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Eleven months ago, my wife and I had “the talk.” I was already underdressing with her permission so I asked her if I could start Crossdressing before I ever started. Her only limitations were extremely reasonable and quite acceptable. One, was that I couldn’t crossdress on a day that we were going to be intimate later. That has eased up because I have worn my women’s skinnies, women’s cut shirts, and the only thing I had to do was change out my big hoop earrings for something less feminine.
But the only other limitation was that she did not want to go out with me while I was dressed. That wasn’t a biggie either. But now, 11 months later, she went out to a drag show with me.
We didn’t know until the day before that we were going to have a sitter for our special needs kid. So, when we found out that we could both go out, I had to rethink my outfit and not dress too over the top. I chose a cute blazer/skirt combo.
We met @Philma Bierstein and her wife there. My wife and I came in separate cars because she was picking up her bestie for the show too. While waiting for my wife, I bumped into Molly who was the girl that I danced with for hours at the Rainbow Rave (sometimes quite raunchy). She was there alone so I told her she could join our group. After all, when I was alone at the rave, her group took me in. I did tell her my wife was coming and she didn’t know the extent of our night at the rave. Luckily, Molly didn’t blurt out about the dirty dancing or anything about us dancing together.
My wife isn’t used to late nights and left around midnight. Molly was getting cold because of the lace dress (and it really was chilly) so I put my arm around her and gave her some body heat as we watched the show and danced a bit. Eventually, I gave her my blazer which kinda threw off my outfit a bit. But no worries. It was worth it.
Even when my wife was still there, I ran into Cassie who was in a group of girls that took me in at the Show Me Pride Drag Show. She was hugging all over me, we took selfies, and I stopped by her several times for a few words during the night and my wife never even noticed because we were kinda behind her. I was a little concerned that she might get a little territorial because Cassie is hot. But, like I said, she really didn’t notice.
Interestingly, the next day, she said, “Your friend Molly is weird.” I just said, “Yeah, but she’s nice to have brought me into her group when I was alone.” Maybe, my wife was just pooing on her because she was a cute girl 20 years younger than us. I did know. But nothing else was really said. The day after that, I asked my wife if she would want to go out with me again sometime and she agreed. So, apparently her restrictions are easing up as she has gotten used to seeing me in women’s clothes and in full femme before I go out. Who knows? Perhaps, she might be wanting to go out with me to keep the girls off me a bit.
It was a great time. My wife had fun and wasn’t too worried about my “girlfriends.” Maybe, she’s motivated to go out with me because she wants to keep the girls at bay. Regardless of her motivation, it was a big step for her to go out with me dressed and I am grateful for the chance.
Here are some pictures from the night with Philma, Mollie, Cassie, and the drag queens (several are becoming good friends).
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