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- October 26, 2022 at 8:07 am #685870
Hello ladies!
After years of suppressing my CD side due to a wife who just didn’t get it, I’m now retired, divorced and have a very supportive girlfriend! It’s time to start dressing with pride and confidence again! I found this online group as my first step in rejoining the community of beautiful, supportive people!
So once again, I say Hello Ladies! It’s good to be back!
Niki
- October 26, 2022 at 8:21 am #685872
Welcome back to the group dear! May the rest of your journey be pleasant and rewarding!
- October 26, 2022 at 10:46 am #685914
Thank you, Lisa! I’m already loving this. Just joining the forum has given me a new sense of Niki-ness. I think I deserve a new outfit! Shopping time!
- October 26, 2022 at 9:37 am #685884
Niki,
I’m happy for you! Welcome back!
- October 26, 2022 at 9:42 am #685885
Hi Niki
Welcome to CDH lucky lady!
XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
Greta ❤️- October 26, 2022 at 10:43 am #685908
Thank you, Greta! Say hello to everyone in Italy for me!
- October 26, 2022 at 9:54 am #685887
The adventure begins again! Welcome, Niki!
- October 26, 2022 at 10:42 am #685907
Thanks, Nikki! Just joining this forum has been an exciting step! This is going to be fun!
- October 26, 2022 at 10:54 am #685922
Hi Niki welcome back to the family, I’m a mature crossdresser too and I’m retired but unfortunately I’m still married and still in the closet, if i was to get divorced i would throw open my wardrobe doors and let Rozalyn out 24/7,
Hugs Rozalyn X 💋
- October 26, 2022 at 11:08 am #685926
Thank you, Rosalyn! I can totally relate. My wife knew about my crossdressing and hated it. When she was away on trips, I’d dress up 24/7. I can dress in front of my girlfriend but I don’t think either of us is really comfortable with that yet. But she’s very supportive and would gladly help me shop if I asked her. Good luck on your journey, Rosalyn!
Hugs back at you!
Niki
- October 26, 2022 at 12:31 pm #685972
Your welcome Niki , if i got divorced and met someone else i would tell them up front I’m a crossdresser and let them decide if they wanted to continue seeing me X
Roz X
- October 27, 2022 at 7:00 am #686398
Rosalyn, That’s exactly what happened! I had to be up front with her. I truly hate those coming out conversations, but that one went well!
- October 27, 2022 at 10:42 am #686447
The thing is Niki it’s a lot better now than it was when i was younger, back in the 1960’s and 70’s it was still a taboo subject, nowadays it’s more acceptable to be a crossdresser,
Hugs Rozalyn X 🎀
- October 26, 2022 at 11:02 am #685925
Welcome back Niki!!
- October 26, 2022 at 11:32 am #685933
Hi Nikki so happy for you!!!
- October 27, 2022 at 6:58 am #686397
Thank you, Kimberly!
- October 26, 2022 at 11:57 am #685952
WHoooHOooo – that’s awesome :-). Welcome!
Tara
- October 26, 2022 at 12:03 pm #685955
Thanks, Tara! This is so fun!
- October 26, 2022 at 12:26 pm #685971
Hi Nikki
Welcome back its lovely to meet you, I am 50 years closeted look forward to chatting sometime.
Sarah xx- October 26, 2022 at 1:26 pm #685989
Sarah! A kindred spirit! So nice to meet you! Thank you for the warm welcome! I’m having so much fun getting back to the CD world!
- October 26, 2022 at 3:01 pm #686006Anonymous
Well you got our support we are glad to have you welcome to the site
- October 26, 2022 at 4:43 pm #686022
Christina, thank you! I’m among friends – that is so cool!
- October 26, 2022 at 5:25 pm #686026
Hello and welcome,
Too bad it took so many life changes and time for you to get to this point, but better late then never.
We all come to various points in our lives with all the baggage and burdens of time, so it can be very liberating when these life changes happen. While I have been dressing for years, it wasn’t until I retire that I could really let loose. When my wife retire, I felt stifled even though she has always been supportive. While I still dressed, but felt I had limited time to do so. That has changed and now I feel free to dress when and how I like and she is fine with it (as she always has been, but I put my own limits on myself.)
So, embrace the new joys and have fun and let us all know how it goes.
- October 27, 2022 at 6:56 am #686396
Thank you, JJ!
It’s hard not to think of those years as lost or wasted, when I couldn’t dress, I couldn’t express that part of my self. But I’ve learned from that experience and it’s over now, so onward and forward!
I too have placed more restrictions than necessary on my dressing in front of my girlfriend, but I’m still struggling with my comfort level, still recovering from the repressive years I guess. For now, it’s enough that she understands, she’s supportive of what she affectionately refers to as my “Fancy wardrobe,” and all is well.
Thank you again for the warm welcome! I feel like I’m home!
- October 26, 2022 at 5:29 pm #686028
Hi Niki,
Welcome to CDH and welcome back!
Alice
- October 27, 2022 at 6:33 am #686381
Thank you, Alice! I’m having fun coming back to join the CD world!
- October 26, 2022 at 5:48 pm #686034
Hi Niki as a returning sister girl you are welcomed with open arms back into our home as well as yours now again.. Please look up old girlfriends like rekindle the friendships and start new ones as so many ladies here to chat with and just have fun .. Thanks for coming home and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..
Stephanie Bass
- October 27, 2022 at 6:29 am #686380
Thank you Stephanie! Even though I never belonged to this particular forum, I do feel like I’m coming home! It’s a beautifully comforting feeling!
- October 26, 2022 at 11:48 pm #686233
Hi Niki! I’d say, “Welcome back” but I just got here myself. I’m glad you’re here and hope to hear more from and about you.
Hugs & kisses,
W.- October 27, 2022 at 6:27 am #686379
Thank you, Wanda, my fellow Newbie!
- October 27, 2022 at 2:05 am #686237
Nikki –
Welcome to CDH. Be sure to check out the forums and articles. Look forward to seeing you in chat.
XOXO
Suzanne- October 27, 2022 at 6:26 am #686376
Thank you Suzanne! Everyone has been so warm and friendly, I love it here!
- October 27, 2022 at 6:51 am #686393
Fantastic!
- October 27, 2022 at 6:52 am #686394
Welcome back Nikki, I wish you well on your new journey.
Hugs,
Ms. Lauren M
- October 27, 2022 at 7:05 am #686401
Thank you, Lauren! And what a journey it is!
- October 27, 2022 at 9:43 am #686437
hello wellcome ..!!1
- October 27, 2022 at 10:50 am #686449
Nice to have you back Niki!
- October 27, 2022 at 12:51 pm #686493
Thank you, Emily! It’s so good to be back!
- October 27, 2022 at 1:35 pm #686499AnonymousLady
Wow you have a supportive genetic woman in your life? You are at the top of the food chain girl, good for you! Time to finally be who you truly are. CONGRATS!!
Lauren xo
- October 27, 2022 at 2:07 pm #686511
Hi Niki,
Welcome back! Happy for you having a supportive SO!
Hugs,
Lara
- October 27, 2022 at 2:18 pm #686514
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Good luck, and keep an open dialog with her so she feels free to express here needs as you can yours.
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