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    • #603756
      Marti
      Duchess
      Registered On: February 5, 2019
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      Hi Beverley,

      From one grandma to another – welcome!

      Marti x

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    • #603732
      Requal Joanne
      Lady
      Registered On: December 15, 2020
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      Hi Beverly and welcome to this Heavenly address of wonderful friendly and supportive people.

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    • #603495
      Catherine Dickson
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      Registered On: January 22, 2020
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      Welcome, Beverly,

      As I read your post I’m curious about the title. You mention a mature cis, but otherwise I don’t see the connection to grandmothers.

      Also, walking like a woman. This is something I often wonder about when reading CDs posts. I think some CDs might exaggerate the walk. I like to watch women and the ones I see do not walk like they’re on a modeling catwalk. It’s not a plodding walk like they’re pulling a plow either, but it’s really not that different from men.

      You mention a degree in theology. I’m curious – are you in a position that requires that or was that just for your own edification?

      Cheers,

      Catherine

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      • #603499
        Beverly Hanson
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        Registered On: January 2, 2022
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        Hey Catherine.  I’m a mature cd, having several grandchildren.  Lol.  Hence my user name.

        I guess that’s a good way of putting it, that I am in a position to use my degree.  I’ve been moving into retirement, and therefore my endeavors to increase/return to my seemingly feminine roots …. It just feels like it’s time I enjoy feeling pretty.  I’ve done all the usual things married, military,trying to be macho kinda cd’s do.  Closeted, purging, hiding and deepening depression going without.

        My gorgeous and loving wife and I have stepped up our talking about these things.  Just last night she assured me she’s not going anywhere. (Hallelujah!). I sat there with tears.  So she knows my femininity is popping out, stronger.  I told her two weeks into our relationship, way way back then, that I am a crossdresser and probably will be for life.  She told me last night she had sought talking with someone she trusted about it before she committed to us.  That was now 23 years ago.  I couldn’t imagine living without her.  I am a VERY firm believer of: God.  Family. Country.  And guns.  Yes, I serve God, everyday.  Yes, I take care of my family every day.  And so on.  Somewhere my getting all dolled up has to come in.  Perhaps you know as well as I do, at this age one truly understands how long life is.

        Uugghh.  How about you????  Where’d you start this crazy thing we love to do?  I believe you mentioned your faith, how so?  What sort of clothes do you absolutely love?  I shouldn’t ramble so much here about myself… I see my wonderful therapist next week.  Lol.

        (How should I end this…. Hugs?  Love?  Or more sincerely, In Christ….)

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    • #603215
      Liara Wolfe
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      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      Welcome to CDH.

      Hugs, Liara

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    • #603159
      Lara Tucker
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      Registered On: September 29, 2021
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      Welcome Beverly!

      You will find a lot of young beautiful girls here in your age group. This is a great place to meet other girls who have a wide variety of interests enfemme. It is a great accepting community! Your wife may be interested in the SO part of the site. She will be able to chat with others that have cross dressing husbands there.

      Hugs,

      Lara

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    • #603137
      Stephanie Roberts
      Baroness
      Registered On: May 20, 2020
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      Hi Beverly!
      Welcome to CDH!
      So lovely to meet you.
      Love and hugs from Stephanie

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    • #603125
      Lacy Satin
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      Registered On: June 27, 2018
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      If she’s accepting of you wearing panties then what’s the problem of telling her you want to wear more silky feminine clothes?

      I know once my wife accepted my wearing panties I didn’t stop there. Before she knew it I was wearing slips, bras and panties under my drab clothes and it wasn’t long before I was sleeping in nighties and negligees.

      I just believe silky lingerie should be able to be enjoyed by us men, just as women get to enjoy it. Actually I think we enjoy the silkiness of it more than they do.

