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[Erika Henderson]

Hello, my name is Erika and I am new to admitting to myself who I really am.  I am 51 years old, born male, but have enjoyed secretly cross dressing in private.  I am looking to explore stepping out of private and being true to myself.  Any advice I can receive would be greatly appreciated!

Erika

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[Michaela Jane]

Hi Erika, welcome to CDH. Welcome from another NC girl, two hours up the road from you. I too am basically closeted but life threw me a googly (a cricket term) when I lost my wife and that turned me into more of a dresser than I previously was. I have stepped out but am still not too comfy with that. I can be found out and about in ladies clothes that are, as we say here, stealth clothes and that suits me just fine. Otherwise, I am just an old lady, old enough to be your Mom. In fact, my kids are the same age as you. 😀

I am happy to swap messages anytime. x

 

 

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[Lola]

Welcome Ericka.. you are most welcome here. Best wishes on your journey..

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[Stephanie Bass]

Hi Erika so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. You know girlfriend as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also..  With such a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from girl look around ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories ..  As they have journeyed down there femme path in life.. So girlfriend when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Erika as she travels down her own girly path in life .. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away ..  So once again girlfriend hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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[Stephanie Flowers]

Erika  welcome. It’s wonderful to have you here with us in this wonderful community . Enjoy browsing through many of our well written forums, read about stories of others learn more on as they journey through their experiences. Many here to meet , talk with and for some develop wonderful friendships. A caring place I hope you enjoy being part of. Very nice meeting you

 

Stephanie 🌹

 

 

 

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[Rozalyn Richards]

Hi Erika welcome to CDH it’s nice to meet you, we are like one big happy family on here so don’t be shy come on in and join the family, I’m sorry i can’t meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I’m on the other side of the pond in the UK, I’m sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, I’m sure you will find lots of friends on here, if it’s help and advice you need you have come to the right place, if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X

Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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[Greta La Folle]

Hi Erika!

Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family. It is a pleasure to meet you here.
Here you can exchange opinions and information and find support to move forward in your enfemme adventure.
Have fun participating in the forums and questionnaires.
Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm embrace.

I am Greta, a 56 year old cd / tg person; with a life a bit complicated by having to forcibly hide my gender identity ….. when I am alone in the house and I know I have no guests I am Greta, if I am at work or I have guests in the house I am Greta dressed externally as Mr. Antonio (lol) but I wear women’s underwear.

XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
Greta ❤️

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[Anonymous]

Thank you for sharing Erika.

Personally, I have only been a member of this great community for a short while but the support and positivity I’ve already received is amazing.

Enjoy your journey and enjoy letting Erika be who she really is. I’m sure the girls here will help you with this.

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[Stephanie Green]

Hello, Erika.  Feel free to reach out for help.  It’s been my experience that the girls here are very supportive.

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[Kari Johnson]

Big hugs Erika,
Welcome. It’s amazing, there’s thousands of people here individually walking in your shoes. We applaud you coming to where you are and can’t wait to see more of your journey. It’s an amazing journey.

• This reply was modified 2 months ago by Kari Johnson.

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[Wanda Ovahear]

“To thine own self be true” you’ve got that part down so you’re off to a good start. Take your time, find what works for you. Read profiles here, you’ll have the benefit of a wide range of insights and will find experiences that resonate with you.

Hugs & kisses,
W.

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[Alice Underwire]

Hi Erika,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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[Krista Dean]

Thats the beuty of being yourself. It is the most freeing feeling you can have for yourself..
I hope you can obtain that feeling!!!
This is a good place for that support!
💗 Krista

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[April Sinclair]

Hello Erika welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are and found us and made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or public expression and or level of personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression or those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of acceptance and self expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or world were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are; as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, or expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!

Hugs April

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