- August 19, 2021 at 4:06 am #532903Amber JamiesParticipantRegistered On: October 12, 2019Topics: 7Replies: 52Has thanked: 185 timesBeen thanked: 669 times
Living on a country back road has its perks for getting outside dressed at dawn or dusk. I can first hear any cars coming and then see the headlights so its really easy to get out of sight if I want to. Anyway, I was in a heavy pink fog last night and dressed to the nines in my favorite sundress, open front cardigan, breast forms make up ,you know what i mean. It never crossed my mind before to be concerned with any pedestrians during these times of day. Next thing I know my neighbors wife is saying hi to me as I’m standing on my front lawn. She then comes closer and starts patting my dog. Some small talk about this and that and as she turns to leave she turns around winks and says BTW you look good and don’t worry your little secret is safe with me. OMG I thought I was gonna have a heart attack! What a rush!
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- July 20, 2023 at 9:10 am #755289J JLadyRegistered On: September 13, 2019Topics: 13Replies: 1110Has thanked: 1 timeBeen thanked: 4696 times
This just happened to me, but not to the same level. I had painted my toes and nails bright rose pink and had on some lipstick for an early morning dog walk. I was out before the neighbors were stirring, at least most weren’t out yet. I happened to run into one of my neighbors who was out walking her dog and we stopped and chatted. She is friends with my wife and knew my wife was out of town for an extended period, and here I was with rose pink toes and fingernails and matching lipstick. We just had a normal conversation, but I had to wonder if she figured out my little “secret”. My wife knows, so no worries on that point, nor do I care if my neighbor figures it out.
- July 16, 2023 at 11:15 am #754546Julie CarsonLadyRegistered On: July 30, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 11Has thanked: 75 timesBeen thanked: 51 times
I drove to my beach house enfemme. No cars in lot so i put my 👛 over my shoulder and in i wnt. A short time later my wife called. The neighbor next to ourr beach house saw mw walk in, as Julie. She called my wife and said some woman got out of your husbands car but i didnt see him!!! My wife said she was tired of hiding my little secret and told her the rest of the story! What to do? Well i walked out to my car took my suitcase out and saw neighbor looking. I smiled waved and went to her door. Oh wife said u know my little secret. Want to go out for drinks later, just us girls?i told her Julies whole story and decided to never hide again
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Amber, you are out so enjoy it. There is no more need to hide! It is a gift. Your friend has probably already told everyone in the neighborhood and nobody cares. Have fun with it.
- May 6, 2023 at 10:39 am #736628Karla RogersDuchessRegistered On: December 30, 2021Topics: 9Replies: 137Has thanked: 256 timesBeen thanked: 676 times
I think I would have had a heart attack myself. Her reaction though was fabulous! Perhaps you should invite her over sometime for tea and discuss your dressing with her. Sounds like she would be very supportive.
- May 6, 2023 at 10:16 am #736624AnonymousDuchessTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
Wow I could jus imagine how u felt when you saw her! By the way hav you ran into her yet? An wht she say:)
Thank you for sharing.this helps us new ladies when we run into this type of situation:)
- May 6, 2023 at 8:32 am #736580Michelle IsgurlyLadyRegistered On: October 12, 2021Topics: 14Replies: 108Has thanked: 279 timesBeen thanked: 614 times
Thats so cool that she was that way, maybe you could have coffee together some time? I bet she would love it. Your so lucky, she sounds sweet.
- May 6, 2023 at 7:49 am #736566Lorraine LowryDuchessRegistered On: January 2, 2023Topics: 0Replies: 419Has thanked: 642 timesBeen thanked: 1475 times
Just saw the story, if had been me, they would put the notice in the paper next day, had the visitation the next, and my pyre the next. Funny, don’t feel dead, but I sure would have dropped like an anchor .LOL. Such a cool story.
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- September 29, 2022 at 9:14 am #680002Staci GalLadyRegistered On: August 9, 2022Topics: 2Replies: 108Has thanked: 71 timesBeen thanked: 537 times
I have been partial crossdressing for years (shoes, pants, anklets, toe rings, painted toes), but am new to being out in a dress. When I get out I have just resigned myself that sooner or later I WILL see someone that I know. My plan – gotta have a plan – is to take a deep breath, act normal and see what the other persons reaction is. If they comment, go from there. My guess is that he person will comment, things will be cordial at least, and move on. After all it is just clothes, nice looking, comfy, stylish clothes. Have fun…. Staci…
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- September 29, 2022 at 12:21 am #679937Susan DresserLadyRegistered On: April 21, 2020Topics: 1Replies: 9Has thanked: 10 timesBeen thanked: 38 times
i had a similar experiance a few years ago as i would jump in my car and drive all dressed up one evening i stoped to check my messages at the side of the road it was dark but i could see someone walking alongside and to my horror i found it was my step daughter walking home, we had a strangly normal conversation and she carried on home and nothing was ever said about it but i did get some strange looks from her mother on my return.
life can be strange at times.
