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    • #248663

      Hi Ladies,

      I just want to inform everyone that I will need to take some time away from my computer and will not be visiting the site for awhile. On 11/21/19, I am going into the hospital for open heart surgery and will be unable to visit for a bit but will be back on-line as soon as possible. Believe me when I say, I am not looking forward to this but it’s something I must do. I have two lower valves in need of replacement and they will be installing new “pig” valves, so if I return from surgery snorting, maybe rooting in the mud, or I dislike eating bacon, you’ll understand why!! LoL But seriously, they will keep me knocked out after surgery on a breathing machine for at least another full day or until my body functions on it’s own, when they will wake me up. I will stay in the hospital for about 5 more days before coming home to recover. They told me it takes about a month for the heart to heal but it takes a couple months for the ribs and sternum to heal as they break you breast bonds to access the heart. Sounds very painful and my doctor told me because of the nature of my work, I will be off work for about 3 months. As much as I hate to go thru this, I am very sad about the fact that I will now have a large scar running vertically between my breadts. I already have a 3 1/2″ horizontal scar over my right breast from a stab sound I got years ago. This is also setting my transition surgery back at least another year as I won’t have the planned funds to pay for SRS. The whole thing has me very sad right now but I must face and overcome this challenge so I can go on living life as I’m only 5 8 y/o. So, please, I would appreciate anyone’s and everyone’s prayers for a speedy and painless recovery and thanks to all.

      Hugs, Breanna

    • #248664

      Thoughts and best wishes to you Bren, we’ll be looking forward to your return.

      Hugs

      Olivia

    • #248699

      Hope everything goes well and you have a great recovery. You’ll be in my thoughts.
      Hugs, Ruby

    • #248715

      I hope it all goes well for you in hospital. 🙂

      Roxy

    • #248718
      Anonymous

      Hi, Bren,

      I had a quad bypass back in 2012. Your activity will be quite limited for a short time, but recovery is good. I found the limits on raising my arms and the weight limits (5 lb) most annoying. My scar is just a thin white line, now..no big deal. Be prepared to take it easy for the next few months, and you will be fine.
      Hugs,
      Bettylou

    • #248730
      Molly
      Duchess

      Bren;

      Best of luck to you, take it easy and allow your body the time to recover.. (it’s always worthwhile even when it’s frustrating), and we’ll be here to celebrate your return when you are able to..   These are definitely the times when I think we need a common voice call which would allow you to have someone to talk to when all you need to do is just lie there and pass the time.

      Hugs

      -Molly

    • #248732

      Hi Bren,

      You will be in my prayers.

      Hope all goes well.

      Love

      Melissa

    • #248734

      I’m not going to thank you ‘cos it makes me sad but I will save it till you get back.

      Sally xx

    • #248761

      I hope everything goes as it should…

      …I’m sorry if this is a tad inappropriate, but when I read your story, and you mentioned bacon, I couldn’t help but think about the pig whose heart valves you’re getting. What will they do with the rest of the pig? Does it go to butcher? Do you get the carcass as part of the deal?

      Puts a whole new spin on the phrase “eat your heart out”.

      • #248969

        I can’t thank you girls enough for all your kind words and support!! I still have 7 more days left until my surgery and as the big day gets closer, I must admit, for the first time in my life, I’m really scared. I can’t stop thinking about the surgery and the mental picture I have of myself fileted on the table and the intense pain associated with all of it. It has also been my experience in recent years that all medical professionals are afraid of the DEA and federal government, not releasing enough narcotic meds to actually kill the pain associated with surgery. So when my mind starts thinking of the unpleasant aspects I stop, take some deep breaths, and try to occupy myself with something unrelated with my upcoming event.

        And Jahkaleene, I will ask my surgeon about the poor little piggy who makes the ultimate sacrifice so I my live!! However, to the best of my knowledge, they actually grow these things in a labratory so there is no waste. And if I’m wrong, I would hope that the medical team doing the surgery would have had steaks for b-fast, pigs feet for lunch and pork roast for dinner. LoL

        Thanks again girls and again I do have one more week until I check in to the hospital so if anyone wants to chat, catch me while you can!!!

