It’s Friday Ladies!

[Anonymous]

Dear Ladies,
It is Friday. What did you do for your lovely wife or SO this week?

Did you:
*Tell her you love her?
*Buy her flowers?
*Tell her she is beautiful?
*Buy her a favorite treat?
*Take her out to dinner?
*Give her girl porn (clean the house)?
*Buy her something to feel beautiful (nail polish, face mask, body butter, etc)?
*Give her a slap on the a$$ and tell her she’s still got it?

Don’t forget to make your wife or SO feel special and appreciated every week. It’s important and we notice.

Have a wonderful weekend,
Betty

[Anonymous]

Hi Betty.

I agree we CD’s need to appreciate our SO’s for their understanding and tolerance of our lifestyle because its not all about us all the time.

I relieved my wife of grocery shopping, cooking, and cleaning, a few years ago after I retired and she loves that I do that. She always compliments me on my cooking and I enjoy doing it too. I tell her I love her daily and try to always be complimentary. I don’t buy her nail polish or clothing because it was never what she wanted as our tastes are opposites in womens fashion. Of course I’m more sophisticated than her in style while she is happy being plain and functional. When in season I keep fresh flowers from our garden on the dining table and she loves that. We have found a balance in our lives that works for us and it only took 30+ years… lol

I hope your husband appreciates you as well, he has a gem in you.

[Anonymous]

You are so sweet! Having recently experienced a case of the dreaded whiplash, I’m not entirely sure he sees me as the gem that I am at the moment.

While he may understand that he has the elusive unicorn, he is hesitant it could snap and bite him again…even the most majestic of unicorns need time to acclimate to their new surroundings by taking baby steps before they can gallop…or whatever it is a unicorn does🤷

Betty, the biting unicorn 🦄

[Anonymous]

Thats ok Betty because we all have evolving moods and different paces of acceptance. Its a process that works out over time. It has taken us over 6 years to get to todays point in our relationship and there were several whiplash periods with some being severe, but we progressed and have a nice balance today. Compromise is essential to a relationship. Its not the end of the world to be a cross dresser.

Your husband is indeed a lucky CD in that you are here trying your best to understand and thats about as much as we can expect from our SO’s. Its not all smooth sailing but I think your relationship will grow closer with time. Hope so.

I think unicorns can fly when they want.

[Lara Muir]

Hi Betty

You are just awesome! The fact that you are here so often trying to figure things out is fantastic! I think we should expect unicorns to bite once in a while. CDs are asking quite a lot, especially if we haven’t come out to our SOs until much later in the relationship.

You all didn’t sign up for being with a woman  . It has got to be a great big adjustment.

I hope you are truly appreciated.🤩

Hugs, Lara

[Kelly Lee]

So, lets see here

Did you:
*Tell her you love her?
multiple times every day

*Buy her flowers?
not often, bought some plants a few times. She like stuff that lasts more than a few days better.

*Tell her she is beautiful?
multiple times every day

*Buy her a favorite treat?
We always have chocolate in the house

*Take her out to dinner?
we(me as kelly) did get some stuff at a cafe and did then sit outside in the sun for a while

*Give her girl porn (clean the house)?
will be done next week when she is staying with her mother

*Buy her something to feel beautiful (nail polish, face mask, body butter, etc)?
I did one up, I did her nails

*Give her a slap on the a$$ and tell her she’s still got it?
nope, never ever happened

Other things I did
– skip work and took a walk together around the neigbourhood
– sit down in front of the tv with a bowl of junk food and watched a show (“midsummer murder”,”picard” and more)
– tuck her down for an afternoon nap

and a few more things
/kt

[Anonymous]

Kudos to you!!! I can’t wait until my husband is able to paint my nails. He is working on perfecting this craft.

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