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- November 1, 2021 at 11:39 pm #567356Julie (Jules) AndersonDuchessRegistered On: February 9, 2021Topics: 3Replies: 139Has thanked: 211 timesBeen thanked: 659 times
Amber, don’t have a heart attack, rather be grateful that you are blessed with such a very cool and accepting neighbor!!!!
A very similar thing happened to me with my seventy fiveish aged neighbor. She was so kind and accepting, and always asked about Jules.
So now that the kitty is out of the box – let her RUN and have FUN.
If there is anything I’ve learned in my 71 years is that life is very short, and I wish I had let my kitty run years ago!
Make run kitty run your model
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Well the outcome of your situation was amazing. I am sure at that moment you were quite shocked and momentarily paralyzed by fear. I am sure she was apprehensive when she came up to not sure how you would react to being outed. I believe you have found a great new girlfriend to possible venture out and have a nice lunch or do some shopping. Recently I was almost outed by my daughter. She needed me to work on her car. So I let her use my car in the mean time. I forgot that a pair of my heels were under the seat. A few days later I get a text from her asking who the heels belonged to. Not ready to come out to her I said, remember my car has been in the shop maybe one of the guys at the shop took it for an encounter with a girl. She actually bought that. Told her I need to disinfect my car. Made it seem really believable. Again not ready to come out to her. I would hope her reaction at the right time would be a good experience. Time will tell. Hugs Ginny.
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- October 26, 2021 at 12:38 pm #564664Lara TuckerBaroness - AnnualRegistered On: September 29, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 1417Has thanked: 32548 timesBeen thanked: 5285 times
I’m Pretty sure I would have had that heart attack. What a positive outcome though, and what a sweet neighbor to have. I just love your “heavy pink fog” expression. You are gorgeous by the way. I can’t imagine you wouldn’t pass if someone didn’t already know you.
- October 27, 2021 at 1:32 am #564909Amber JamiesLadyRegistered On: October 12, 2019Topics: 7Replies: 52Has thanked: 185 timesBeen thanked: 669 times
Thanks Lara! While growing up I was often mistaken for a girl or referred as a “pretty boy”. At the time it really bugged me a lot. Later on in life I can use it to advantage and have fun with it 😊.
- October 24, 2021 at 6:51 pm #563904LeslieLadyRegistered On: September 14, 2020Topics: 25Replies: 302Has thanked: 3560 timesBeen thanked: 1510 times
Wonderful story and it sounds like a great experience for you! I live in a three story, six unit condo and I think everyone in the building have seen me dressed at one time or another. The young couple that moved in exit store to us have met Leslie more often than me. The other day Britany was taking their dog out for a walk, while Leslie was sitting on our porch enjoying the weather. And she came over to “beg on” me for at my age carrying up two flights at thirty pound box of dog food that had been left in the building’s entry hall. But never a word said about my outfit. The younger generation what are they coming to? No manners she could of at least said I looked nice. LOL
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- October 25, 2021 at 1:59 am #563986LadyRegistered On: October 12, 2019Topics: 7Replies: 52Has thanked: 185 timesBeen thanked: 669 times
Mostly jeans and tops along with a few sweater dresses. And they all fit! Yeah!
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- October 23, 2021 at 3:53 am #563246LadyRegistered On: October 12, 2019Topics: 7Replies: 52Has thanked: 185 timesBeen thanked: 669 times
So fast fwd a couple months and I haven’t any indications that she has outed me. I’ve talked to her husband several times while outside doing my chores and not noticed any changes in our interactions. Last weekend he invited me over for a campfire and beers which we’ve done several times over the years. So there we are sitting around the campfire for about an hour when I see his wife coming out the door to join us and she’s wearing the same exact outfit i was wearing when she busted me in my yard. My jaw must’ve dropped to my knees. Lol
Later on he went to grab a few beers for us in the house and she tells me she put a present in my car for me. Said she had recently cleaned out her closet and wanted me to have some things. She is such a sweetheart and I can’t believe how nice she’s been to me.
