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- April 29, 2021 at 1:13 pm #485552
Sitting here in my shop. Skinny jeans red heels bralette and solid c cup forms generic grey t shirt. And just loving it all. The caress of the jeans. The slight slide of panties on jeans. The clip clop of the heels on concrete. Slight jiggle of the forms. And all this just screams ME. I love crossdressing. I am so glad I chose to accept and embrace this part of me.
💘 💋
Trisha.
- April 29, 2021 at 1:16 pm #485554Anonymous
Sounds like a wonderful day .
- April 29, 2021 at 1:58 pm #485575
Every day has its little moments. Today I just felt like being vocal. Hearts 💕
- April 29, 2021 at 1:24 pm #485557
Thanks! Love it!
-SR-
- April 29, 2021 at 1:57 pm #485574
You’re welcome. 💕
- April 29, 2021 at 1:31 pm #485561
Sounds as though you’re having a wonderful day. I know the feeling as I put on the nylons and bra with forms and slip on a dress. It’s a wonderful feeling. Although I only crossdress part time when I do it mak e it worth the wait.
- April 29, 2021 at 1:55 pm #485573
I underdress daily. And I truly love the little things. 💕
- April 29, 2021 at 1:34 pm #485562
That post just made me smile Trisha. I can picture you sitting there reveling in the small joys. I get it. Totally. Thanks for sharing your happiness.
Best, Clara
- April 29, 2021 at 1:54 pm #485572
It’s a great feeling. Just so………..
- April 29, 2021 at 1:54 pm #485571Anonymous
Trisha…
How wonderful.
isn’t it just dreamy when these little things make us so happy….when you see the state the world is in at the moment, it’s so good to have something to smile about…..crossdressers don’t ask for much….do we????
Grace ❤️
- April 29, 2021 at 2:11 pm #485578
It is great. And no Grace we certainly don’t. Just acceptance for who we are and what we do.
- April 29, 2021 at 7:04 pm #485656
You’re right Grace, it’s the little things. Like when I put on a nightie and relax after a long days work, it makes me happy and I feel good inside.
- May 3, 2021 at 2:55 am #487028Anonymous
I couldn’t agree more with you Grace. Someone else mentioned that many genetic girls take for granted being a woman. I cherish the time I get to put on makeup and dress 👗 up really sexy or casual depending on my mood. My wife isn’t a big fan of makeup and nylons even on herself and I for the life of me can’t figure that out. It’s a bit of a bummer
- April 29, 2021 at 6:33 pm #485648Anonymous
God yes I’d dress 24/7 if I could, if only my SO would come around. 💃🏻👠💕💋 Katie
- April 29, 2021 at 7:22 pm #485661
Hi Trisha right there with you girl so happy being Stephanie dont get to underdress for work or go out but at home when evening comes around Stephanie gets a night gown and panties to sleep in every evening with out fail then some weekend dressing when time allows he he .. Thanks for a wonderful topic ..
Stephanie Bass
- April 29, 2021 at 7:37 pm #485664
I am with you Trisha. Crossdressing is an outlet to escape all the stresses and strains of life and it helps me a lot.
Alice Black
- April 30, 2021 at 1:29 pm #485948Anonymous
Alice your so right it is pure escapism.
Love Sarah xx
- April 29, 2021 at 7:43 pm #485667
I’m there with you too, Trisha. Being a crossdresser is a wonderful experience, and like most others I did fight it, and was so afraid of letting “her” out the bottle for so long. Now I wish I’d done this so much sooner in my life.
Amy
- April 30, 2021 at 3:38 am #485773
I love it too. I’ve had some of the scariest experiences and some of the most exciting when dressed. The thrill and rush is somethng I can’t get from anything else.
- April 30, 2021 at 4:36 am #485784
Hi Trish You are so right when you said its the little things that bring us so much joy. It can simply be a cute pair of panties and a Cami to change the feeling of a day. Love that part of me that is defiantly identifies with a female.
Luv Stephanie
- April 30, 2021 at 8:58 am #485858Anonymous
Dress as much as i can,walk in my heels as much as i can and keep my body smooth and as femme as possible xx
- April 30, 2021 at 4:43 am #485786
Absolutely Trish! Nothing better than dressing for the happiness of a good woman – and that woman is me!
