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    Sa•man•tha
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    Hi Sisters!!

    Awhile back Patty Williams put up *this here thread* asking about public experiences…I’d like to share one of those “humorously uncomfortable” ones I mentioned there.

    The other evening I did a little shopping (and…actually forgot what I was shopping for lol), dropped in on my friend Lynn for awhile (who had her 2 week old grandson with her, so cute) then went to the laundromat.  Just for the visual I’m wearing a pair of skinny jeans, black & pink blouse (kinda dressy but still casual) black lightweight cardigan, wedge sandals & hair tied in a bun.

    I was a little surprised to see so many people at the laundromat on a Saturday evening, but that’s how it’s been since the pandemic started for some weird reason…

    Anyway, go in & start the washer.  I notice a guy & girl come in together…ok lol you ever notice someone and think, that person looks like they may not quite be all there?  This guy just had that sort of look.

    So I switch my clothes over to the dryers & go for a little drive to kill time.  And when I get back everyone has left except the guy & girl.  And as I’m sitting in my car reading I notice the guy lingering in the window a couple times like he’s checking me out or something…

    I see it’s time for my dryers to be done & get out of the car.  The guy rushes out, fires up a cigarette and stands right beside the door…I mean, you’da thought someone had just hollered “free beer!!” the way he came flying out that door, ha.  I walk past him, and he rushes right back in behind me leaving his cig on the windowsill.  I get my clothes and start to leave…I hear him quietly but excitedly say to the girl, “hey, hey that’s a dude!”… I will give him credit for at least being quiet about it, lol.  The girl just kinda shrugged, she was busy with their laundry.  Then he rushes back out right in front of me & returns to his position beside the door with cig.  I tried not to give him the side eye on my way out, got in my car & left.

    This is the kind of thing I mean by “humorously uncomfortable”… I got clocked bigger than all get out lol… it was unsettling because the guy was acting like a weirdo… and in the end all I can do is hold my laughter until I’m out of the parking lot 🤣 Arrgh, rednecks!!

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    • #387002
      patty williams
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      Hi Sammy,

      I am glad it went well you know how to handle your self girlfriend.

      You ever wonder I think a lot of guys like that that make a big deal about it may have a hidden curiousity or desire to crossdress but they are too insecure to do it or admit it ?

      Thanks for the great story.

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        Sa•man•tha
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        I think a lot more fellas than we suspect find us… “fascinating” !

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      Peggy Sue Williams
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      There are a couple of photos of me here on CDH, with me wearing my name tag,  “Peggy Sue,  Ask Me About Cross Dressing.”

      I wonder how the guy would have reacted to me?

      Spreading the love, sisters!

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      Robin Snow
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      Hi Samantha,

      What an amusing story.  I am so glad nothing negative came from it.  Have you noticed most of those “that’s a dude” comments come from guys?  Women seem to just roll with it more.

      Robin

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        Sa•man•tha
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        Yea, guys are… strange.  Lol not sure how else to describe it.  I’ve heard occasional negative comments from women too, but women are usually so much more graceful & well comported in public

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      Heather Harrison
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      We always have to be careful out there. Did he have teeth, sounds like a possible tweaker.

      I always carry at least one knife on me at all times.

      Anyhoo, be safe girls.

      Heather

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        Sa•man•tha
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        Yes!!  There are a lot of those around here.  A few years ago my county was like #1 or 2 in the entire country on meth busts.  This guy didnt scream tweaker but he had enough of that going on to make me wonder.

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      Grace Scarlett
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      Hi Sammy

      What I find quite funny is that the weirdo guy acting like a moron thought YOU were odd…so glad I do my washing at home.. haha….huggs Grace xx

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        Sa•man•tha
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        Lol oh the irony eh Grace? 😅😅

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      Stevie Steiner
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      Well handled Sammy.  I wonder if afterwards whether the girl was asking herself ” why am I with this idiot “?

      Red necks + bad drugs = weird times.

      That laundromat is a very ‘interesting’ place … lol.  Just stay safe, though.

      Stevie

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        Sa•man•tha
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        Right?? Lol 😅 she def had a better vibe than he did!

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      Diane Crow
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      I think you handled that beautifully. How is the job hunt? CD AC Service? Has a nice ring to it.

      Hugs

      Diane

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      Laura Lovett
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      Hi Sammy

      Reminds me of the first time I went to Brighton.

      It was the Sunday morning, and I was looking over the railings on the promenade when I heard a voice from below:

      “Hey, bro, is that a gal or a guy?”

      Came the reply: “Dude, that’s a guy”

      Response: “F*** me!”

      I took that as a compliment!

      …and when I returned to Brighton, the first song I sang in a Karaoke bar was “Dude Looks Like a Lady”… got a lot of laughs.

      Love Laura

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      Patty Phose
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      I guess he thought that is something you don’t see everyday. Still he was curious enough to check you out. At least he was respectful if not subtle.

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      Kay Anderson
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      You should carry some pepper spray in your purse! Weirdos scare me!

      Kay

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        Sa•man•tha
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        I do, absolutely.  Its nuts not to imo.  Never came anywhere near having to use it but if I get nervous enough I’ll pull it out & start playing with the safety lock 😅

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      Dawn Wyvern
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      It may be that he was jealous and would like to be able to express his fem side like you.

      I have seen this before when a macho type was making fun of some TG’s while he was with a  group of friends. Later I  found him on his own and I challenged him as to why he thought it fun. We had a long sensible discussion on gender and self identification and I found him very receptive, even to the point of asking me ‘what it was like’ and the likes … needless to say he went away with something to think about and maybe he progressed onto dressing .. but I am sure he wont be unkind to another TG.

      I have been out for many years and pass most of the time.I used to be upset it I was read, but now I just think to myself that I have brought a little point of conversation to some ones lives and made their day brighter for it, as well as showing some Trans Visibility in the community.

      hugs

      Dawn

      (PS – for TG read CD in the US.. … I tend to use the UK terminology..)

      • #387305
        Sa•man•tha
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        Hi Dawn! It never bothers me to be read, often the reactions are…priceless!  If the fellow had had a better vibe I would’ve lingered & chatted a bit!

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      Anonymous
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      Hello Sam.

      Yes. Tell them that….tell them Natasha asked…

      Hugs

      Natasha💋

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      Hello Sam…

      I wish I could have been there. The way you say he was acting. Natasha would tell him he better cut down on sniffing glue …He’s seeing & thinking all out of sorts.

      Hugs

      Natasha💋

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