My Intro to the group

[Danika Ruse]

Greetings ladies,

I am new to this group and actually the only group.  I won’t re-write my bio but a quick intro, I go by Danika, I am in my 50’s and very happily married to the best women ever.  I revealed my secret to her early in the relationship and she married me anyway. 🙂

I hope to make friends and share some experiences.  I really like to read about your adventures out and about either with your wife/SO or each other.  I have not had the courage to take that step but I may someday.  Being tall and masculine makes it very difficult to overcome that internal fear of being identified.

I look forward to chatting

Danika

[Kinzie]

welcome

[Robyn Drake]

Hi Danika,

Welcome to CDH!

– Robyn

[Danika Ruse]

Robyn,

Cute and clever name, I love Winnie.  Thank you for the welcome and I’ve heard Vegas is a great place to go out for the first time.  My wife and I both want to go someday.

Looking forward to chatting more and learning about the other ladies experiences.

Danika

[Anonymous]

Hi Danika. Welcome. You’ve already taken the scariest step, coming out to your SO. Going out in public should be a piece of cake. I’m sure you’ll love it.

Much love,

Raquel

[Danika Ruse]

Raquel,

Absolutely loved Raquel Welsh, such a beautiful and classy lady.  I rarely get nervous or scared of much,  whatever is going to happen will happen and I’ll roll with it,  EXCEPT, this secret of mine.

Wife and I weren’t really even dating at the time, very close friends and a lot a bit more. She was helping me through an awful divorce.  I didn’t want to lose our relationship by telling her but couldn’t bare the thought of lying to her. So I decided to tell her that I crossdressed. At that singular moment,  I don’t believe I had ever been so scared.  I was more afraid of losing my good friend than anything else.  Well, we have now been married a little over a year and I am truly blessed.

So, like anything else there is risk/ reward.  Is the juice really worth the squeeze?  Going out enfemme, passable or not is a huge risk,  and scary,  but when I make the choice I look forward to doing it with my wife and I’m going to take lots of pictures lol.

Anyway,  thank you so much for your welcome,  (I get a little chatty) and encouragement.  Looking forward to chatting with you again.

Danika

[Liara Wolfe]

Welcome Danika.

Hugs, Liara

[Alice Underwire]

Hi Danika,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

[Danika Ruse]

Alice,

Thank you and look forward to chatting more.

Danika

[Anonymous]

Hi Danika

You have the support of your wife, which means you’re halfway there, at least. Take your time, there’s no rush. Do it right. I wish I were in a similar position.

Best wishes

Connie

xxx

[Anonymous]

Hi Danika, welcome to CDH, it’s wonderful. I’m lucky also to have an understanding SO but I think going out in public would be a step to far. Hopefully in the future.

[Danika Ruse]

Bobbiesue,

Thank you so much.  It’s a great feeling being welcomed into such a unique and honorable society of ladies.  I kinda giggled to your term “sisterhood” and appreciate that special recognition.  I am so thankful for my wife and I’m grateful for her encouragement also.  Even if the furthest I go is out shopping for a day,  mani’s and pedi’s and dinner then I will feel accomplished.

So looking forward to exploring the site,  meeting the girls and sharing new experiences.

Again,  thank you so much for your welcome and recognizing my sisterhood.

Have a wonderful day

Danika

• This reply was modified 2 years ago by Danika Ruse.

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