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      Amanda Lavender
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      I can say for sure that I completely understand what you are going  through. I’ve been down this same road for many years. You have my compassion and support.

      Hugs Amanda.

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      Joan Michaels
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      WOMEN, Women, Only attracted to women.

      I would like to seduce a woman thinking I’m a lesbian.

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      rebekka moore
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      Hi Jenifer,

      Gurl I know the feeling.  I have (I’m sure many of us have) purged many times in the past, and lost some wonderful things because of that.

      When I was younger but much less now there are times when I can dress and pleasure myself.  Again more so when I was younger, I would feel this intense guilt for having done something “wrong”.  It was at those times that I would purge, vowing never to do it again.  Of course that does not last.

      I don’t know how I feel sexually.  Honestly I’m “open”.  But remember you are doing nothing wrong, don’t feel guilty about how you feel or what you do.  Enjoy those feelings and nurture them.  You do not want to have regret for not having followed your true path.

      Love and hugs,

      Rebekka

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      Christina Roberts
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      Hi, so lovely your comment to Jenifer Lowans and helping her to see more clearly her issues etc.  Totally agree with you.  Lots of love to you lovely lady ,  Christina xx

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      Claire Woods
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      Being a crossdresser from an early age i had little to no CD role models to guide me on or off television, But my first sexual thought arose very young from an old uk tv program “are you being served” were Mr Humphries “the very much gay character” is asked to see to a customer, he replies i’m far to busy right now and gets a reply of the gentleman in question would like to try on a dress,  Mr Humphries then shouts I’M FREE and bolts for the changing rooms. This to me at a young age all sorts of things went through my mind thinking of myself as the customer of the kind gay man wanting to help a man into a dress and how exciting it would be.

      Now growing up thinking god knows what being attracted to girls only if they were dressed in skirts or dresses and such yet not really attracted to men in any core look at him way i wound up a late bloomer in the sex department.

      My first encounter was when i was 17 I went with a friend on some errands and went to see a man to pick some things up leaving me and the man to chat or more to the point for me to get chatted up lol

      Now i was not attracted to him but his attention and flirting stird something in me not wanting it to stop tho my straight friend had left his straight friend with a gay man for 5 and i didnt want him coming back to find two gay men lol. On the way out tho I felt his hand on mine as he thrust his number in it on a piece of paper.

      This was it my Mr Humphries moment do i dare ring him he knows my friend that I don’t want to no anything about this side of me, but i so want to dress up and tell someone i do this and oww what a feeling.

      I ring him fully intent on dropping hints or just coming out with it im a crossdresser!!! but i lose my bottle, instead I accept his invite to pick me up and go to his house in the countryside.

      I run round shower and change throw on some panyhose mini skirt blouse then my jeans jacket and shoes put a pair of heels in my jacket just in time for him picking me up.

      once in the car there was no going back if I took my jacket of i was wearing a black frilly blouse, I was in no doubt going to be exposed to this man as a CD. We got to his I made a beeline for the bathroom throw of my jeans jacket and shoes slipped into my heels and looked at myself in the mirror I was a state no makeup wig or breasts but I was here it was going to happen.

      I went into the front room where he was waiting he looked and said ow you’re into that are you? We talked a little, He made a move I let him and he couldn’t get me out of my cloths fast enough

      Afterwards we talked a while he asked about me dressing and so on tho was not really into it.

      Pondering on whether to go back my dressing thoughts were always going to the time I spent with him so decided to ring him up said Id go back to his again if he wanted and asked if it was ok to dress up he was like well if you really have to? Realising now gay men don’t fall over themselves to see a man in a dress I went in drab male cloths far from my original thoughts of dressing up, a little more comfortable this time but drab, We talked some including dressing up then a little flirty and id been undressed as quick as the first time it was still exciting too me and I wound up meeting him a fair bit over a couple of years. Tho i will still state i didn’t fancy him but I loved the feeling i got from him flirting with me

      I then went out and had relations with women ahhh quit boring women lol.

      Now whoever i date they start dating a Crossdresser not a man that turns out to be one and i’m determined that any first date will be en fem so take me as I am.

      My Point in this long post if you got down here good on you, is be true to yourself I too have thrown everything away lots of times. I too struggled with the idea of sexuality.Family and friends finding out was terrifying but your talking about clothes and a sexual partner you chose in YOUR LIFE not theirs have fun no one need no what your upto till you figure things out, there’s no shame in being gay or bi and no need to rush to tell the world ever. explore your feelings don’t hide from them, there the same feelings so many others have too why should YOU be the one that isnt aloud, But whatever you do don’t keep trying to change the way you feel it will never truly go away and as such you will never truly be happy if you don’t embrace who you are.

