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    • #132111

      Hi everyone

      I suggested over the last couple of weeks that a trip to Blackpool would be great for us all, we’ll it has gathered some interest now obviously any time spent outside comes with it’s apprehensions and fears and this trip is too much for now, I am now suggesting for us to get to know each other a walk in a quiet safe place and then slowly building up to a few more walks could really help our confidence before we have some time away,  anyone know of any places in the North West where we could meet up and feel safe?  what do you girls think? Xx

    • #132115

      hi Penelope. this is so hard for me. inside i’m aching to just say yessss! but the other half of me is as scared as hell! I feel at the moment like there is no way I would pass and I am scared of being seen, that said it would be so nice to go outside. you can see from this reply I am kinda mixed up. to be honest, I really need to start off really basic which means go somewhere like a private garden or place where no members of the public go, I would go drab and get dressed at said place. my ideal venue as stupid as it may sound would be for a few of us to meet up at a house where no worries are attached such as being seen or the fear of being ridiculed. obviously this would be out of the question as its a trust issue and non of us really have seen or know each other properly for which, I for one, can fully understand. its nice to dream though 🙂

      love and kisses, fiona xxx

      • #139975

        Hi fiona hope you are well

        I like the sound of a safe meet up we should arrange something x

    • #139911
      Maria
      Lady

      What about a drab meetup somewhere? Locations are endless for those. I personally have never met another girl in the flesh and that would for a nice pre hello before arranging a GNO or other such meet up.

      Maria x

       

      • #139924

        Hi Maria, that sounds like a plan 🙂 . I dont think i’m quite ready to go out femme as yet, but on the other hand, it would be nice to meet other like-minded people socially. I’m not saying I will never go out dressed femme, just i’m not ready yet 🙂

        Fiona xxx

      • #139974

        Hi yes I would really be up for that!

    • #139978

      Loving the idea of a safe meet up girls! 😀.

      Samantha x

      • #139994

        Hi Samantha hope you are well, I feel that this is something we need to sort out im just waiting for ideas as to where and when x

        • #140200
          Maria
          Lady

          It shouldn’t be too difficult really, we need a location, activity and date.

          Given this is a drab meet how important is location? Shall we start with a city, Warrington is an hours north for me, would that work?

          Activity, pub lunch?

          The real difficult question is do we shake hands or hug!

          Maria x

          • #140880

            stroke of genius Maria, why didnt I think of a drab meeting?? I would hug you all! most definately! 🙂

            Fiona xxx

    • #140213

      Hi Girls, i’m definately interested. We need to make it fair so no-one has to travel a lot more distance than someone else though. I am in Bolton, Lancashire, Warrington is about 40-50 mins away from me, which is no problem, however it might be a lot further for the other girls 🙂

      Fiona xxx

    • #140395

      Forgive the intrusion by a Yank from 4700 miles away, but I think you all have such a great idea here! I never thought of a “drab meetup” just as a get-to-know-you gathering of CDH members. So lucky you’re all within an hour’s drive of each other.

      I hope you gurls can make this happen, and if you do, please, by all means, let us know by updating this Topic. I want all the descriptive details about how it went! Colour me jealous!!

    • #140401

      It is such a pain that I live all the way down in Somerset and you lovely girlies live up north Warrington is 3 hours and 37 minutes away from me 🙈🙈 hehe.

      Samantha x

    • #140879

      So! we need to arrange a date for this, what about easter time? it will give us all enough notice to arrange a venue plus the weather should be warmer by then!

      Fiona xxx

    • #141631
      Anonymous

      oh, I live in the Midlands and work in Yorkshire. So would be up for a drab meet, as I’d never pass in public or private. I’d maybe suggest meeting at the entrance to Blackpool tower then migrating to a pub: I’d def do it!

    • #142390

      This is a great idea. Please keep me posted.

    • #142495

      Hi everyone I can see that my original post has gained quite a lot of interest, I think a meet up in our drab clothes sounds like a good idea. But why Warrington?

