- October 2, 2022 at 6:44 am #680567Krista DeanParticipantRegistered On: October 2, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 28Has thanked: 79 timesBeen thanked: 161 times
A heavy dark cloud was finally lifted from my closet.
It was by accident. But deep in my heart I always wanted her to know. Now the cats out of the bag. And i can breathe easier.
Im so greatful she is understanding, and it honestly grew us closer. I hope this new light burns bright and long.
To a new chapter in our lives!
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- October 4, 2022 at 1:16 am #680986Rhonda LeeBaroness - AnnualRegistered On: September 29, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 149Has thanked: 170 timesBeen thanked: 718 times
You are very fortunate! Count your blessings and have fun!
I never thought my wife would prove accepting. I was so delighted to free myself if the burden of secrecy. Unfortunately it did not last. Others persuaded her it was wrong , I was deviant and had to change. As most know, that isn’t apt to prove possible. It eventually led to divorce. In my case, holding a secret would have been preferable to the nightmare that followed. Most women prove tolerant but supportive women are in the minority and deserve sainthood. Let her know continuously what a blessing she is.
- October 2, 2022 at 9:14 pm #680749Lara TuckerLadyRegistered On: September 29, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 1190Has thanked: 26329 timesBeen thanked: 4335 times
- October 2, 2022 at 5:27 pm #680709Christina IsmeLadyRegistered On: April 8, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 583Has thanked: 618 timesBeen thanked: 1768 times
- October 2, 2022 at 3:47 pm #680688Stephanie FlowersAmbassadorRegistered On: June 26, 2017Topics: 35Replies: 6497Has thanked: 13627 timesBeen thanked: 13632 times
Wonderful to hear Krista having you here with us. With a supportive wife and a love for dressing this is certainly a place you’ll enjoy being part of . The girls here are helpful and friendly with their advice and tips with a heart for understanding about our passion. Develop beautiful friendships ,share each other’s experiences and know you have us to enjoy here.
- October 2, 2022 at 2:50 pm #680677Ginger SnapBaroness - AnnualRegistered On: March 9, 2022Topics: 18Replies: 155Has thanked: 4570 timesBeen thanked: 783 times
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- October 2, 2022 at 10:46 am #680631Rozalyn RichardsLadyRegistered On: July 27, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 482Has thanked: 489 timesBeen thanked: 1796 times
Hi Krista welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, it’s great that you’re wife is supporting you in the next chapter of your life, I’ve no idea what my wife’s reaction would be if i came out to her, I’m not sure if i could go through telling her if she rejected me,
Hugs Rozalyn X 💋
- October 2, 2022 at 9:33 am #680611Ashlee SantosLadyRegistered On: October 1, 2022Topics: 3Replies: 28Has thanked: 110 timesBeen thanked: 154 times
- October 3, 2022 at 1:20 pm #680889Krista DeanLadyRegistered On: October 2, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 28Has thanked: 79 timesBeen thanked: 161 times
Im sorry it went that way.
I know everyones situation is different from one to the next. I know with my journey, I will ultimatly be my true self. And only fate will tell me if thats enough. I hope its for the beeter for you now, and you have more openess in your life.
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- October 2, 2022 at 9:26 am #680608Michelle BurkLadyRegistered On: August 22, 2022Topics: 2Replies: 45Has thanked: 86 timesBeen thanked: 161 times
- October 2, 2022 at 8:47 am #680603Greta La FolleLadyRegistered On: August 6, 2022Topics: 6Replies: 311Has thanked: 619 timesBeen thanked: 1143 times
You are very lucky
When I confessed to being a cd person, my daughters’ mother implanted a divorce lawsuit that is tearing me down more than the neurofibroma on my optic nerve did!
Anyway welcome in CDH
XOXOX from Italy
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- October 2, 2022 at 8:46 am #680602Carole CorbettAmbassadorRegistered On: September 5, 2016Topics: 6Replies: 133Has thanked: 196 timesBeen thanked: 562 times
- October 2, 2022 at 8:28 am #680596Susan TalbotLadyRegistered On: June 28, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 272Has thanked: 3441 timesBeen thanked: 1043 times
Hi Krista. Welcome to CDH fellow Texan. This is a great place and in the few months I have been here it’s been a highlight of many days. Life is so much easier when our spouse or SO is accepting.
- October 2, 2022 at 7:37 am #680578Stephanie BassHostessRegistered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 27Replies: 4210Has thanked: 60351 timesBeen thanked: 15019 times
Hi Krista nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Girl there is so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies telling there stories about there journeys down there femme path in life.. So girlfriend when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Krista as she travels down her own girly path in life.. With a big congrats gilfriend on having a supportive wife as many ladies here myself included that do .. I have been married 39 years came out to mine just after we were married she was very supportive this is such a pleasure and makes life much easier when the three of you can be honest and have fun .. Girl just be careful as mine told me since there was two of me we had to split up the house chores one third and two thirds really didnt see that coming ha ha ..As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and girlfriend we all are just a simple click awat from you.. Again girl nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..
- October 3, 2022 at 7:23 pm #680959LadyRegistered On: October 2, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 28Has thanked: 79 timesBeen thanked: 161 times
- October 3, 2022 at 7:58 pm #680962Stephanie BassHostessRegistered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 27Replies: 4210Has thanked: 60351 timesBeen thanked: 15019 times
Hi Kristas wife you know thats hard to say to you could we have a name to make it easier and like Gwyneth said you can open a place for your self here as the group For the Wifes and significant othher we have many ladys like yourself there my wife included .. You can chat with us any time please think about it ..
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- October 3, 2022 at 1:54 pm #680901LadyRegistered On: October 2, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 28Has thanked: 79 timesBeen thanked: 161 times
I didnt think about the chores thing!
But the roles allready shifted in her favor you could say. I started a job working from home of which subsequently obligated me to the laundry, dishes, dinner…etc. Now i dont mind making dinner though…she cant cook!😆
- October 2, 2022 at 7:04 am #680573Paulette ParfoisDuchessRegistered On: November 17, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 612Has thanked: 2391 timesBeen thanked: 2390 times
Hi Krista, I am so happy for you, and I know exactly how you feel. When I resumed crossdressing about five years ago I told my wife and family right up front. While there were some awkward moments, today my wife is not only accepting, she buys me clothes and we occasionally go to partues together as girls. And you are so correct, when your wife is understanding it is as if a heavy load is lifted off you. It is much more fun to get ‘made up’ while not looking over your shoulder for fear of being discovered! Many Hugs, Paulette
- October 2, 2022 at 6:50 am #680569Abbey LaineLadyRegistered On: June 22, 2022Topics: 2Replies: 12Has thanked: 119 timesBeen thanked: 85 times
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