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Hey ladies
An easy poll. What was the longest you spent dressed as a lady. Here is my story. Dave had a long weekend and wasn’t going to see the family. For three wonderful days, Danielle was out front. When Dave got home. He took off the male clothes he was wearing. Slowly I appeared wearing knit pantsuit. The only time I wasn’t dressed was in the shower. It was great
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I’ve done it for a full day but it’s tough. Seem to always have people stopping by thankfully usually they call first but a couple times I’ve had to race upstairs and pretend I’m going to the bathroom while I scrub off makeup and change really fast. If I’m dressed during the day I always have regular clothes ready to go quick in case I have to change. Usually I can’t wait until I’m done working and take a shower and shave everywhere and get dressed and do my makeup. I’ll wear that until morning and sometimes beyond. But usually at some point I have to change as I either need to go somewhere or have a customer coming. When my s/o is here I have to hide everything as she’s totally not supportive. Good thing is she’s not a fan of body hair so me being shaved is appealing to her
One day. and I always hate when it’s time to take it all off and go back to “male mode”. With shaving, makeup, nails picking out an outfit and getting set up for pictures it can take up to 2 hour or a little more just to get ready. And then there’s clean up and hiding, and putting it all away again. Worth it, but wish I could stay en-fem a bit longer.
Nothing better when having a planned trip
When I know I can dress, although the eternal question is why is it not possible to r
remain “femme” as each evening same procedure of removing makeup, etc… as when travelling alone I have the occasion to be “Helene for several days; driving, filling petrol at petrol stations, going to the ladies, checking in at hotels(although sometimes a small confusion when me a turns up instead of Mr…however, if a confusion I take it as a compliment) and a nice meal in a restaurant; nothing better than treated Madame…sometimes it just feels a potty to changed back….but that is life?
I marked a week but it was about 10 days, my girlfriend was accepting but we always had company dropping by so it was hit and miss as far as being dressed around the house. That year we decided to take our vacations during the time between Thanksgiving and Christmas, well when Thanksgiving came around we took them as planed and the first day she gets a call from work to fly to DC . Well we weren’t happy at all, but she said we would tell everyone that we were both going so I could take my time off and do as I please knowing it had been hard not being able to get dressed as much as I would like to. So she was gone for 10 day’s and no one even as much as knocked on the door. It was nice to be able to be a woman 24/7 except when I had to go to the store. When she returned she call from the airport and told me she was on her way so I wouldn’t freak out at the door being unlocked. Now I am a single Dad and when my girl is away or at school I get stay dressed most all the time.
I polled one day, does that still count if you do it day after day? Every night I would scrub off the make up, (may leave the nails)…..get up early to defoliate (shave) then a new face and a new outfit for a new day.
Sally xx
I came out to my wife about 10 years ago. From the time I told her about my feminine side, I took my time and slowly let Danika out so my wife would have some adjustment time for each new advancement in my change. After about 18 months, she has totally accepted who I am so I spend almost all my time enfemmed. We do have out girl days out. We love to shop together. We are each others fashion consultant. Also, we totally respect each other. There are times when she prefers that my male side is with her and I respect her wishes without question. So for nearly the last 10 years, I have pretty much lived as a woman and LOVE every second of it.
hi , been dress for a lot of weeks a few times , mostly at outings like the erie sister (going there 18 years), keystone(5 years)and detroit invasion(4 years ,fast pace but a lot of fun). my wife is supportive and sometimes goes with me for the week. love my salley time and she knows i need it time to time. i also joined several meet up groups as salley and after a few years they seem to have accept me and i taught them a lot , mostly we are not all gay. i tell them i am a guy that likes girl stuff , thats all period . so i get out at least 1 a week in the main stream. so be brave and stand up for who we are. have a great time in what u do 🙂 Salley for the future .
ps after a week of close shaving time to go back for a rest.
Since my wife let me dress in front of her three years ago I normally dress in girl mode about 4 or five days a week.We took early severance from our jobs eight years ago.We are up at about 8.a.m. and my wife chooses my outfit of the day.I normally stay in it until I go to bed usually by 11.30 or midnight.Sometimes when I am logged into CDH,I stay in girly mode until about 2.a.m.