Maybe the one thing I love more than dressing is being able to share that dressing and to be open about it! It’s nice when you have something beautiful and are able to share it, afterall. ❤
Stevie
- April 30, 2021 at 8:46 am #485853
Just love being and identifying as a crossdresser. We get to enjoy both worlds and have greater insight. I am sure we love our experiences more than regular ggs with the thrill and rush of it all. Being a fulltime girl might get boring since you would be taking it all for granted
- May 1, 2021 at 5:22 pm #486485
I so agree with ALL of that.
- May 3, 2021 at 1:00 pm #487247
Yes we get the X and the Y.
Most of society doesn’t get it but thank heaven we do - May 6, 2021 at 10:38 am #488645
I dress 24/7 but it’s never boring. I love the feel of getting dressed in the morning. Pulling the thong tight, sliding the nylons up, positioning the forms and putting the bra on just right. The makeup ritual and then the top and skirt or leggings or dress. Now the wig, brushing and styling. Finally the heels and the thrill of standing tall (I’m short so every inch is thrilling).
Every time I walk about I see my legs properly exposed. When I sit, the feel of the clothing sliding to a proper lady like position. Crossing legs when seated, squatting carefully to pick something up. Carrying the purse when out and about. Looking at every mirror or window reflection, even looking at my own shadow!
Dressing 24/7 never gets old. I LOVE BEING A WOMAN! Everything about it excites me constantly.
❤❤❤❤
Beth
- April 30, 2021 at 11:22 am #485903
Hi Trisha this morning I was so enjoying being consumed by the pink fog of being a crossdresser and enjoying every nuance of it.
From the cloths to the shoes to just feeling feminine.
I love every aspect of it including sharing with all the wonderful people on this sight.
I so know what you mean.
Patty🤗❤️
- April 30, 2021 at 11:58 am #485911Anonymous
i think we crossdressers have the best of both worlds all those guys are missing out on all this fun HUGS JACKIE
- May 1, 2021 at 7:08 am #486291
love, LoVe, LOVE the feeling!!!!! Not to mention the look!!!!
Can’t agree with you more my dear!!!!!
Love and Hugs like skinny jeans!!!
Rebecka!
- May 1, 2021 at 5:28 pm #486490
So I haven’t been on CDH for a few days and boy was I surprised at the amount of comments to this topic. I am so very grateful for this site all of you beautiful ladies. I would love to respond to all of you but I will just say that I love you all.
💋
Trisha
- May 1, 2021 at 5:37 pm #486492
Hi
I love cross dressing makes me feel alive. I’m so happy when I become Charlotte. When under dressed not as happy but the feeling of knickers, bra and hold ups is wonderful.Charlotte
- May 1, 2021 at 7:37 pm #486536
Trisha. That is so wonderful. That description is what cross dressing to me is all about. The feels the comfort and the relaxing feeling and the confidence you get when you put it together in dress. Skinny jeans with panties that slide under them and the feel of heels. You go girl I am loving it. It is all invigorating to me. The feel of playing it down in stretch skinny jeans or the knock it all the way to an evening gown, makeup, jewelry and heels. OMG. Love and hugs to you honey. Janice
- May 1, 2021 at 7:46 pm #486542
Absolutely. I really hope the world goes back to normal soon. I have been looking for a reason to buy a gorgeous evening gown. And a crossdressers ball would definitely fit the bill there. Can’t wait.
💋
Trisha
- May 2, 2021 at 5:17 am #486662
I’m underdressed daily and just luv it.
- May 2, 2021 at 5:24 am #486665
I’m smiling….just smiling!
💖💋
- May 3, 2021 at 3:49 am #487034
Well said Trisha.
Me too.
Diane
- May 3, 2021 at 4:51 am #487047
Ladies,
When I’m dressed I feel a sense of completeness, a sense of fulfillment. It makes me feel whole.
And, yes, I’m on the verge of crying.
Love to all,
Diane
- May 3, 2021 at 4:15 am #487038Anonymous
Yesterday was an amazing experience for me – dress, shoes, hair and makeup all together for the first time. I cannot describe how good I felt. I did not want the day to end.
