Do you keep something fem with, or close to you all the time?

Even when in drab, I have an item with me most of the time, or close by. Could be ear rings in my pocket. Lipstick in the car. Mascara perhaps. Hairband. Spare set of clothing behind the back seat. The items can be potentially endless.

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    • #409889
      Virtual Flow
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      I wear panties stealthily when at work.

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      Rachel McFadden
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      I wear a woman’s ring – to be fair, it’s not overtly feminine in its style just a simple band with a single stone. But, I know what it is and it gives me some comfort.

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      Paula F
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      Only and always panties.  Sometimes my bra, depending on which top/shirt I am wearing when in drab.


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      Daisy Marie
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      As I’ve been growing my hair during two years, my mother gave me two scrunchies to hold the hair. They are the closest fem objects I keep close to me even in boy mode (and, supposedly, without showing up any clue of my inner girl).



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    • #406610
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      I have kept my hair long for the past 30 years, the height of my ponytail is a good indication of how femme I am feeling.

      I also keep my toenails painted.

      That little bit of femininity goes a long way.

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      Patty Phose
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      When I’m out in my male mode, the only times I will take along femme items is if I’m going somewhere where I’m going to transform into Patty, like going from work to a CD party or meeting. Other than that I see no reason why I would need my Patty items.

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      Kristen Moore
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      My purse goes everywhere I go. A lot of times it stays in my car when I get to where I’m going, unless it’s a friends house who knows. And then my purse has all kinds of stuff in it.

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      Sandy Jayson
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      I wear earrings 24/7 and have my toe nails painted pink.  when I’m not working I wear panties 24/7.



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      Phoebe Smyth
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      OMG Absolutely! 100% of the time.
      Always wearing panties, fem deodorant, nail polish (Toes) socks. Some times pantyhose if I know I won’t be doing anything to ruin them.

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      Alexis Tresse
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      Figuring that this poll asks about Alexis, I  clicked ‘no,’ but barrettes and ponytail bands are in my car for visits with my grandkid.

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    • #401360
      Registered On: June 29, 2018
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      Mary Jane, I haven’t worn a pair of men’s underwear in close to 10 years know! About 90% of the time I have on a pair of Ellen Tracy microfiber briefs which I think are the most comfy pair of panties in the world.

      I wear several other brands and styles but those Ellen Tracys are on me just about every single day and I have over 100 pairs of them I’ve collected over the past 10 years of so! They come in three packs at TJ Maxx or Marshalls but they are getting harder and harder to find as the years go by!

      XOXOXO Scarlett

    • #401160
      Registered On: June 18, 2020
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      ”Yes….myself”….. The perfect reply and very funny too  xx

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      Heather Jameson
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      Only were panties now I’m retired, I don’t even own any men’s underwear anymore. I also carry a pair of boots and shoes in my trunk for when the mood and opportunity strike me as well as a couple of pairs of earrings and a wig in my glove compartment. You never know when you’ll drive into the pink fog.

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      karley delaware
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      Oh yes, all the time!!  I have missed so many opportunities.  I keep a small bag with an outfit hidden in the car just in case.  I keep pink hair bands with me, wear a plastic gold like  anklet under my socks when wearing my uniform shorts (Daring!!) , a girly earring to wear on the drive home.  To celebrate the upcoming weekend after work, I like to wear my earring, a camisole with raggedly short cut offs, my anklet……….pull my hair into pony tail with a pink band……………..put my flowery mask on and be a girl!!!  Sometimes I sense guys checking me out ………… if they might know………….or maybe want to know me???  I just have to remember to stop somewhere to change into man mode……………………………………..karley

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      Dandy Lion
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      For me its i always have my toes painted

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      stephanie plumb
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      Yes……  myself!

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      Michelle Bailey
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      Hi  I have my toenails painted ,use female deodorant and as I underdress most of the time ,I have on my panties (with pantyliner ) pantyhose/tights and bra and I am loving it .   Michelle  xx

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      Laurel Nylons
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      Panties and/or hose as I underdress daily, keeps me safe, sane, whole and happy!

