do you tuck in drab (guy) mode?

Lucille Sorella suggests that we tuck in drab mode to refine our technique and get used to the new feeling. Do you tuck in drab (guy) mode?

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    • #724874
      Paula Here
      Registered On: April 13, 2020
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      I wear panties every day.  I start the day buy tucking everything away, buy do not reset everything during the day unless the outfit requires it.  If I plan on being in femme mode and want the smooth look I tuck and tape for the day.


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      Roberta Broussard
      Registered On: July 20, 2020
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      I am always tucked. I underdress every day and being tucked allows me to feel more feminine.

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    • #724855
      Wanda Ovahear
      Registered On: October 19, 2022
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      Tucking is submitting to the cis-hetero patriarchal establishment’s definition of gender! By which, of course, I mean there are no gaffes in my size…

      All joking aside, drag or drab I’ve no need to tuck as I am the ultimate “grower”. Well, a significant one anyway.

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    • #724781
      Registered On: April 18, 2022
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      I finally ordered a couple of pairs of tucking thongs recently and now I’m tucked whenever possible!  I love the feeling, especially while doing yoga in women’s leggings.  I’m mesmerized both by how great it looks and the feeling of being smooth even in drab, though I give it a rest at night.   Tucking daily makes me want to shop for women’s jeans and pants to wear all the time because they will fit and look so good.

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      Lara Tucker
      Registered On: September 29, 2021
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      I had usually only done it when wearing a tight skirt, or dress using a gaf. I have since experimented with a pad in panties in drab mode. It has gotten easier, and there is less discomfort. The gaf is still better for a good long term hold, but either way seeing that flat front when I can get back into something feminine is just lovely!


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      Holly Morris
      Registered On: April 15, 2022
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      I’ve been tucking for so long (actually, before I even knew what “tucking” was) that it just feels normal to me to do it. Plus, regardless of what gender I’m presenting, I love the nice flat, feminine front that I always present!



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      DeeAnn Hopings
      Registered On: November 10, 2019
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      I do not tuck. I tried it initially, but found it uncomfortable. As long as I am flaccid, firm or extra firm panties work well. It also helps to pull the panties down in the front and up in the back. That lowers the front triangle for better coverage.

    • #715559
      Marg Produe
      Registered On: March 16, 2022
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      I tuck as needed to fit the clothes I’m wearing.  Tuck on, tuck off.   Tucking doesn’t bother me either way.  Marg

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      Jess Secret
      Registered On: February 18, 2021
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      I’m closeted and just dress at bedtime. I’ve never tucked.

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    • #715027
      Caroline Davidson
      Registered On: January 31, 2023
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      I tuck almost all of the time.

      I love the look that a good tuck gives me and besides which, I think it essential. I don’t like showing any bumps or bulges when I wear tight skirts or dresses, and I detest anything showing when I wear jeans or leggings.

      I also enjoy how it feels. The feeling I get when I see my bump-free reflection, the way it feels when I’m walking about and that feeling you get when you can feel absolutely nothing between your legs other than a lovely flat area beneath lingerie and tights. At the risk of indiscretion, I am able to achieve a convincing tuck just folding, pushing and securing with a single 3″ piece of micropore tape, so it is a rather sensual experience 😳

      I am probably tucked 90% of the time, including when sleeping – though I do allow them a night off from time to time to recuperate 🙂

      I don’t harbour any desires to transition, I just enjoy being as flat and fem-looking as possible. After almost two years of being almost permanently tucked, being untucked feels decidedly odd.

    • #714983
      Jill Lacey
      Registered On: December 25, 2022
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      I’ve been doing it for so long it just comes natural.

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    • #714970
      Registered On: January 5, 2023
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      I also find tucking slightly uncomfortable. I have bought a couple of gaffs and I will wear them if I feel like hiding everything when I dress up. I also dress only at home and do not go out in public yet. I am still getting the feel of who I am and where this is all going with me. Right now I dress because I like the feeling and it makes me happy, I don’t have any feelings of trying to pass fully.

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        Stephie Terrill
        Registered On: May 29, 2019
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        Best reason for dressing!  We like the feeling and it makes us happy!

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      Fiona Black
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      Registered On: November 23, 2019
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      I never tuck. I have a problem with one of my boys and it’s too painful.

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    • #714709
      Emily Alt
      Registered On: August 24, 2019
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      Lucille Sorella lacks the proper frame of reference to advise on tucking.  Maybe she should try wearing a binder every day for the rest of her life….

      Tucking hurts.  I rarely did it.

      Fortunately, one of the effects of HRT is shrinkage.  Lots of it….


    • #714706
      Cece X
      Registered On: April 8, 2020
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      For me, the crossdressing experience is only about wearing, not about passing. I have facial hair.I dress at home, never in public. As a result, I have never tucked and probably never will. The thought of tucking gives me shivers.

    • #714593
      Lauren Mugnaia
      Registered On: November 1, 2021
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      Hi girls,

      I’ve been tucking forever, long before I ever heard the term. I’m transgender and have always wanted to make that stuff as invisible as possible. I figured out when I was quite young that I could shove my little boys up into their hiding spots and tuck the remainder behind and wear nice panties and actually look perfect.
      I’m still considering an orchiectomy if I can get my cardiologist to ok further surgery. A vaginoplasty would be wonderful but because I am a cardiac patient it isn’t recommended. I did find out that I can have breast implants, have to think about it a bit more and then find local surgical options.


      Ms Lauren M

    • #714589
      Registered On: March 19, 2021
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      Correction hun I do not tuck in drab mode. I only tuck in femme mode and cosplay mode when I wear skintight clothes girlfriend. Sometimes I don’t. Sorry girls.

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    • #714583
      Stephanie Muse
      Registered On: January 3, 2023
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      No not in drab, but I do on workout days because I am usually girdling everything in under my clothes during toning workouts. It also helps me remember what I’m getting in shape for. 🙂 Also, when wearing panties to bed I do.


    • #714563
      Jenn Curious
      Registered On: April 12, 2022
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      Honestly I do try. But sometimes it’s uncomfortable. I don’t dress to pass. I dress for myself at times. I do almost always underdress though.

      Hope that makes sense.

    • #714553
      Registered On: May 12, 2016
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      I will however tuck in Drab while wearing my Girdle and Stockings underneath.

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    • #714519
      Gemma Lovegood
      Registered On: December 29, 2022
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      Tucking is a pleasurable experience for me. It always has been, since I first started experimenting. Long before I knew what it was called, I learned how on my own.
      I can’t underdress often, but I can enjoy the feeling of being tucked either while underdressed in panties or even just sitting around in drab. It seems to satisfy the pink fog, and the practice benefits me when I get the rare occasion to dress completely.
      I’m pretty efficient at it now, and with a few easy adjustments I can tuck in complete drab (wearing men’s boxer briefs) while seated at my office, legs crossed, as I am right now.

      -Gemma ❤️💋

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