me when I am dressed as such, so while she has never openly encouraged me to dress, she certainly has never shown and discouragement. I blame her for much my desire to dress en femme because every time I do she makes me feel so go that I just can’t help myself.
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- October 8, 2022 at 8:48 pm #681978Lola CapriceBaronessRegistered On: May 26, 2021Topics: 13Replies: 452Has thanked: 2765 timesBeen thanked: 2138 times
It depends how far I take it. My SO enjoys being intimate when I wear sexy lingerie without all the other stuff to help me try to look more feminine. When I’m fully en femme trying to look as passable as I can with breast forms, wig, nails, full makeup, ect she is NOT interested. We can dine, watch TV or movies, generally hang out and she’s totally cool with it but no intimacy. I completely respect her boundaries and appreciate the support I get from her considering that we were married 30 years before Lola came into our lives.
- October 8, 2022 at 6:52 pm #681968Paula JohnsonLadyRegistered On: April 16, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 16Has thanked: 52 timesBeen thanked: 134 times
My wife and I had done it twice. The first time for her was more of a curiousness about what it would be like maybe with a woman. The second time she was not into it and said she has no bi or lesbian inclination so I have never pushed it since.
I know she would if I asked but I’m going to wait for her to ask about it first.
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We have been intimate in both aspects. We love each other the same either way.
- October 7, 2022 at 3:21 pm #681816Robin SnowDuchessRegistered On: May 7, 2019Topics: 24Replies: 284Has thanked: 2548 timesBeen thanked: 1437 times
My wife doesn’t understand why women want to wear women’s clothing, let alone her husband. When I came out to she said married a guy and wants to be with that guy. In our house intimacy and crossdressing are like oil and water … they will never mix.
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- October 7, 2022 at 1:14 pm #681801Nikki Just NikkiLadyRegistered On: September 29, 2022Topics: 10Replies: 261Has thanked: 1627 timesBeen thanked: 1650 times
At the risk of sounding like a humble brag, I have to say YES! My Miss adores Nikki in all the ways we spend time together. She’s bi, and last weekend she said the most amazing thing to me. She said “I’m missing being with a woman, and I want a girlfriend again. Will you be my girlfriend, Nikki?” I was floored and moved and excited all at the same time! Our date nights are going to be super fun!
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- October 8, 2022 at 7:25 am #681872Holly MarieLadyRegistered On: August 8, 2022Topics: 17Replies: 227Has thanked: 227 timesBeen thanked: 1071 times
Nikki; you are so, so lucky – and it sounds like your Miss is as well! I can’t imagine being in your situation – I just wish I could be. My wife (who I love beyond belief) isn’t bi – though she has had people saying they thought she was bi or gay in the past. I would say that a lot of folk have a fantasy of being in a threesome – but when you are two of the three involved? Oooh, yeah, baby… Better stop now, or I’ll have the Powers That Be throwing me out of CDH – just hope I’m not too late…… Holly XXX
- October 8, 2022 at 6:18 am #681866AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
Nikki, I had a bi girlfriend who said almost those exact words to me. She is actually the one who started me dressing. Too bad the relation flamed out.
- October 5, 2022 at 10:28 pm #681473Ellie DeeDuchessRegistered On: October 4, 2022Topics: 4Replies: 33Has thanked: 110 timesBeen thanked: 291 times
My wife isnt into getting intimate with Ellie but she is happy for me to wear lingerie to bed. She is happy to cuddle up and all that with me wearing satin PJs or a nightie but not sex.
Years ago – back in the 80s before we were married she was staying over at my house and her clothes were on the floor from the night out before. She was into wearing stockings and suspenders then, so after an intimate session in the morning I jumped out of bed and put her suspender belt and stockings on. We often messed about like this in the early 80s – crossdress scrabble (whoever wins a word gets to choose which item of the oponents clothing to wear and we swap) and things like that.
So then I jumped back into bed and we got intimate again which was ok but halfway through she undid the suspender belt I was wearing – letting me know she wasnt keen on that, and I felt a bit bad and never did it again.