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Registered On: October 27, 2022Topics: 6Replies: 192Has thanked: 391 timesBeen thanked: 948 timesWell I finally did it. I wasn’t so sure I would go through with it, but I went out in public for the first time tonight.
I am on a business trip and decided to bring my some extra clothes for Jessica. After my meetings wrapped up early I decided tonight was the night. I did my makeup got dressed and stood at the door. I took a deep breath and opened the door. Luckily no one was in the hallway. Got into the elevator and hit the lobby button. I got a direct elevator right to the lobby. The doors opened and there stood 3 men. I smiled and quickly passed by. I tried to keep a lady like walk but I am sure I was almost running to the parking garage.
Once in the car, I felt some relief. I decided to drive for a bit. I then said, what the heck and drove to a local lgbtq bar that I had found online. I parked and said to myself here we go. I walked in. The place was somewhat busy. I walked the place looking for a table, but they were all full. So I walked to the bar ordered a Cosmo and sat down. I was was still very nervous. Luckily a couple (man and women) sat down and we started talking. They were both so kind. That made me relaxed. The woman complimented me on my outfit. They also liked my hair.
We talked a bit, I finished my drink and ordered a water. I didn’t want to get drunk. 😊. We talked more and then we all left. The drive back to the hotel was much more relaxing. When I walked but to the elevator I could tell that I had way more confidence then I had just a few hours earlier.
I am on cloud 9 right now and had to share.
Thanks to all here at CDH that have been so encouraging. I know there is no way I would have done this without your help.
Thanks,
Jessica
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Registered On: October 12, 2022Topics: 6Replies: 104Has thanked: 331 timesBeen thanked: 380 timesWell done Jessica. You deserve our most heart felt congratulations on achieving this milestone!!! I am so pleased that you enjoyed it and that it all went so well. I am building up to my first public outing and it so reassuring to hear stories like yours…so thank you so much for sharing.
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Jess I’m soooooo happy for you! So courageous facing your fear/nervousness head on. Can’t wait to hear more!
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- Registered On: November 23, 2019Topics: 1Replies: 524Has thanked: 373 timesBeen thanked: 2292 times
Congratulations Jessica!!
The first time out is so exhilarating, especially when you meet and interact with other people. Most CD’s avoid people for a number of times out in the beginning so you are ahead of the game. And it is very true what everyone says – it is about to get very addictive. So get ready and enjoy this next phase of your dressing journey.
Fiona
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Congratulations! Sounds like a great experience for you. And great luck finding the couple who made you feel comfortable. I’m sure you’re looking forward to next time!
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- Registered On: September 13, 2019Topics: 7Replies: 669Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 2690 times
You go, girl! Thanks for a great and inspiring recounting of you experience. It will help others feel the same thrill and fear and build confidence. Your next foray out will be just a bit easier.
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- Registered On: September 5, 2016Topics: 6Replies: 180Has thanked: 266 timesBeen thanked: 835 times
Jessica.
Congrats to you ! So happy for you I totally know that feeling of confidence you talk about on the way back ! it’s intoxicating isn’t it? So now the cats out of the bag so what’s next? Shopping mall? Regular restaurant? You look fantastic. Be proud. You go girl!hugs
carole
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Wonderful, Jessica! And welcome to the club. I wish you many more such occasions.
MacKenzie Alexandra
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- Registered On: January 9, 2021Topics: 20Replies: 270Has thanked: 799 timesBeen thanked: 1661 times
Congrats! Sounds like you had a nice time. Are you looking forward to doing it again? With a first time that went that smoothly I’m sure you are. Thanks for sharing Jessica.
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Great story and congratulations on your great outing.
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- Registered On: April 29, 2022Topics: 9Replies: 561Has thanked: 7632 timesBeen thanked: 2614 times
Awesome Jessica I am so happy for you girlfriend, so scary, exhilarating and euphoric all at once. Definitely getting off the elevator can bring your heart to your throat you did the best thing you can do smile and you just do you. It helps you relax and calm down when you talk to other people and you receive compliments, awesome way to go! Your sharing your experience makes me smile I am so happy for you! It gets easier from here so proud of you Jessica!
Hugs Big Hugs April
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- Registered On: July 24, 2021Topics: 3Replies: 259Has thanked: 2533 timesBeen thanked: 1306 times
Jessica!
That’s awesome!!! I’m very happy for you! The most I’ve done is to walk the 200’ to my mailbox and I remember how thrilling that was. I can’t imagine how thrilling your adventure was! I can’t wait until I can go somewhere in public. Thank you for sharing your wonderful and inspiring story.
Hugs and respect, Jill
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