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    • #686514
      J J
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      Registered On: September 13, 2019
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      Thank you, JJ!

      It’s hard not to think of those years as lost or wasted, when I couldn’t dress, I couldn’t express that part of my self. But I’ve learned from that experience and it’s over now, so onward and forward!

      I too have placed more restrictions than necessary on my dressing in front of my girlfriend, but I’m still struggling with my comfort level, still recovering from the repressive years I guess. For now, it’s enough that she understands, she’s supportive of what she affectionately refers to as my “Fancy wardrobe,” and all is well.

      Thank you again for the warm welcome! I feel like I’m home!

       

      Good luck, and keep an open dialog with her so she feels free to express here needs as you can yours.

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    • #686511
      Lara Tucker
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      Registered On: September 29, 2021
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      Hi Niki,

      Welcome back! Happy for you having a supportive SO!

      Hugs,

      Lara

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    • #686499
      Lauren Ashley
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      Registered On: July 29, 2022
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      Wow you have a supportive genetic woman in your life? You are at the top of the food chain girl, good for you! Time to finally be who you truly are. CONGRATS!!

      Lauren xo

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    • #686449
      Emily Alt
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      Registered On: August 24, 2019
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      Nice to have you back Niki!

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      • #686493
        Niki Foxish
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        Registered On: October 26, 2022
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        Thank you, Emily! It’s so good to be back!

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    • #686437
      johanna lynch
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      hello wellcome ..!!1

       

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    • #686394
      Lauren Mugnaia
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      Registered On: November 1, 2021
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      Welcome back Nikki, I wish you well on your new journey.

      Hugs,

      Ms. Lauren M

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      • #686401
        Niki Foxish
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        Registered On: October 26, 2022
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        Thank you, Lauren! And what a journey it is!

         

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    • #686393
      Becka
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      Fantastic!

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    • #686237
      Suzanne Martin
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      Nikki –

      Welcome to CDH.  Be sure to check out the forums and articles.  Look forward to seeing you in chat.

      XOXO
      Suzanne

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    • #686233
      Wanda Ovahear
      Registered On: October 19, 2022
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      Hi Niki! I’d say, “Welcome back” but I just got here myself. I’m glad you’re here and hope to hear more from and about you.

      Hugs & kisses,
      W.

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    • #686034
      Stephanie Bass
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      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Niki as a returning sister girl you are welcomed with open arms back into our home as well as yours now again.. Please look up old girlfriends like rekindle the friendships and start new ones as so many ladies here to chat with and just have fun .. Thanks for coming home and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..

      Stephanie Bass

      • #686380
        Niki Foxish
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        Registered On: October 26, 2022
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        Thank you Stephanie! Even though I never belonged to this particular forum, I do feel like I’m coming home! It’s a beautifully comforting feeling!

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    • #686028
      Alice Underwire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Niki,

      Welcome to CDH and welcome back!

      Alice

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      • #686381
        Niki Foxish
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        Registered On: October 26, 2022
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        Thank you, Alice! I’m having fun coming back to join the CD world!

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    • #686026
      J J
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      Registered On: September 13, 2019
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      Hello and welcome,

      Too bad it took so many life changes and time for you to get to this point, but better late then never.

       

      We all come to various points in our lives with all the baggage and burdens of time, so it can be very liberating when these life changes happen. While I have been dressing for years, it wasn’t until I retire that I could really let loose. When my wife retire, I felt stifled even though she has always been supportive. While I still dressed, but felt I had limited time to do so. That has changed and now I feel free to dress when and how I like and she is fine with it (as she always has been, but I put my own limits on myself.)

       

      So, embrace the new joys and have fun and let us all know how it goes.

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      • #686396
        Niki Foxish
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        Registered On: October 26, 2022
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        Thank you, JJ!

        It’s hard not to think of those years as lost or wasted, when I couldn’t dress, I couldn’t express that part of my self. But I’ve learned from that experience and it’s over now, so onward and forward!

        I too have placed more restrictions than necessary on my dressing in front of my girlfriend, but I’m still struggling with my comfort level, still recovering from the repressive years I guess. For now, it’s enough that she understands, she’s supportive of what she affectionately refers to as my “Fancy wardrobe,” and all is well.

        Thank you again for the warm welcome! I feel like I’m home!

         

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    • #686006
      Christina Isme
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      Well you got our support we are glad to have you welcome to the site

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    • #685971
      Sarah Cerise
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      Hi Nikki
      Welcome back its lovely to meet you, I am 50 years closeted look forward to chatting sometime.
      Sarah xx

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      • #685989
        Niki Foxish
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        Registered On: October 26, 2022
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        Sarah! A kindred spirit! So nice to meet you! Thank you for the warm welcome! I’m having so much fun getting back to the CD world!

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    • #685952
      Tara D Sometimes
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      Registered On: October 4, 2022
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      WHoooHOooo – that’s awesome :-). Welcome!

      Tara

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      • #685955
        Niki Foxish
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        Registered On: October 26, 2022
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        Thanks, Tara! This is so fun!

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    • #685933
      Kimberly Ann Victoria
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      Hi Nikki so happy for you!!!

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    • #685925
      Jess Secret
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      Welcome back Niki!!

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    • #685922
      Rozalyn Richards
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      Hi Niki welcome back to the family, I’m a mature crossdresser too and I’m retired but unfortunately I’m still married and still in the closet, if i was to get divorced i would throw open my wardrobe doors and let Rozalyn out 24/7,

      Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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      • #685926
        Niki Foxish
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        Registered On: October 26, 2022
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        Thank you, Rosalyn! I can totally relate. My wife knew about my crossdressing and hated it. When she was away on trips, I’d dress up 24/7. I can dress in front of my girlfriend but I don’t think either of us is really comfortable with that yet. But she’s very supportive and would gladly help me shop if I asked her. Good luck on your journey, Rosalyn!

        Hugs back at you!

        Niki

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        • #685972
          Rozalyn Richards
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          Your welcome Niki , if i got divorced and met someone else i would tell them up front I’m a crossdresser and let them decide if they wanted to continue seeing me X

          Roz X

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          • #686398
            Niki Foxish
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            Rosalyn, That’s exactly what happened! I had to be up front with her. I truly hate those coming out conversations, but that one went well!

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          • #686447
            Rozalyn Richards
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            The thing is Niki it’s a lot better now than it was when i was younger, back in the 1960’s and 70’s it was still a taboo subject, nowadays it’s more acceptable to be a crossdresser,

            Hugs Rozalyn X 🎀

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    • #685887
      Nikki Just Nikki
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      Registered On: September 29, 2022
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      The adventure begins again! Welcome, Niki!

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      • #685907
        Niki Foxish
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        Thanks, Nikki! Just joining this forum has been an exciting step! This is going to be fun!

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    • #685885
      Greta La Folle
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      Hi Niki

      Welcome to CDH lucky lady!

      XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
      Greta ❤️

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    • #685884
      Jill Quinn
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      Niki,

      I’m happy for you! Welcome back!

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    • #685872
      Lisa Leigh
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      Welcome back to the group dear! May the rest of your journey be pleasant and rewarding!

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      • #685914
        Niki Foxish
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        Registered On: October 26, 2022
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        Thank you, Lisa! I’m already loving this. Just joining the forum has given me a new sense of Niki-ness. I think I deserve a new outfit! Shopping time!

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