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Oh forgot to add once changed you will not remember past events only present and future. Still would do it.
Unless you have had a truly miserably life or some kind of event in your life that you can’t get past and is somehow consuming you or destroying you. Who would possibly want to forget all the things in their lives that made us who we are? My upbringing might not have been the best but i would not want to forget my parents even if they had a few faults. My siblings? Never. In many of our cases our children. Even if they turned out to be the scourge of the earth. Never, Mine are perfect by the way. Just like your are. I was in a long not so special of a relationship with a unkind uncaring woman but there were way to many positive things to remember. Things that shaped who I am and who I aspire to be. Deaths and suffering of loved ones. But I do not want to forget any of it. My best friends death by his own had that brings tears to my eyes writing this. His son works for me. It breaks my heart to think of what his father is missing. I could go on and on. My life was not so special. It had some serious challenges as many of ours have had. I am sorry if I took this to seriously or to far. It seems like a silly thing to consider to me. Sorry but no.
So true, So true. It’s all that has happened to me in my life to make me whom I am today. It has been both wine and thorns, mostly thorns, but that is what has defined me. I have a son of 23 that loves me as I am (transgender).
And, after all, I’m on my way to become a woman now. Only in the beginning in the possibility of transition. But that’s a lot closer than I was six month ago. It’s like I said to a doctor at work: I’m ready for the world and the world is ready for me. Couldn’t be better 😀😍. I really do love my life as it is right now. ❤️❤️Lots of Hugs 💕
Lily-RoseBTW Lily-Rose is my name at work now, it’s on my badge.
Thanks for the answer imagine many wouldn’t do it for any amount since all past would be wipe cleaned and starting again. Seen some stories where some forget past others refuse to lose the past.
Thanks Samantha was trying to decide to make a poll or not but thank you for making it a poll.
Vicky
The reason it would be a solid no for me is “You will not remember past events only present and future as well.” I like my life to much to give it up for any amount of money.
now if it didn’t alter my past or my memories of it, then it would be more tempting.
And even more so if after the transformation people accepted my new gender as normal right away.
especially when you add in the payment for doing it as well.[quote quote=483325]You will not remember past events only present and future as well.[/quote]
Whaaat? Loose 50+ years of experience and only have the last decade of experience to live with in my old age? While it could be interesting to discover lots of things again I have to say no thanks./kt
So say if those 50 years would be what life it would be as female Knowing that a unknown
So memory replaced instead of lost, guess that’s a different story but in the end I’m not to interested in changing to start with. It’s not that I would be sad if it happened but as a heterosexual married male I don’t have the desire and it would cause issues with my marriage since I don’t think my heterosexual wife would like to have a women as spouse.
/kt
Without even thinking about it. I love my life but to be able to live out my life as the real me would top all, selfish yes but for my last years to be the true me I’d have to do it.
Hi Vicky, Nope, being in my mid-60s, there is no way I could give up my life long memories. Changing to female permanently would be enticing but not that added twist of losing my memory. All the Best, Hugs, Krista.
What would it be say if past memories would be as a girl and woman growing up instead of way it is now.
That would be a very, very interesting hypothetical dilemma Vicky.. So all your exiting memories would be replaced by memories as if you had lived your entire life as a woman and you had never lived as a man. Might definitely be interesting to do on a trial basis – I guess it depends on the type of memories the new you would have (they could be devastating or fantastic). But part of the wonders of having a memory is living through the experience of doing those things in the past and all the feelings associated with that. what would you do? Hugs, Krista.
Well Krista for myself as my male life has been so far would do it. No one to tie me down no as for SO. Guess if a unknown past things could be different for the better. Could be married and live a happy life.
Could be a great unknown exciting mystery and be worth the money. Thinking of myself now would miss some of my past the good things.
Question is knowing thinking as how feel now would be different if was other gender and how feel. Tricky thing.
If I had one million I would most definitely and have a wardrobe the size of a bedroom
Hehe just one bedroom need at least 2. Like to be neat and have things in order like dresses all together jeans and such together then heels and normal casual shoes and sandals.
You can give the money, but I would do it for free.
Yes please xxxxx
If i could have new memories of a past life as a woman that would be ok with me x
Hugs Rozalyne x
Bingo that the other twist would have memories of past child hood and younger life as a woman. Now as for ones being Married now that could change stay same or different depending on if met SO while being a female.