      Whatever you do hun stay safe xxxx

       

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      Amanda Cook
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      As some of the other girls have said we all have had the same dilemma ?!?!? The way we handle it differently?!?!?! I can only tell you how I did.  In my man mode I don’t look at a man and think cor- I fancy him or look at naked pictures of men with their manhood standing to attention and think I like that and if a man hit on me I would put there lights out.     Now Amanda is a completely different story ?!?! She has two side’s 1/ lady Amanda,  dress for going shopping.  out for lunch etc etc you know skirts just above the knee. tops that don’t show to much  shoes with 1-1-1/2 inch hills not a lot of makeup so you blend in (boring). 2/ Good time girl Amanda lots of makeup. Nice deep red💄lips 💋 Tight Low cut top  miniskirt showing stocking tops. 4-5 inch Seletto’s a right tart saying Here I am boy’s come and get me.     Like you for years I just had my dreams, my thoughts. Wishful thinking.     One day I thought if I don’t do it now I might regret it for the rest of my life, i went on line and found out about a place where you can meet people who are into the same thing you are?!?!?? (Gays)  (dogin) (wife swoop) (Voyeurism ? ) (men to pick up women) you name it your find it here?  One night I thought forget my Scruples and just do it. I put on new Bra suspender belt panties black lace stockings High heels and a new minidress   I had my Falses on wig on and lots of perfume   I was ready to go and loose my virginity so to speak.    I got told just drive to this place and park up and wait and anyone interested in you will let you know.  That’s what I did ?after about 20 minutes a man come by had a look and then went to the car in front of me then walked away. Not long after another man come straight up to me and ask if he could get in with me.  I of course told him yes.  I have gone on a bit so I’ll tell you the rest next time I come online??just to say.  Yes I did loose my virginity  we spent four hours there then we went back to his place and I did not leave him till the next night   The only regret I had that I did not do it years ago.    So I say to you Bite the bullet and go for it you won’t be disappointed . Amanda X

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      Grace Scarlett
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      Hello girls

      I think a post like this shows why CDH is the wonderful place it is….even though we all dress, we don’t t all do it for the same reason…which makes for wonderful discussion.

      I am so feminine you would not believe, as soon as I even start to think of dressing…my thoughts are just so ” girl”… everything is enveloped in ” pink fog”…but when I am out, I still look at women…prob 50% lovingly and 50%….golly, love the outfit. I just treat men as people who would probably despise me if the caught me, rather than cor!!!….love the six pack…but this is just grace….of course, I respect all your different views….each to their own……smiles, grace xx

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      Sara Todd
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      I have posted other forums of a similar concern When I dress it is like a switch turned on and I am sexually attracted to men in addition to my normal attraction tho women of all sorts. It is intertwined with my  hope to be desired as a woman, and the ultimate expression would be the attraction of a man.

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      Jackie
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      Go with you’re instincts doll, can’t go wrong. But I will say once yo cross that wonderful line I can also almost promise you you will never go back and you will never regret it.

       

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    • #393687
      Robin Girly
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      I’m attracted to men weather dressed or not.But everyone has their own preference of who they want to sleep with.

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      melissa la quinta
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      I think there are a lot of us here on CDH who don’t make a point of identifying themselves as bisexual, but who nevertheless have experienced the same feeling of sexual attraction to males (or other CD’s). I feel that way a lot, both when I’m putting on the panties and bra to underdress that day (almost every day) as well as the few occasions when I’m dressed, made up and out presenting as a woman. IMHO, it’s perfectly normal for us as crossdressers to have an attraction to men and other CD’s.

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      Jeannie Jones
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      I love being dressed in panties and hose. I think sometimes I may be bi because the thought of being with a male is intriguing. However, I really love being with a gg. I say go for it and try at least once

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      Nancy Holly
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      I have very similar feelings when I dress.  Its hard to explain to anyone, even to me. I feel so sexy as a woman, although I do not dress like Madonna.  I have a very sexy side and flare too.

       

      I enjoy dressing at home as sexy as I can be.  Sometimes my outer wear hinds my sexy coreset and matching bra.  sometimes it doesn’t.  Love to hear from you,”

      Hugs Nancy

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      Leonara
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      Jenifer,
      I agree with Olivia, the desire to dress and sexuality are two separate items ..when I dress,
      I am expressing my woman within…Jenifer, that is how you should feel…. Leonard

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      Olivia Livin
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      Your desire to dress and the fantasies of sexuality are two seperate items to be dealt with. As far as how you should feel about that sexuality? How DO you feel? Only you know the answer to that, if you’re asking for societies rules or a general consensus, you’re likely in for a long and bumpy ride. Do what makes you feel good about yourself, with a mindset on emotional And physical, and be careful and safe…please.

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        Jenifer Lowans
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        Yes I do know that sexuality and cross dressing are separate issues but when I dress, it’s like I’ve crossed over and the feelings become like, strong

        Yes it’s fantasies or ( wishes ) ill have to work on my desires and be happy dressing at home then if at some point other changes come to being, I’ll deal with that I hope in the right manner .

        Thanks for the reply, oh and you look great xo

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