It’s all a far cry from my early years of dressing.When I was a teenager I used to snatch just an hour or two of dressing en femme whilst my mum was out shopping.I didn’t really do lengthy dressing sessions until I got married.I used to take days off work when my wife was in work.I would dresss from about eight a.m. until about 3.p.m.She didn’t know about Roberta then.So off would come the clothes way before she returned home.
I was in Lisbon Portugal,i saw others in skirts or dresses,i went out in a skirt and tea shirt and no one took any notice,i bought more cool skirts and open flat shoes in the cool evenings i would put my medium long blond wig on bra and make up
Was wonderful a feeling of freedom only down side were the pinched bottom on crowded buses ..i didnt feel i could say anything.
The other problem was the loo woman did not think i should use theirs and in the mens i was asked if i would go with them to a hotel once i did as it was late but it was not for the night just a two hours
I checked a month but it was 3 weeks. My wife and I were separated temporarily and I stayed with a friend. He knows me as Heather mainly and insisted I be comfortable, besides at this time we were divorcing and I was going to fully transition, so I figured here we go. I lived ate and slept as me and loved every minute of it. My wife and i reconciled and i went home but that’s when heather was set free.
Usually I sleep en-fem but my cats get me up around 7 to feed them then back to sleep for a couple more hours sleeping, then up to go out to eat lunch and do any errands I have to. Back home around 3 or 4 and I dress and stay dressed until it is time for bed, that last until morning and then it’s all over again. I go to a trans group every other Wednesday and go in full fem there.
I love so much to be dressed, it just feels so right and the clothes are just the thing to put me in an expressive mood. So I guess you could call the time at about 5 years.
I marked a month but it was just a little over and not 24/7.
I have a relative who is in assisted living. So three days a week I visit them for about an hour. Except for that and taking time out to grocery shop and yard work I am dressed. I then take a few days off to visit family out of state and then start dressing again for another month.
Due to the heat I do not spend much time outside in the summer so this works out well.Earlier this week my wife was away for two days. We were awaiting a delivery around lunchtime but as soon as they had left I put on my makeup, got dressed and Diane emerged. I slept in a nightdress for the first time and had a few hours the following morning in feminine clothes. In total it was only 18 hours but what a wonderful 18 hours – I enjoyed every minute! The downside was having to change into drab afterwards. I actually felt quite gloomy and deflated. I would love to spend a whole weekend or better still a whole week en femme but don’t know if it will ever happen.
For me it was not quite a full week – 5 days actually. This was about 6 months ago whilst recovering from a chest infection. I actually spent most of the month ‘en-femme’ but 5 days was the longest unbroken stretch. I had several GP appointments and needed to do food shopping which is why I had drab breaks, otherwise lots of time dressed and despite the infection, it was great to be able to dress ‘en-femme’ for so long.
Take good care girls.
Anne-Marie.
When i was much younger in my teens i would dress almost every day or as much as i could. It seems the older i got the less opportunity i got to dress due to work and family obligations. I hid my need to to express my feminate side for most of my adult life. I did have a 3 year run in my mid thirties. I joined a private club for crossdresers and transwoman. I was able to go out with the other woman to orgnized dinners and events.We would go out to a gay nite clubs where there were other girls and the men that like us. It was fun. I enjoyed flirting and loved the attention i got from a man. Those places is where i ended any fantasy of being with a man. It was fun to confirm it. It so much fun to be a 👧
When I was working and so was my wife ,very occasionally I worked from home and that gave me the chance to be Michelle and dress fully enfemme ,I was in heaven , also a very few times when my wife was away for the night ,I would go to bed in a nightie ,sleeping bra and panties . We are both retired now so these chances have gone for now . Michelle xx
I manage an entire day once or twice a week, and half-days about the same. The longest time I can recall was 3 days, during the lockdown, and that included an outing to buy groceries. I make an effort to never spend an entire day in drab.
