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      Donna
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      Always were told to face your fears head on and stare it in the face.

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        Alice Underwire
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        Hi Donna,

        Sounds like very good advice.

        Alice

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          Donna
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          Never failed me yet. quick jump a mouse just ran across the room. hehe. just kidding.

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      Stevie Steiner
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      Though I am an easy going gal at heart and am out to some friends and most family, I still fear being outed by some jerk in a work/social setting or being hated on by society in general.  Not debilitating fear for sure, but it’s there.  And That’s Okay admitting that.

      I’m honestly… befuddled all of us don’t have some degree of that fear or at least concern at some level or another.  🤔

      Stevie

      P.S. I am fascinated, yet terrified by spiders, esp. BIG ones.

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        Alice Underwire
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        Hi Stevie,

        Fear of spiders is quite common.  Fear of being outed and the anxiety it causes is quite common.  Offering advice on how to handle the situation and how someone personally dealt with it might help another sister.

        Alice

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          Stevie Steiner
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          Alice, absolutely.  That is what we are all about anyway!🙂

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          • #559894
            Alice Underwire
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            Yes, Stevie, totally agree.

            Alice

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      Mary Jane
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      Sometimes fear is beneficial. Eg. I have a healthy fear of snakes, bushfires and hot stoves. (In our part of Australia we have 3 of the worlds deadlist snakes.)

      So I keep the grass cleared around our living areas, and always have a boom stick, and a long stick handy in summer. And follow a safe bushfire plan for summer.

      For many of us, that healthy fear keeps our marriages together.

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      Grace Scarlett
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      Good morning Alice…

      Personally…..I can’t think of anything I’m really scared of at this moment in time….pretty carefree girl here……

      In the bigger picture, i’m terrified at the way we are Killing the planet….it’s the only home we have.

      Grace x

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      Bobbisue Jones
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      Morning Alice, my fear is being outed in a ladies room.. guess not that confident yet.  Hugs Bobbisue J

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        Alice Underwire
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        Hi Bobbisue,

        Thanks for sharing.

        Alice

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      Holly Goodrich
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      On a humours note I juest happened to be in the office, bulls**shi**ng with the staff.

      A  grouch Z old fart camein complaing the “queer” up the hill needed to pull his windows down before he ‘dressed like a sl**

      . HZE WAS talking about me since I can see his rig from my living room window never any movement. Before  staff could reply,I gsve her a sign too let ne handle it!

      So I turned to the guy and said”You nust be using a set of binoculars to see that far in the dark.”

      (That particular are is only natural lighting at night from the moon  then I concluded with “?” btw, ‘peeping tom’ that’s my trailer your looking into.  Next time I call the police.”

      Rude bast**d left without another q wordqm.   Happy endingng:  he’ll be kicked out in the morn

       

      Loummucyas, Holly

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      • #559878
        Alice Underwire
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        Hi Holly,

        Thanks for sharing your victory!

        Alice

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      Stephanie Bass
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      Hi Alice my bigest fear is to outed in the comunity i live .. I have never even came close as never been out but that fear still looms above my head ..

      Stephanie

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        Alice Underwire
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        Hi Stephanie,

        That is a very common fear.

        Alice

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          Stevie Steiner
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          Hey Alice, from what I’ve read  I’m surprised it isn’t a more common fear among us!

          Stevie

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            Alice Underwire
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            Hi Stevie,

            You raise an excellent point!  And that is the key reason I posted this.  Being afraid to venture out or being outed are two big fears that have been raised here on CDH.  If a sister posted, others could offer advice and support as to how they handled a similar situation.

            Alice

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    • #559154
      Donna
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      Fear is not a factor. Went through a unknown facial surgery got the stitches out today Went to visit my new coworkers for next week back to work on light duty. in the office with the ladies  boss said I am welcome to come fully fem. Was excited for that for sure..

      Donna  the fearless woman.

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        Alice Underwire
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        Hi Donna,

        Wonderful your visit to the office went well and calmed the anxiety.

        Alice

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          Donna
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          Going to fit in just fine. Might see if can get in there perm instead of the light duty time. But do like being a boss away from the main company and having some great workers that work for me.

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    • #559117
      Alice Underwire
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      Hi Holly,

      You’ve begun you’re journey and on your path.  I’d say you’re facing your fear.

      Alice

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      Holly Goodrich
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      Alice, the only thing I  truly fear is death before complete transition.

       

      Holly

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