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    • #685870

      Hello ladies!

      After years of suppressing my CD side due to a wife who just didn’t get it, I’m now retired, divorced and have a very supportive girlfriend! It’s time to start dressing with pride and confidence again! I found this online group as my first step in rejoining the community of beautiful, supportive people!

      So once again, I say Hello Ladies! It’s good to be back!

      Niki

       

    • #685872

      Welcome back to the group dear! May the rest of your journey be pleasant and rewarding!

      • #685914

        Thank you, Lisa! I’m already loving this. Just joining the forum has given me a new sense of Niki-ness. I think I deserve a new outfit! Shopping time!

    • #685884

      Niki,

      I’m happy for you! Welcome back!

      • #685909

        Thank you, Jill! I’m having so much fun with this!

        • #685946

          I hope the fun never ends for you!

    • #685885

      Hi Niki

      Welcome to CDH lucky lady!

      XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
      Greta ❤️

      • #685908

        Thank you, Greta! Say hello to everyone in Italy for me!

    • #685887

      The adventure begins again! Welcome, Niki!

      • #685907

        Thanks, Nikki! Just joining this forum has been an exciting step! This is going to be fun!

    • #685922

      Hi Niki welcome back to the family, I’m a mature crossdresser too and I’m retired but unfortunately I’m still married and still in the closet, if i was to get divorced i would throw open my wardrobe doors and let Rozalyn out 24/7,

      Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

      • #685926

        Thank you, Rosalyn! I can totally relate. My wife knew about my crossdressing and hated it. When she was away on trips, I’d dress up 24/7. I can dress in front of my girlfriend but I don’t think either of us is really comfortable with that yet. But she’s very supportive and would gladly help me shop if I asked her. Good luck on your journey, Rosalyn!

        Hugs back at you!

        Niki

        • #685972

          Your welcome Niki , if i got divorced and met someone else i would tell them up front I’m a crossdresser and let them decide if they wanted to continue seeing me X

          Roz X

          • #686398

            Rosalyn, That’s exactly what happened! I had to be up front with her. I truly hate those coming out conversations, but that one went well!

          • #686447

            The thing is Niki it’s a lot better now than it was when i was younger, back in the 1960’s and 70’s it was still a taboo subject, nowadays it’s more acceptable to be a crossdresser,

            Hugs Rozalyn X 🎀

    • #685925

      Welcome back Niki!!

      • #685927

        Thanks, Jess! I’m having fun with this!

        • #685928

          That’s great Niki and happy that you have a supportive SO now!

    • #685933

      Hi Nikki so happy for you!!!

    • #685952

      WHoooHOooo – that’s awesome :-). Welcome!

      Tara

    • #685971

      Hi Nikki
      Welcome back its lovely to meet you, I am 50 years closeted look forward to chatting sometime.
      Sarah xx

      • #685989

        Sarah! A kindred spirit! So nice to meet you! Thank you for the warm welcome! I’m having so much fun getting back to the CD world!

    • #686006
      Anonymous

      Well you got our support we are glad to have you welcome to the site

      • #686022

        Christina, thank you! I’m among friends – that is so cool!

    • #686026
      J J
      Lady

      Hello and welcome,

      Too bad it took so many life changes and time for you to get to this point, but better late then never.

       

      We all come to various points in our lives with all the baggage and burdens of time, so it can be very liberating when these life changes happen. While I have been dressing for years, it wasn’t until I retire that I could really let loose. When my wife retire, I felt stifled even though she has always been supportive. While I still dressed, but felt I had limited time to do so. That has changed and now I feel free to dress when and how I like and she is fine with it (as she always has been, but I put my own limits on myself.)

       

      So, embrace the new joys and have fun and let us all know how it goes.

      • #686396

        Thank you, JJ!

        It’s hard not to think of those years as lost or wasted, when I couldn’t dress, I couldn’t express that part of my self. But I’ve learned from that experience and it’s over now, so onward and forward!

        I too have placed more restrictions than necessary on my dressing in front of my girlfriend, but I’m still struggling with my comfort level, still recovering from the repressive years I guess. For now, it’s enough that she understands, she’s supportive of what she affectionately refers to as my “Fancy wardrobe,” and all is well.

        Thank you again for the warm welcome! I feel like I’m home!

         

    • #686028

      Hi Niki,

      Welcome to CDH and welcome back!

      Alice

      • #686381

        Thank you, Alice! I’m having fun coming back to join the CD world!

    • #686034

      Hi Niki as a returning sister girl you are welcomed with open arms back into our home as well as yours now again.. Please look up old girlfriends like rekindle the friendships and start new ones as so many ladies here to chat with and just have fun .. Thanks for coming home and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..

      Stephanie Bass

      • #686380

        Thank you Stephanie! Even though I never belonged to this particular forum, I do feel like I’m coming home! It’s a beautifully comforting feeling!

    • #686233

      Hi Niki! I’d say, “Welcome back” but I just got here myself. I’m glad you’re here and hope to hear more from and about you.

      Hugs & kisses,
      W.

    • #686237

      Nikki –

      Welcome to CDH.  Be sure to check out the forums and articles.  Look forward to seeing you in chat.

      XOXO
      Suzanne

      • #686376

        Thank you Suzanne! Everyone has been so warm and friendly, I love it here!

    • #686393
      Becka
      Lady

      Fantastic!

    • #686394

      Welcome back Nikki, I wish you well on your new journey.

      Hugs,

      Ms. Lauren M

      • #686401

        Thank you, Lauren! And what a journey it is!

         

    • #686437

      hello wellcome ..!!1

       

    • #686449
      Emily Alt
      Managing Ambassador

      Nice to have you back Niki!

      • #686493

        Thank you, Emily! It’s so good to be back!

    • #686499
      Anonymous
      Lady

      Wow you have a supportive genetic woman in your life? You are at the top of the food chain girl, good for you! Time to finally be who you truly are. CONGRATS!!

      Lauren xo

    • #686511
      Lara Muir
      Baroness - Annual

      Hi Niki,

      Welcome back! Happy for you having a supportive SO!

      Hugs,

      Lara

    • #686514
      J J
      Lady

      [postquote quote=686396]
      Good luck, and keep an open dialog with her so she feels free to express here needs as you can yours.

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