      • #603205
        Beverly Hanson
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        Registered On: January 2, 2022
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        Thanks for the encouragement!  We actually sat down this past weekend and I actually said “there’s times I just like feeling pretty.” She’s not privy to everything I’ve discussed with my therapist.  My mom dressed me in dresses, pretty pink socks and shiny girls shoes when I was 4.  Kinda complicated… But my mom was the sexual abuser.  But!!!  I have never lost the desires of dressing in women’s clothing.  I’ve even thought seriously about hrt….

        Maybe one day I’ll share how I’ve survived my entire life to this wonderful point in my life.  Retiring from the military.  Sexual/physical/emotional abuse, a failed first marriage, a near successful suicide attempt….. But!!!!  We’ve been loving one another now 23 years, and niether one even thinking about leaving.

        Soooooo….. I’m here to seek acceptance.  Here to have some fun with my stockings, bras and panties.  And, maybe if I can help someone else….

        Oh.  I’ve gotten a Master’s Degree in Theology…. Now throw THAT into the works!  I’ll just say lol!

        • #603466
          Lacy Satin
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          Registered On: June 27, 2018
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          I’m happy life is on the right track for you.

          I would be very interested in hearing your story about your mother dressing you in pretty girls clothes. My mother never dressed me up as a girl, but I know she wanted me to be a girl.  I know that had a lot of influence in me becoming a crossdresser.

          When I first told my wife I wanted to wear nightgowns I told her I just liked the silky fabric. She was trying to be nice and she made me some plain nightshirts made out of nylon. In time I had to tell her the truth that there was more to it than just the silky fabric. I wanted to wear pretty feminine nightgowns.

          Acceptance is no problem here.  Put on your panties, bra and stockings, get comfortable and enjoy your stay here.

          All of us gurls need an outlet where we can openly share our life experiences in our secret world of femininity that we can’t share anywhere else.

          Hugs

          Lacy

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        • #603236
          Sylvia
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          Registered On: October 10, 2021
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          Dear Beverly ,

          My hart goes out to you after reading about your past.
          I am so glad you have been in a loving relationship for 23 years and have found
          the hapiness that you so richly deserve.

          we are very lucky you found us on CDH , and hope you will be with us here
          for a very long time !

          Welcome again Beverly ,
          Love Sylvia.

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    • #603001
      Stephanie Flowers
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      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Beverly welcome to Cdh

      Stephanie 🌷

    • #602993
      Katie Plowright
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      Registered On: October 15, 2021
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      Hi Beverly, welcome to CDH, remember no one is old well they are dressed fabulously . Hug’s Katie

    • #602990
      Jessica Maddison
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      Registered On: August 31, 2021
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      Hello Beverly Welcome to CDH

    • #602976
      Stephanie Bass
      Hostess
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hio Beverly nice meeting you and so happy you found and joined us girls here on the best CD site on the internet so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcome with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. As there is so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies here telling there stories about there femme life so when you get comfortable with us please join in with some comments to these ladies .. Also then your turn ha ha just a story or two about the life and times of Beverly as she travels down her girly path in life .. As for making friends here there are so many ladies here from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with .. Again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

      Stephanie Bass

    • #602974
      Terri Anne Knoan
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      Registered On: February 7, 2018
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      Hello Beverly,

      Welcome to our amazing site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore to your heart’s content.

      The warmth and hospitality of our community is just awesome.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on our site.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.  You can find the link on each member’s Profile page.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each.

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

      Regards,

      Terri Anne, Ambassador

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    • #602972
      Sylvia
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      Registered On: October 10, 2021
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      Dear Beverly ,

      Welcome to CDH !
      Glad you have joined us here at the best place in the World to be
      for Girls like us in the Rainbow-Community.
      I hope you will enjoy yourself here.
      See you on the Forums ,

      Love Sylvia.

    • #602959
      Alice Underwire
      Lady
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Beverly,

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

    • #602939
      Dee Nash
      Lady
      Registered On: November 7, 2021
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      Welcome Beverly xx

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