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      Donna
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      update from last night little adventure

       

      Went out with few friends to a small little lounge eating place last night we had a great little dinner and some drinks. Did get few stares of course was wearing latex and fishnets and heels.  Was expecting it but was given so many kind gestures from people that did come over to table. Even from our waiter. Funny thing about it was did receive few little notes from some men and women with numbers. giggles.  Really wish this covid mess would go away so real clubs and bars could reopen again and can start having more fun again. Donna ready to dance

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        Bridgette VonSmirff
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        What an awesome night! I didn’t interact with very many people, and although I got a few looks nobody said anything, much less passed me a phone number! I think your more courageous than I, to put yourself out that far. You go girl!

        Bridgette

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          Donna
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          thank you Bridgette was a awesome A plus night. oh as for phone numbers would you call someone if happened. Also would you be up front with someone at the beginning and tell them.

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            Bridgette VonSmirff
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            I’d not call anyone, as I’m very happily married. I’d have to tell them that my wife would be very upset, and let them make of that what they would. It was my plan in the event anyone said anything of the sort.

            Bridgette

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            Donna
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            understand in your situation but being single like myself would it be different for you.

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      Candace Baci
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      Congrats Donna you are well on your way to many more fun adventures!!

       

      Hugs Candace

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        Donna
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        thank you Candace big hugs.

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      I love hearing these stories about first timers, I myself have been many places including Cis gender bars which surprisingly were not as bad as I thought, obviously every state is different along with every part of the world but I see people don’t really care as much as you think they do, or as much as they used to, just be safe and have a plan. I myself carry a knife in my bra just to be safe.

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        Donna
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        Hi thank you for all the input still have not got brave enough to go to bars yet working on. Why I guess why posted a thread on how to speak more fem.  Getting that down better.  Have been out more in day now . Been thanked and talked little to people liking my shoes or dress.

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      Patty Phose
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      Good for you Donna. That’s great. So glad you enjoyed the experience.

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        Donna
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        Now it getting to be a normal habit feeling good about self built up more self confidence This women is free as a bird now.

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          Patty Phose
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          I never got that normal feeling when going out. I’m always nervous to all out scared. But if and when I get the courage it’s always such and exciting experience and a thrill and rush I can’t get from anything else. I think if wasn’t for those feelings, I probably would just stop when I felt the fear.

          I so envy the girls who have had their fears subside to the point where they feel normal and confident going out dressed.

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            Donna
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            Oh believe me still have the fears but many of the ones I had were kinda far fetched ones were thanking about before. Most people don’t even pay attention. That for me. Now other day did go out in little more sexier outfit. And got some whistles and stares. Even a guy came up to me and  started flirty with me. Happy to get some of female voice down good enough. Being me kinda flirted back. Long story short did get a phone number giggles.

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            Patty Phose
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            I like dressing on the sexy side it’s fun. I always wear pantyhose. My heels are a bit to high, my dresses a bit to short, My breasts more than ample, and my hair long and flowing free. I love the look and experience. I often fantasize about going out wearing what I’m wearing. Sometimes the desire gets so strong I just have to do it. I know I will be exciting and the thrill and rush will be incredible and wonderful.

            That’s when fear comes in. Maybe the fear is part of better judgement. If I do get past the fear and go out, I have turned heads, been called to, got catcalls, professions of love and promises to make me feel better then I ever felt. Can be quite exciting but scary too.

            If I out on a dress just above knee length to maybe mid thigh short, flats of short heels, smaller breasts and a shorter and not so flowing wig. The looks and comments go down. It may not be as thrilling and exciting but definitely more blend in and still fun. I know I need to tone it down a bit to reduce the fear, but reduced fear means reduced excitement.

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            Donna
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            sometime just have to say heck with it.  And have all the fun can.  Guess my fem side of Donna is saying that I am really such a tease and wanting to play. But it did feel good other day

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      Emily Alt
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      After a while it starts to feel normal.  Like any other woman.  You belong out there!

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        Donna
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        It is really wish could do it full time but with job kinda hard to do for now but working on it

         

        Do have a appointment friday to get nails done professionally looking forward to this

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          Emily Alt
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          Yeah me too.  Job is a challenge.  Not sure I’ll make it another 3 years to retirement.  The pull to go full time is strong.

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            Donna
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            about the same for me too then full time being a woman for sure

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      Heather Jameson
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      It’s ice when you get a few compliments\ remarks about your outfit isn’t it, makes me feel good. I was out shopping a few months back now and the sales rep. remarked about my boots. When her coworker came out she told her to check out my boots and she remarked how much she liked them and told me I had great legs, I was wearing leggings. I came out of there feeling like a million bucks, really made  my day.

