New Member, just saying hello

[ValerieCD]

I’ve been crossdressing on/off forever (since 11/12). It began as mainly a sexual thing, but it wasn’t long before I realized dressed as a women was truly me. I’m so relaxed while dressed. My wife knows, and encouraged me to investigate and learn more as it was very clear suppression was a very bad thing. Although she is not a big fan, she does make time for me to dress. I have chosen to keep Valerie from our kids. I’m struggling as to what I’m looking for from this site, but certainly as I read other posts it helps knowing I don’t struggle alone.

[Lucinda Hawkns]

welcome and no you don’t struggle alone. my wife knows of my cross dressing but will not see or help with make up. my daughter seen me in a dress a few days ago and nothing said. my 3rd oldest son does not know, so its hard to dress up and be Lucinda and free of stress and depression. wife will tell me i can do what i want to do for the 2 adults children are gone, well i was 1/2 way dressed. some times i wear my fem clothing then my male clothing over my female clothing, then all i have to do is take off my male cloths and put on make up, perfume, ear rings and wig and i am all dressed up. wish my wife would open up more and let me sit with her like 2 woman and talk about my desire to dress up. i buy my own dress, make up and perfume and jewelry, nail polish, bras and panties and yes even pads. i have more female clothing then my wife does. she got tired of me using her make up and dresses and perfume , so i buy my own. i have been cross dressing for many years, it started with a pair of tights in a school play, i was hooked. i was about 10 or 11, on and off  with cross dressing. then i got married and the internet came along and my urge to dress up came stronger and stronger. i love wearing female clothing more then i wear male clothing. wish i could just wear female clothing and be me all day.    WELCOME TO CDH where we all understand what you go though.

[Anonymous]

Hi Valerie and welcome to CDH.

 

Rachel

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