It would be different if i met my wife as a woman we wouldn’t have got together she is not into women,
She only likes men which is why I’ve not come out to her as a cross-dresser x
Hugs Rozalyne x
A what if if was a woman and how present would be now could be someone else man or woman.
But the realism is wouldn’t lose memory of past if were to change perm. Think brainwashing is illegal in reality.
In retrospect, a caveat….. if I had to give up all my memories I would not be the person I am today, so I could not properly answer this question. Mind you I have lots of fond memories, but I also have a lifetime of miserable memories of having lived a life that wasn’t mine….
Agree there its a question of unknown giving up male memories in exchange to female memories once take the cash and become the woman. Never know growing up as woman may have better outcomes or same or worse. Chance would have to take.
Not if I have to give up all my past. If I had no memory of my past might it be that I might wish to transition ftm.??
. Sandycould be possible a unknown past present future. Know many would do it others no. Specially if someone had a rough time in past or present now. Could be better could be same could be worse.
No..I’m well into my 70’s and for all of that lifetime, well since I started crossdressing in my teens, I have happily been 80% male and 20% Caty. I enjoy the 80% and much as the 20% when it occurs..
EG. For every seven or eight hours I spent out fishing as male me, the equivalent time as Caty, as and when it occured, one was as enjoyable as the other..
“There is a time and place for everything”..
Caty
Best of luck Pat mine will begin end of year so a new year will be a new me as female.
Just curious who would say that would have fond memories as a girl and woman growing up.
One million dollars is peanuts these days – so say 10 million and I could have some fun- without memories we don’t exist so forget it it at any cost.
Guess was thinking of Dr Evil on Austin Powers always short changing self. make it 100 million
Good luck with the waxing know its alot fun first time.
Hi Vicky My memories and experiences are priceless. If I ever had the opportunity to transition to the woman I always felt i was meant to be. I would want to be aware and feel of every moment. A new beginning of a life that was meant to be. The answer to your question is no. There are so many experiences in a persons life that do not have a price tag that would be one of them. Thank you for a thought provoking post.
Luv Stephanie
sign here on the dotted line
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will donate the million to your favorite charity or group.
To many times for myself but now at the point where end of year will be fulfilled will be female maybe after the healing and all will dress up as male. Hehe just kidding.
I voted no. I couldn’t vote yes because of the loss of identity. You would lose your wife and children, all the relationships forged over a life time. I also feel that many woman think that having to look good is a burden(heels can be uncomfortable, makeup can be a pain to apply etc). Like any deal with the devil there is always a catch I’d probably be one of those women that we talk about on cdh. Walking around in a baggy t shirt and a pair of sweatpants with no makeup, dreading the next time I had to actually put some effort into me appearance.
First of all, I’m a crossdresser. That means I’m a male who likes to dress in women’s clothing. Yes, I have enjoyed the full female presentation when I go out so that I won’t draw any undue attention to myself. But I have never had any serious desires to become a woman.
I have seen events in my life that seem small, but end up having big impacts. If I suddenly became a woman, what would happen to all the relationships I had, to all the people’s lives I have touched?
If I had no memory, would I remember where I live? What I do for a living? Who my family is? Would I still remember how much I like wearing skirts and dresses, or would I become like most women these days who try to spend as much time in pants as possible?
I am the accumulation of my experiences. Take away all those experiences, or replace them with others, and I’m a different person.
I have to give this a resounding no.
Someone said that we are who we are because of what we have done in the past because that is what we remember. But I have to ask are those memories “really what happened?” I know that I have managed to block most my memories of my life. Most of it was really S****, I mean one of the best memories is of coming home from college one weekend and finding out that my parents had moved and not told me. And I remember too much from Viet Nam, not that I saw the worse of it just the insane parts that were every day life there. I have memories of my grandmother molesting me as a three year old. And my father telling me that he never wanted me but wanted a daughter when I was born and trying to dress me as one. So if I had to give up all my past it might just be worth it. The new memories could hardly be worse that the old ones.
If it would just to get a body my own age it might not be worth while. But it is still surely a tempting idea.
Leslie-
I voted yes… I would like a do over… if only… sigh
Know doing it for free more then half way there but with me keeping my male memories and starting with female memories starting at the end of year when be fully transition. But if were to lose those male memories really don’t think would do it.
Hugs
Vicky
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