Note: For me, “drab” means GV jeans and a ladies’ tee.
i have been lucky enough to be completely myself for a few weekends away. i had found a wonderful group of CDTS ladies who do a weekend in PA about every other month. Before COVID i was able to attend with my wife’s blessing four of these weekends away and it was bliss. Just wish i could be dressed in that more natural and comfortable way everyday!
suzette
Suzette York wrote: ” Just wish i could be dressed in that more natural and comfortable way everyday!”
Suzette, that’s a perfect description of how I feel being Bettylou.
Several years ago, when Atlanta had a large and diverse Tri-ESS group, both my wife and I would attend each month, and I would stay cross dressed from Thursday until Sunday. Throughout the four days, there were activities for both the CDs and for wives and GFs.
My wish is that someday another group will be formed here in Atlanta, perhaps a CDH local group?
I voted for “Other”, because it was more than a day, and nearly two full days dressed completely en femme.
It was last New Years Eve and we had been invited to a New Years party by some CD friends. So I got dressed the morning of Dec 31, went to the party, stayed over, and wore my leopard print satin pjs, then spent all of the next day dressed, but more casually, jeans and a sweater, but still with my hip pads, bra and forms. For the party I was very dolled up in a black sequin mini skirt and red sequin top with knee high black boots, not what I’d wear to the mall, for sure!
Amy
I’ve never done more than a few hours dressed.
I’m going to challenge myself to get a full day ASAP!!
Thanks
-Caroline
I put one day, but I think the most I have been able to do is probably 7 hours, while wife at work and kids at school… I would love to be able to spend longer, as everything is rushed, those hours are heavenly being who you want to be, without being judged…. xx
3 day weekend. i left dressed. got a manicure / pedicure, checked into a hotel about 3 hours away. went to the casino and played games and then to a concert that night. back to the hotel to sleep. in the morning i went to the lobby for free breakfast then rode around town and did some shopping. went back to the casino and played games again. later that night did another concert and back to the hotel to sleep. woke up went to the lobby for breakfast then headed home. on the way home i stopped at a mall and got my ears pierced and bought some shoes. headed home. had a fun weekend by myself. want to do it again when this virus is gone.
12 consecutive days…
In the summer of 2018 I did the MINI Takes The States event. It is a cross country tour arranged by MINI/BMW. I did about 2/3 of the Western Route and that took me from my home state of California into Arizona, New Mexico and Colorado. I had no idea that the town of Winslow, AZ had embraced the Eagles’ song as they have. Who Knew?!?! Oh, there is also a red flatbed Ford truck parked at the curb!!
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I once had 9 days I was out of town and had the whole time free. I only packed one set of man clothes. I ate, shopped and spent the entire time dressed. Funny part was by the end I wasn’t dressing “glam” but more like an every day soccer mom, slacks/jeans, sweaters and flats. It was nice to reach the point of just being a woman. It was really hard to go back to man mode and left me feeling a significant loss. That was one of several key events that helped me accept I am definitely more a tg than cd I believe.
🍷CThanks for saying that Carolyne. On the occasions in the past when I’ve been able to be dressed longer term (days to weeks in a row) I’ve always been a bit taken back how rapidly it all becames rather ‘normal’ and ‘comfortable’. I ceased ‘crossdressing’ everyday and just ‘got dressed’ with my hair and makeup being part of my daily routine.
I’ve always wondered whether others felt similarly if/when they were able to be female for longer periods and also whether the ease and familiarity I felt said something a bit deeper about me and who I am.
I’d be curious to hear other peoples’ thoughts. xx
I’m always dressed as a woman when I’m at home. As you I don’t think the term crossdressing when I come home from work. When I come home I just slip into the clothes I love. In the weeks, the only time I’m dressed as a man is when I get to and from work. At work everybody wear scrubs (at the OR). It’s unisex so I don’t know how that counts. At the weekends it’s all woman’s clothing from Friday when I come home until monday morning. So a normal day in the week I’m wearing men’s clothing for about 3 hours.
I checked 1 day but I been wearing ladies undies daily for about 6 yrs now,I dress when my wife goes to work. I’m always in leggings though underneath sweatpants. Love wearing bras too so sometimes I’ll be in leggings with a thong and bra underneath sweatpants n sweatshirt and the wife doesn’t know. Hate having to hide Amber.
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