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Wow Amber! This is a great story for sure….
So I am curious, and forgive me if this was answered already, but do you think your neighbor already had the same outfit or went out and got that outfit after she saw you in it? I am sure she wore it that night on purpose. LOL.
it is really cool that you have a neighbor/ friend like her. So happy for you!
- October 30, 2021 at 8:15 am #566198LadyRegistered On: October 12, 2019Topics: 7Replies: 52Has thanked: 185 timesBeen thanked: 669 times
So now I’ve been invited to their Halloween party tonight! My wife’s out of town so I would be going solo. Also, I don’t have any mutual friends with this couple, so risk factor is I’d only be outting myself to her husband and maybe a few other people I don’t even know.
“Amber” would love to get dolled up to the max and maybe even wear one of the sweaterdresses she gave me. That would be soooo wild and fun!!
What to do?
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No, I chickened out after getting dolled up. My wife would’ve killed me if she found out and she most likely would have.
On the other hand I didn’t waste an opportunity to get out. I drove a couple towns over and went into a Starbucks to get a coffee which was a lot of fun!
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- October 23, 2021 at 4:11 am #563252AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
You hit a home run.
First was, I’m sure you were underdressed at the camp fire. Tell me I’m mistaken and I’ll be shocked. 😉
Second was being in the presence of someone who knew your secret.
Third was that person wearing the outfit you had been caught in.
And to bring it home, the wonderful surprise gifts.
What a thrill!
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My first time being busted I was laying out sun bathing no makeup or wig 🙂 I was wearing my two piece American flag swim suit when the neighbor lady came by to drop some things off for my wife. She never batted a eye.
- August 26, 2021 at 2:13 pm #535782Jamie TaalLadyRegistered On: June 14, 2019Topics: 8Replies: 204Has thanked: 1217 timesBeen thanked: 1186 times
Wonderful story. This is something I always fear and at the same time wish it would happen. The possibility of getting caught is always part of the thrill and a relief. What would you do if you saw her approaching on the road again or if she came to your door while you were dressed? Would you run and hide or embrace it?
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What an exciting and great story. My first time busted, I freaked but afterwards reflecting on what happened, it really was a super rush.
- August 26, 2021 at 5:19 am #535626Molly LaceLadyRegistered On: June 1, 2019Topics: 2Replies: 103Has thanked: 13 timesBeen thanked: 471 times
If this was me, my first reaction would be relief combined with a little rush. My second reaction would be, if she knew it was me, why did she go out of her way to approach me? She could not assumed you just decided to start crossdressing openly.
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last week i was surprised to look out my back window to see my cousin sitting in my driveWAY and i’m in the house with short shorts on and shimmery blouse and quite a bit of sparkley jewelry on me so i went outside and up to the truck and nothing . he stayed about 90 minutes and never said a word about why am i dressed like that ,you never know !
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- August 20, 2021 at 6:08 am #533304Julie ShawLadyRegistered On: September 3, 2015Topics: 21Replies: 173Has thanked: 784 timesBeen thanked: 1064 times
Now that is a welcome change – many times those “Oh No, I’ve been discovered” events end in a far worse situation. Thankfully she was open and willing to accept. I got surprised like that by my mother-in-law many years ago. She responded in a similar way. Happy Ending!
- August 20, 2021 at 5:23 am #533300AnonymousLadyTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
What a rush of an experience! I’m with Jillian though. I think she’s known/suspected for a while and came by for a closer look! Sounds like she’s a regular ninja :)
I’m so glad it went well! It’s wonderful to have even one person know and then you can, literally, be yourself around them!
*kisses* tara :)
- August 20, 2021 at 4:22 am #533296Charlene VictoriaLadyRegistered On: November 29, 2016Topics: 27Replies: 238Has thanked: 1532 timesBeen thanked: 1427 times
Congratulations Amber on a “job well done.” I suspect, as well as have read, that projecting confidence is a key to ones acceptance by others. Inside you may have been a bundle of nerves, but it seems you kept all those “butterflies flying in a straight row”. Your confidence projected aided your neighbor to camly accept you as Amber. Again” job well done,” girl. I do hope that this will open up new and exciting opportunities in your future.
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Amber what a great – tho’ nerve wracking – experience that must have been! Having the fear of “OMG, Busted” replaced by the thrill of “OMG, Accepted!!” That must have made you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, congratulations!
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