      • #142498

        Hi Penelope. warrington was just an example, if you could think of anywhere else, go for it!

        Fiona xxx

    • #142506
      Maria
      Lady

      Warrington was a random city just to get the suggestion ball rolling, however it seems to have stopped! I’m quite happy driving 2 hours in any direction so I don’t mind where

    • #142520

      Okay we should set a date if everyone can get to Warrington say Easter time in drab(boo!) and if we all get along then those who want to can arrange a meet as us girls later in the year!

    • #142854

      Hi Penelope, baby steps first then we get more adventurous! my drab wardrobe is DRAB! nothing interesting much! male clothes just dont interest me at all. Its a complete contrast to my femme wardrobe!

      Fiona xxx

    • #146506

      Hey, I’ve been off the forum for a bit, is this happening? This sounds like a good idea, my chances to step out en femme are few and far between but wouldn’t mind giving it a go.

      Mx

    • #162290

      Hi, it’s all gone quiet on this topic. Let’s make it happen.

    • #180984

      I’m really disappointed that this hasn’t happened yet. Come on girls let’s all grow a pair and bite the bullet. I’m definitely game.

      • #181004
        IsabelB
        Lady

        I live in Ireland, but, if at all possible, would happily make the effort to be at any meet up.

        It would be interesting and fun to catch up with like-minded people.

        Count me in!

      • #181239

        Hi fiona great post I just need to find out who’s up for it, I can appreciate everyone’s apprehensions but if we don’t arrange something soon there will be some who’ll end up regretting this. There is a hotel in Blackpool that specialises in crossdressing guests and even has a lady that visits to do make up. Lets do this x

        • #181290

          I agree. I know the one you mean. There are also options in liverpool and Manchester. X

        • #181354

          “…. A hotel that specialises in crossdressing guests?!?!” Why couldn’t there be something like that in the States, near where I live? As I see it, you NW UK girls have no excuse, now!

          I hope you do, and please update this post with a full report after the event – nosy closeted CDer in USA wants to know!

    • #181603

      Hi Penny, how about meeting up for Manchester sparkle event in July?

      • #181619

        Hi I would love to but I’m away on holiday in July x Blackpool in September?

        • #181653

          I’m away myself for a week in September but hopefully we can work round it.

    • #181655

      Come on ladies not enough interest I’m afraid, I know we all feel nervous and scared at the prospect of stepping out in public, but we we all be supporting each other. Together we are strong… I personally would not want to be sat at home regretting that I never did it! I have been longing to go out for years now, i know I’m not the only one😁. Go on ladies you know you want to!!

       

    • #183083

      Hi everyone,
      Well, I have taken the plunge 😱. This afternoon I have booked a hotel room in Manchester for the Sparkle weekend. Now I am terrified.
      I will have to travel and check in in drab, then spend the weekend en femme.
      Should be fun, but it’s very scary.
      I hope some of you can get there so we can support each other.

      • #183084
        Anonymous

        Sure you will have a great time. Wish I was as brave as you and could join you. Whenever I have been there in male mode the area seems very accepting. Enjoy yourself.

      • #183107

        Wow Fiona! That sounds amazing I’m so jealous let me know how it goes😊I’d love to join you but it’s come a bit too soon for me, I still want to head off to Blackpool in September /October though?

      • #183108
        IsabelB
        Lady

        Well done to you, Fiona.  A huge move and I hope you have an absolutely fabulous time. If I can, I’ll join you.

    • #197744
      Anonymous

      Sunday, 1st September anyone?

      We can use the chat feature to co-ordinate times and locations.

      I will 100% not be in drab, but let’s stress that dressing is as optional as you’d like to make it.

      Love Laura

      PS, if the Northern lasses can’t make it, I have this date available, so am more than happy to make it more Southerly – Bournemouth anyone?

      They’re used to people wandering round in costume, so should be a carefree option!

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