- May 3, 2021 at 7:14 am #487105Anonymous
Isn’t it amazing Rachel? I had a full day on Friday going out being fully dressed with wig and makeup while my wife was at work. I was in heaven
- May 3, 2021 at 1:00 pm #487248Anonymous
Whats not to like, from silky undies to beautiful dress and heels make up, we are women with extra omph hugs 🤗
- May 3, 2021 at 5:05 am #487055
Hi Trisha, in full agreement, from putting on and getting the bra clipped and snug to knickers and whatever underwear one chooses, selection of outfit, applying makeup to the final getting the hair right, an absolute joy. Then the adrenaline of going out and enjoying feminine life. Heaven xxx
- May 3, 2021 at 6:17 am #487079
I love your post. My wife is working with me on acceptance. She has been very understanding but said last week “give me some time.”
Last night I happen to mention that I had some panties coming in the mail and she asked what kind. When I told her lace, she very seriously said, “Don’t wear those too much. Lace wears out fast. Only wear those when you and I are going out some place.”
I could not hide the grin on my face. I asked her if she wouldn’t mind picking out my panties to wear when we are getting ready to go out and she said she would.
Little steps, but this one was heavenly. What a girl I’ve got!- May 3, 2021 at 6:37 am #487089Anonymous
I totally understand the little steps. I sit and watched tv with her in thigh highs and men’s shorts along with makeup but only nude lipstick so it doesn’t show too much. I also have worn women’s blue denim jeggings which she doesn’t really bother me about because it isn’t super feminine. Little steps go a long way towards acceptance. It seems to be working for me so far. No wigs or dresses in front of her yet so I do what I can get away with!
- May 3, 2021 at 8:39 am #487148
The extraordinary woman I am dating has a different view. She loved it all. She actually asks for more Trisha time. And she let’s me dress as I please when I please. She even asks for certain outfits for bed. Don’t know what I did to deserve that but it is great. Honestly if it wasn’t for her I would probably never went out in public.
- May 3, 2021 at 12:57 pm #487245
Oh Trisha what a dream come true!
- May 3, 2021 at 4:07 pm #487330Anonymous
so happy for you hon i know the feeling you have many good times to look forward to HUGS JACKIE
- May 3, 2021 at 4:18 pm #487336
A Crossdresser Having spousal support is so special.
Giver an big hug … she is one of a kind..another dimension in your relationship..
Thanks for sharing….Leonara- May 4, 2021 at 6:06 am #487647
That must be an incredible feeling!! I have yet to get up the courage to tell my wife even though I’m sure she suspects / knows.
One day I hope/ wish to have that same feeling 🤞!!!
Hugs and Kisses
Candace
- May 6, 2021 at 7:53 am #488582
That is great to hear
- May 3, 2021 at 6:42 am #487092
Hellz yeah sister!!
- May 3, 2021 at 4:10 pm #487331Anonymous
Trisha,
I agree with you 110%. I always feel the same way when I am dressed.
Kathleen xxxxx 💋♥
- May 6, 2021 at 11:04 am #488666Anonymous
I feel it even when I’m not dressed but obviously more so when I pull my nylons on think it’s that, that started my total fascination with being a woman, even more so when I started removal of all body hair, I think once you do that it’s just a small hop to dressing totally as a woman xx
- May 6, 2021 at 11:38 am #488693
Three of the reasons I love it. Nylons heels and lipstick.
- May 3, 2021 at 4:47 pm #487339
Happy for you Trisha. It’s so sweet feeling inside, feeling pretty and feminine.
- May 4, 2021 at 6:25 am #487654Anonymous
Girls who have an understanding and supportive SO are so blessed! My wife initially saw my cross dressing as a bombshell dropped on her. She is starting to be more understanding and is coming around somewhat. She just doesn’t want to go out shopping with Sarah. At least now I am able to wear light makeup around her, toenail polish and thigh highs with shorts so that is progress in my book! At the time I married her, I suppressed and hid that side of me. Now with the help of this wonderful community I am embracing my feminine side and feel that it makes me a more caring and compassionate person.
- May 6, 2021 at 7:04 am #488549
I also suppressed a lot when I was married but now that I am single the suppression is going away!
