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Good afternoon my lovelies!
so, for the first time ever…. I’ve got a proper home for all of my girl things. It seems like forever that it was kept hidden, in boxes on the junk shelf, in the bottom of a rucksack (rarely used), in a bag at the bottom of my wardrobe. Until very recently it was only a few nice lingerie items, some stockings, and some holdups, rarely a few makeup items too. The size of this stash varied through purges large and small…. But it was rare that I had nothing. Since my first ‘talk’ with my wife (in March) and the subsequent exploration of my deepest inner girl (she was buried quite deep in the back of the closet, with my girl things….) it’s been possible for me to acquire quite a few other items and dress regularly around the flat. So, my box is overflowing… my wife has said a couple of times ‘do you need another wardrobe?’ which had made me a little uncomfortable, as it meant having to confront the truth. That I am a trans girl and I need a wardrobe. On Saturday morning she asked ‘have you got too many things to choose from?’ I was just starring at the pile of clothes in a daze (it wasn’t that I couldn’t choose, it was another moment of internal conflict; what do I want to wear vs what is acceptable for me to wear on a morning walk)
A bit of tidying and rearranging and lo, there was space…! I now have my 4-5 dresses, 5 or 6 skirts hanging amongst my wife’s dresses and my boy clothes, a drawer for some tops, and of course another drawer for cute lingerie and hosiery.
Where am I going next? Hormones ASAP. My clinician is back from holiday this week, so I need to check what else I need for the next stage.
Stay safe and be cute
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