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Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 timesWanting to thank everyone that gave me the positive thoughts to go for it decided to run out to store fully dressed up. Was such a thrill and had no trouble at all. Even got few remarks on the outfit wearing.
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- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
update from last night little adventure
Went out with few friends to a small little lounge eating place last night we had a great little dinner and some drinks. Did get few stares of course was wearing latex and fishnets and heels. Was expecting it but was given so many kind gestures from people that did come over to table. Even from our waiter. Funny thing about it was did receive few little notes from some men and women with numbers. giggles. Really wish this covid mess would go away so real clubs and bars could reopen again and can start having more fun again. Donna ready to dance
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- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
thank you Bridgette was a awesome A plus night. oh as for phone numbers would you call someone if happened. Also would you be up front with someone at the beginning and tell them.
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Registered On:Topics: 1Replies: 31Has thanked: 27 timesBeen thanked: 189 timesI love hearing these stories about first timers, I myself have been many places including Cis gender bars which surprisingly were not as bad as I thought, obviously every state is different along with every part of the world but I see people don’t really care as much as you think they do, or as much as they used to, just be safe and have a plan. I myself carry a knife in my bra just to be safe.
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- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
Hi thank you for all the input still have not got brave enough to go to bars yet working on. Why I guess why posted a thread on how to speak more fem. Getting that down better. Have been out more in day now . Been thanked and talked little to people liking my shoes or dress.
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- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
Now it getting to be a normal habit feeling good about self built up more self confidence This women is free as a bird now.
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I never got that normal feeling when going out. I’m always nervous to all out scared. But if and when I get the courage it’s always such and exciting experience and a thrill and rush I can’t get from anything else. I think if wasn’t for those feelings, I probably would just stop when I felt the fear.
I so envy the girls who have had their fears subside to the point where they feel normal and confident going out dressed.
- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
Oh believe me still have the fears but many of the ones I had were kinda far fetched ones were thanking about before. Most people don’t even pay attention. That for me. Now other day did go out in little more sexier outfit. And got some whistles and stares. Even a guy came up to me and started flirty with me. Happy to get some of female voice down good enough. Being me kinda flirted back. Long story short did get a phone number giggles.
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I like dressing on the sexy side it’s fun. I always wear pantyhose. My heels are a bit to high, my dresses a bit to short, My breasts more than ample, and my hair long and flowing free. I love the look and experience. I often fantasize about going out wearing what I’m wearing. Sometimes the desire gets so strong I just have to do it. I know I will be exciting and the thrill and rush will be incredible and wonderful.
That’s when fear comes in. Maybe the fear is part of better judgement. If I do get past the fear and go out, I have turned heads, been called to, got catcalls, professions of love and promises to make me feel better then I ever felt. Can be quite exciting but scary too.
If I out on a dress just above knee length to maybe mid thigh short, flats of short heels, smaller breasts and a shorter and not so flowing wig. The looks and comments go down. It may not be as thrilling and exciting but definitely more blend in and still fun. I know I need to tone it down a bit to reduce the fear, but reduced fear means reduced excitement.
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- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
sometime just have to say heck with it. And have all the fun can. Guess my fem side of Donna is saying that I am really such a tease and wanting to play. But it did feel good other day
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- Registered On: August 24, 2019Topics: 11Replies: 485Has thanked: 394 timesBeen thanked: 2186 times
After a while it starts to feel normal. Like any other woman. You belong out there!
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- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
It is really wish could do it full time but with job kinda hard to do for now but working on it
Do have a appointment friday to get nails done professionally looking forward to this
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It’s ice when you get a few compliments\ remarks about your outfit isn’t it, makes me feel good. I was out shopping a few months back now and the sales rep. remarked about my boots. When her coworker came out she told her to check out my boots and she remarked how much she liked them and told me I had great legs, I was wearing leggings. I came out of there feeling like a million bucks, really made my day.
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- Registered On: August 7, 2019Topics: 12Replies: 896Has thanked: 8918 timesBeen thanked: 3481 times
That is awesome news Donna, a night AND day trip outside. How long did it take for the elation to catch up to you in the car afterwards? It does feel wonderful doesn’t it?
Good luck for your next adventure, keep the good comments and let any negative ones just roll off. You will be an inspiration for many of the newer/younger girls here. Congratulations hon!
PaulaF
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- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
Hi Paula was first nerve intense then went from about to have a panic attack thinking someone will do something then went to calm everything went smooth. Looking forward to more outside experience. Today put on pair women’s Jeans and my open toe pumps and went walking around the mall. Even had some saying you look beautiful. thanked them in the most womanly voice know. And told them have a nice day. More and more opening up. Thanks to this wonderful community and support. All you are so awesome.
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Donna,
Thank you for sharing your “steppin out” experience
What you wore was perfect for blending in… You are an inspiration for us shy ladies… Hopefully the health crisis will get a better for my opportunity. Thank you again …Leonars6 users thanked author for this post.
- Registered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 11Replies: 1302Has thanked: 12890 timesBeen thanked: 4220 times
Hi again Donna Congrats to you sweety you go girl its so wonderful to here you broke your own ice and went out .. Even for a short trip thats wonderful and inspiring for most all here as myself i cant go into the world around here where i live .. Keep up the confidence and soon go again and please keep us informed as how it goes hope never it will happen but even if it turns out no so fun you learn from that and try better each time just so happy for you ..
Stephanie Bass
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- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
thank you glad to break that barrier and today broke another barrier of going out to a park earlier dressed up walked around some people there and even fed some ducks on the pond there. Was so refreshing to be out now. and no cares. Did have few remarks today from some saying love the outfit wearing was just some jeans and top with some boots just bought.
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Well done Donna, such a buzz isn’t it! And sounds like the comments you got were positive- the icing on the cake.
You in your own way are helping ‘normalise’ cross dressing in society, making it easier for us, and those who follow us in the future, to just be us out there in the big scary outside world.
❤️Bianca
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Donna so happy for you.
Thank you for sharing it will perhaps give others the confidence to step out.
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Jessica
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- Registered On: January 2, 2021Topics: 5Replies: 550Has thanked: 701 timesBeen thanked: 1542 times
Oh, darling girl! You are so brave and courage always either kills you of makes you so much stronger! I’m so happy for you to have sucess!
Well done you xxx Polly
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- Registered On: January 17, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 360Has thanked: 1596 timesBeen thanked: 1240 times
thank you all for the warm thoughts and did go well was little nervous at first but really wanted to do it. So happy to find this community and to get positive thoughts and encouragement on being me and to do what like to do. Today planning on getting dressed up and going out during the daytime some. Wishing everyone success on their journeys.
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Good for you, dear!
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Congrats on first time out, sounds like it went well.
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