- May 6, 2021 at 7:47 am #488575Anonymous
Ive found that if i suppress my urges when i get a chance to be me i go totally over the top and spend lots on new outfits and of course new heels too xx
- May 6, 2021 at 8:54 am #488604Anonymous
Id say some are as my ex was utterly shocked and said i was disgusting but then thats one of the reasons she is a ex xx
- May 6, 2021 at 10:30 am #488641
I think if you use your listening skills as you date and then get serious you can get a decent idea of where your so will draw a line and sometimes it is based on religious beliefs and for others it is just a part of who they are as a person. The best advice I ever got was that you should have the talk if you are in a serious relationship and about to be intimate with a woman you love so that seeing your panties as you get naked is not her first clue. The casual relationship would in my opinion merit no talk and avoid panty wearing unless the relationship turns then see the above.
- July 19, 2021 at 8:55 am #519818Anonymous
Update: my wife let me go to the gym and to a brewery with her wearing metallic magenta nail polish! I told her how grateful I was for allowing me to be seen with her wearing fingernail polish. I have really embraced this giant step and am so thankful for everyone’s support and advice!
- July 19, 2021 at 11:49 am #519898Anonymous
That is amazing Sarah!
congrats,..
— Abbie 🥰
- July 19, 2021 at 8:10 pm #520132Anonymous
Thanks Abbie Normal! Young Frankenstein is a favorite of mine!
- July 19, 2021 at 12:13 pm #519906
Just remember to move at her pace and not push for more than she is comfortable with😊
- July 19, 2021 at 1:00 pm #519926Anonymous
Thanks Jeannie. That is great advice. I do push the boundaries a lot and my wife is onto my game! Lol
- May 6, 2021 at 6:16 am #488524Anonymous
I embrace everything female and have done since i was a teenager xx
- May 6, 2021 at 8:47 am #488603Anonymous
Was thinking about the 1st time i ever put something feminine on and by my reckoning it was around 1973! And ive not looked back well only sad of the denial i was in as threw away loads of beautiful clothes and thats my one regret in life as would of liked to keep them but denial is a bitch hugs xxx
- May 6, 2021 at 9:19 am #488613
Krissy, i know that feeling only to well, throwing away only to start again months or maybe only weeks later. Xxx
- May 6, 2021 at 11:51 am #488698Anonymous
When i was 25years old i bought some of the most beautiful lingerie and clothes only to get with a woman who wouldn’t stand for it and i threw it all away and 9mths later relationship went pear shaped and totally regretted purging myself, its only happened twice but huge regrets as felt so femme in the clothes so i told myself this will never happen again and its not xx
- May 6, 2021 at 9:13 am #488611Anonymous
Thanks so much for this wonderful topic. There is n better rush of excitement and adventure than going out fully dressed as a beautiful woman! This site has been such a blessing to me! It is comforting to know that the girls on here share exactly the same thrill as I do dressing! I am getting more and more comfortable and confident going out dressed.I used to care but now I don’t really care what other people think about it. I still have reservations about my neighbors seeing me though. I have come a really long way since I joined here on 12/30/21, my 53rd birthday. Thanks so much girlfriends!
- May 6, 2021 at 11:52 am #488700Anonymous
Excellent topic loved it thanks 😊
- May 6, 2021 at 11:46 am #488696Anonymous
Being the total feminine woman is the goal i need to score, slowly getting there
- May 6, 2021 at 11:55 am #488704Anonymous
Embrace it and love yourself , feel beautiful and be beautiful too xx
- May 6, 2021 at 7:56 pm #488921
Trisha,
I know the feeling! Last night I was watching some TV when all of a sudden I noticed how wonderful my capris felt! The bottom of my shiny chins sticking out and my smooth feet with painted nails accentuating my heels! Like you I felt glorious and was thankful to be so aware!
Thanks Trisha for sharing!
Martina - July 19, 2021 at 1:53 am #519717Anonymous
Strappy heels, nylons, floral matching bra and panties and a pale blue floral summer dress, just feels so wonderful, that’s why I love being a cross dresser
- May 6, 2021 at 7:08 am #488550
Yeah I wear thigh highs panties and bra underneath my work uniform at times. The loose shirt hides my padded bra at times.
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