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      Kelly Terry
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      Most of the time I do at least underdress but the few times I don’t I don’t feel the need that I must have something fem with me.
      Now I do have fem stuff on/with me in other ways. Things like my watch or a jacket that could be male but does close right over left = fem version so I guess in one way I always have something.


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    • #400270
      Jo Jett
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      I keep lip balm in my work truck and private vehicle, I wear  ladies deodorant as male stuff burns my armpits and makes them peel, so there is spare of that also in my vehicles and I’m in panties 24/7.

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    • #400254
      Grace Scarlett
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      Painted toenails and female deodorant.

      Grace x

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      melissa la quinta
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      Deborah: Same here!

      • This reply was modified 3 weeks ago by melissa la quinta. Reason: reply was supposed to be to Deborah Sullivan
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      Deborah Sullivan
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      Wear panties everyday and carry lip gloss along with lite masscara for the lashes and a stud earring or two.

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      Kay Lambert
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      I underdress 24/7, so I definitely have something feminine with me daily. I couldn’t imagine being anywhere without my panties.


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    • #400105
      Rei Durden
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      All the time? No. As I add to my wardrobe though it’s become more often.

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    • #400101
      Rachel Cross
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      i always have my toes painted. always wear my toe ring and always wear my bellybutton jewelry. as far as having girl items in my truck or pocket the answer is no. im happy with the 3 thing i always have and sometime i will even wear my sandals in man mode. dont care if people i dont know see my painted toes.

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    • #400097
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      Underdress daily panties, camisole, and thigh hi’s depending on the weather.
      Red polished toenails, of course!

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      Diane Crow
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      I wear an ankle bracelet, a pinky ring and an earring, every day.



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      Martina Klarc
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      I also frequently “under-dress” and wear 2 “generic” earrings in each ear.

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      Ria Freichuk
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      Always in panties and always wear lipstick.

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      Nikki Dahl
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      Lipstick in my pocket always! I always wear earings of some sort whether it’s hoops or diamond studs. I under dress every day, bras, hosiery and panties.

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      Janet williams
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      I do keep face cream in my car and I do also have a razor  for  my legs in car  I often wear panties 24/7 so I don’t need to bring anything like that and also wear slim pad in panties but if I had my choice I would have almost anything a woman can have but being married limits supply


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      Mary Jane
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      Labels get confusing. They must be important, because we keep trying to find one that fits.

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      Kay Anderson
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      I usually have lip gloss or lipstick in my pocket.


    • #400027
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      I take a backpack to work every day and always have a mini nail care kit, a crystal nail file and a coulpe of spare panties with me.

      With being a senior (just), and as body parts begin to fail… you never know when you will need a change of underwear. Have been thankful of a fresh pair of panties on a few occasions.

      Gen… 💋

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        I do empathize with the senior moments I fully qualify as senior (75 in a month) and have had a few myself. I kept a couple of spare panties in my desk drawer when I was still employed, I guess the folks who cleaned out my desk when I was riffed wondered a bit when they found them?!

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      T.J. Byron
      Registered On: October 18, 2018
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      I said yes, because I always have red Polish on my toes and Secrets in Lace under shears on under my clothes. Whole body is shaved, and fingernails are ready for paint.

      I go out dressed at least weekly.

      Love having reminders everyday!

      Love to all…Dr.T.J.

    • #400017
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      Well… I don’t know if it counts, but I always keep my nails on my feet painted, regardless of where I am or if I’m in drab, etc. It’s not really an item, but it’s a nice fem reminder for me. It does mean however that I have to be careful when I wear white socks as my red nails do show through a little. Anyway, I’ve yet to find anyone I’ve met with who has requested I take off my socks ;P

    • #400014
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      I don’t associate my femininity with objects. I really believe I should have been born female and when I dress up it is more to make me look like I should have rather than because it makes me feel different. I get dysphasia (?) when I look in the mirror and it isn’t what I should see. This is probably the biggest confusion I have with labelling myself. Do I crossdress? Yes. Am I a Crossdresser or trans? Who knows? So in answer to your question, I don’t keep something femme with me. I am femme, no matter how I look.

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      Mary Jane
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      I always have at least a lip balm.

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      Tiff Any
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      Lip gloss goes everywhere with me , in my work Esky , my work vehicle  🌹🌹

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