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    • #387784
      72christine
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      Registered On: November 29, 2019
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      I have searched for places like this but there are none anywhere around my area

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      Debbie J
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      Sounds like a business opportunity 🙂

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      Patty Phose
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      As the weather’s been cooling, I have been dressing and going out more often. I’m very tempted to attend a meeting or party, but with this covid virus, social distancing and mask wearing, I haven’t been going.

      So for now I’ll just go out for a drive in Patty mode, get out and walk around a bit here and there, run a few short errands and maybe if nerve and courage permits, a brief shopping adventure.

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      Araminta Purdy
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      I know what you mean. I dream of a private club with changing rooms, salon, bar, etc.

      Araminta.

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    • #387398
      Maya Sol
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      I never met up with other CDs in real life. I saw TGs before in real life (clubs, street, praide, other places) but I never talked with someone in person. I remember that in the previous city that I was living in I used to attend a party line, and many times a very tall TG was there wearing impossible drag high heels that turn her even more taller. One time I was sitting somewhere in the club and she sat down next to me. Inside I had a lot of questions to ask her (tips for woman clothes, body care, etc) but I wasn’t brave enough to ask anything so I kept sitting there quite. I guess she had crash on me since that she set so close to me and it had enough room :). I have a place nearby that I heard that TGs like this place, I went one time but it was too crowd and I didn’t notice of TGs around (but I didn’t really check everyone). Anyway, not a place to meet new people.

      I wish that I had a real life CD friend. Not as a sexual thing, just sometimes that sharing the same experience as me. I need to keep everything inside and we are human, we need someone to talk to, and I can’t do it with any of my closed friends. I can’t really do it with my wife, that know about Maya, because it’s different. She will always be in the wife perspective if you understand what I mean. It’s like you only talk with men about men’s problems. Some things I can only talk with other CD.

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    • #387325
      Sean Well
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      Molly  I’m xactly the same as you   It’s very private   But I want to expand and share with like minded people    I want to dress with more then one person  I want to have sex as well  something I have never done but dreamed of it for years   I want to have fun with this  I want to share

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    • #354496
      Muhammad Ali
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      Kindly emAil me I need help doing my makeup

    • #354480
      Skyler Connor
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      Hi,

      My home is a safe haven since I live alone.  I do attend parties at CD Shoppe.  There are generally about a dozen girls and we talk about fashion and makeup.  There is dancing etc. It is a very safe haven.  We have not had any get togethers since the lockdown.  We may never have another party, and that will be a shame!

       

      Skylar

       

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    • #347379
      Amy Myers
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      I am in much the same situation as you. There was a group of local CD’s I used to meet with monthly, sometimes more often. We’ve got together on line a couple of times, but its’ not the same!

      Going en femme, chatting, hugging, personal interaction are what I am missing.

      Amy

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    • #347331
      Laura Lovett
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      Oh, me too, darling.

      Because of lockdown, I can’t even join my support group via Zoom.

      It’s so frustrating!

      Love Laura

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    • #347281
      rebekka moore
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      Just like all of the gurls, can’t wait to get back to “normal” if that ever happens completely.

      stay safe Ladies, and stay well!

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    • #346947
      Stephanie Kennedy
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      Hi Michelle I initially thought that you were talking about the private clubs that have been ask to shut down due to virus. I immediately could empathize with those of us who used those clubs for dressing and friendship. It truly has put a little damper on some of our cross dressing community. We still have CDH and other social media that allows us to connect with each other. I hope for those who have not found a place like a private club or some type of organized group that has a get together maybe once or twice a month just to share your thoughts and show off your cute outfits. It can bring so much relief  to a stress full week not being able to express that pretty and cute part of us.  Luv Stephanie

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    • #346938
      Alice Black
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      Registered On: January 18, 2020
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      I have been involved in setting up a local CDH chapter with the same hope of being able to gather and be dressed up with other girls. And, We now have a Mass chapter(I am from Massachusetts) with a couple of out of staters of about 10 members and we hope pandemic eventually calms to point where we can gather some night at a restaurant sometime in next few months. But of course, it is harder to do if you live in a place that is remote and where there are no other girls to meet up like in one of the CDH local chapters.

      You have my empathy.

      Alice Black

       

       

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    • #346926
      Molly Lace
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      I think I could get over my terror and make the it from the car to the front door.  My heart would might stop but I think I could do it.  Show up in femme or guy mode with a suitcase?  What to bring?  Is it bad to have a shot or three before walking up to the door?  Conservative lingerie or just wear my favorites?  Ok I think I would be a little bit of a wreck…

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    • #346925
      Vanessa Vanreed
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      That is exactly how I feel.  I usually step out a couple of times a month by my self but it would be nice to do it with friends.

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    • #346886
      BillieJay
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      Registered On: September 21, 2018
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      Funny, my wife was just texting me at work last evening about when we’re going to be able to do another girlfriends night out again.
      I told her we’re hoping to meet some friends in Palm Springs one weekend and a weekend in Las Vegas in June.

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    • #346879
      Sean Well
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      I am exactly the same  so if you get close to the jersey shore just let me know and we could be nervous together

       

       

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    • #346865
      Molly Lace
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      I think it would be fun to dress with other CDs in a safe and fun environment.  I’ve never met up with other CDs before and think it could be amazing.  I am looking for support and camaraderie with other CDs.  I am private about my dressing and have never discussed it with anyone in person.

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      Justme M
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      What a wonderful idea. I like the Airbnb thought. Would be fantastic to get help from those girls more experienced. Games, wine although I’m a whiskey gurl, story sharing, makeup tips….what’s not to like.

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    • #346784
      Amanda Wannabe
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      Registered On: April 30, 2020
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      Same, girl!

      I think it would be fun to get a big suite or Air BNB with a bunch of girls and just spend a few days dressed!

      Amanda

    • #346717
      Cece X
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      Registered On: April 8, 2020
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      I agree with you so much, Michelle. I am kind of new at dressing and somewhat closeted about it. Sometimes dressing alone at home seems so solitary to me, wishing there was someone with me to appreciate the new me. Let us keep high the hope that opportunities to gather will open very soon, and that our online communities will become live-in-person communities.

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