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        Donna
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        after that really felt so proud of myself like was on top of the world.  Does make a person feel good about themselves when getting thanks and looks.

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          Heather Jameson
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          good for you, makes you want to go out more doesn’t it

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            Donna
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            Yes every time can get a chance even if just for little now feels good to break the barriers.

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      Paula F
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      That is awesome news Donna, a night AND day trip outside.  How long did it take for the elation to catch up to you in the car afterwards?  It does feel wonderful doesn’t it?

      Good luck for your next adventure, keep the good comments and let any negative ones just roll off.  You will be an inspiration for many of the newer/younger girls here.  Congratulations hon!

      PaulaF

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        Donna
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        Hi Paula was first nerve intense then went from about to have a panic attack  thinking someone will do something then went to calm everything went smooth.  Looking forward to more outside experience. Today put on pair women’s Jeans and my open toe pumps and went walking around the mall. Even had some saying you look beautiful. thanked them in the most womanly voice know. And told them have a nice day. More and more opening up. Thanks to this wonderful community and support.  All you are so awesome.

         

        Hugs

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      Leonara
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      Donna,
      Thank you for sharing your “steppin out” experience
      What you wore was perfect for blending in… You are an inspiration for us shy ladies… Hopefully the health crisis will get a better for my opportunity. Thank you again …Leonars

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      Bridgette VonSmirff
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      Well done you! First of many no doubt. It’s such a huge high that first time out, keep going and enjoy more!

      Bridgette vS

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      Alice Underwire
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      Hi Donna,

       

      That is great you had an enjoyable first trip out.  Let’s hope you can enjoy another soon.
      Alice

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      Sandy Jayson
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      You go girl!!! It’s a great feeling isn’t it , Donna.

      Sandy

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      Sarah Du Hessisse
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      Well done Donna it must have been nervous for you, well done courageous girl I am still waiting for my opportunity.

      Best Wishes

      Sarah

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        Donna
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        wishing you the best of luck in your journey Knowing scary at first but think once the first step is done rest of the time be piece of cake walk.

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      Stephanie Bass
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      Hi again Donna Congrats to you sweety you go girl its so wonderful to here you broke your own ice and went out .. Even for a short trip thats wonderful and inspiring for most all here as myself i cant go into the world around here where i live .. Keep up the confidence and soon go again and please keep us informed as how it goes hope never it will happen but even if it turns out no so fun you learn from that and try better each time just so happy for you ..

      Stephanie Bass

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        Donna
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        thank you glad to break that barrier and today broke another barrier of going out to a park earlier dressed up walked around some people there and even fed some ducks on the pond there. Was so refreshing to be out now. and no cares. Did have few remarks today from some saying love the outfit wearing was just some jeans and top with some boots just bought.

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          Stephanie Bass
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          Keep going girl so envious of you dont ever give up you are doing your as well as our hearts a lot of good  thank you ..

          Stephanie Bass

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      Deborah Sullivan
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      Congrats Donna and hope this too will inspire others to get out there with the rest of us

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      Bianca Everdene
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      Well done Donna, such a buzz isn’t it! And sounds like the comments you got were positive- the icing on the cake.

      You in your own way are helping ‘normalise’ cross dressing in society,  making it easier for us, and those who follow us in the future, to just be us out there in the big scary outside world.

      ❤️Bianca

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      Donna so happy for you.

      Thank you for sharing it will perhaps give others the confidence to step out.

      Hugs

      Jessica

       

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      patty williams
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      HI Donna,

      That is fantastic news,Now your hooked there’s no stopping you now girl.

      Good for you ,I am so happy for you.

      Hugs Patty

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      Polly Stewart
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      Oh, darling girl! You are so brave and courage always either kills you of makes you so much stronger! I’m so happy for you to have sucess!

      Well done you xxx Polly

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        Donna
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        thank you all for the warm thoughts and did go well was little nervous at first but really wanted to do it. So happy to find this community and to get positive thoughts and encouragement on being me and to do  what like to do. Today planning on getting dressed up and going out during the daytime some. Wishing everyone success on their journeys.

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      Tabitha Tee
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      Good for you, dear!

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      Serena Stevens
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      Honey this gives me hope. Thank you sweet girl for sharing!!!!!!  💋💄

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      DeDee Demore
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      Congrats on first time out, sounds like it went well.

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        Donna
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        thank you DeeDee did go well better then I thought

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          DeDee Demore
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          So happy for you!

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            Donna
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            thank you again DeeDee Happy for myself of doing it. First time for anything little hard but after that shouldn’t bother you at all.

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