        Hugs, Breanna

    • #248903

      Dear Breanna,

      Best wishes on your medical procedures and a speedy recovery.  My prayers are with you and your surgical team.  Great you can enter this with a sense of humor too.

      Hugs,

      Alice

    • #248914

      Our thoughts and prayers will be with you, Bren.

      God bless.

      Jessica

    • #248916

      Sending positive vibes for a successful surgery and healthy recovery. I’ll look forward to seeing you back and while this has set your transition back further but this needs to be done. Take care and positive vibes!

    • #248970

      I wish you the best and get well soon

       

       

       

    • #248980
      Anonymous

      Breanna,

       

      Give this issue to God and trust Him. There is no better set of healing hands. You’ll be in my prayers.

      Hugs Mina

    • #248990
      Robin Snow
      Duchess

      I hope all goes well and you have a speedy recovery.   Hugs!

    • #248994
      Anonymous

      Bren,

      I hope all will go well and you will be back to health really soon.

      *hugs*

      Gaby

    • #249065
      Patty Phose
      Duchess

      Best of luck and best wishes to you and a speedy recovery.

    • #249070

      i Hope your surgery goes well and your recovery is fast.  Those new pig valves are a huge improvement over the old metal and plastic jobs we used to use

    • #249074

      Prayers that all goes well and a speedy recovery

      Hugs

      Christie

    • #249171

      Hi Bren,

      I am so sorry about your surgery.

      As other girls have said my prayers are with you and I am sure you will do fine.

      We look forward to hearing from you soon sweety.

       

      Love Patty

    • #249223
      Anonymous

      Bren,

      OMG, what a life changing event!  All my wishes for successful operation and a speedy and full recovery.

      Hugs

      Jillian

    • #249259

      Best to you Bren. I’ll be thinking of you and looking forward to seeing you back healthy and happy!

      Lori 💋

    • #249277

      Oh my gosh Bren. Good luck, I hope it goes well for you. Take care my sister. I will say a prayer for you sweetie.

    • #249349
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador

      Best to you dear. Take care of yourself and a speedy recovery. Looking forward to hearing from you.

      Stephanie 🌹

    • #250150

      Sending you lots of white light to get you through this and looking forward to hearing about you recovery

    • #251150

      Update:

      Sorry girls but my surgeon has postponed my open heart surgery so I won’t be going into the hospital today as planned. Two days ago I developed an infected wisdom tooth that must be pulled. I had a consultation with the surgeon yesterday and he told me they cannot do heart surgery when there’s an infection brewing in your teeth. Seems that if the infection were to move into the heart during or after surgery, I could die!! Also, I am not recieving a pig valve as I was told, instead they will give me a surgical steel?? valve due to my age. Pig valves only last about 10 years before they fall apart, and since I’m 58 y/o, a pig valve would insure me a short life. Also, I will have to go on blood thinners the rest of my life to prevent clotting which I am not happy about. I watched blood thinners destroy my father before he died, his skin literally pealing off his body. So, my next step is to find an oral surgeon to remove these two teeth, and it’s quite difficult to get into one with all the snowbird retirees who winter here in town. When they come everything is backed up, sold out and they act like rotten little kids taking cuts in grocery store check out lines, run thier shopping carts into the back of your legs with no apology, then run into your car in the parking lot!!! How I Love Snowbird Season!!!! LoL I will keep everyone posted!!! And thank you for everyones concerns!!!

    • #251183
      Anonymous

      Praying that all goes well.

    • #251202
      Anonymous

      You have my prayers and I wish you well when you finish your transition. Sandra xx

    • #251311
      Anonymous

      Praying for you Bren that everything goes well and you have a speedy recovery .

    • #251722

      Oh my Bren! you really are going through the wars 🙁 . Sending you lots of love and prayers, i wish you a speedy recovery, take your time, get strong and cant wait until you are back with us!

      Hugs and healing kisses, Fiona xxx

      • #251775

        Thanks Fiona,
        My surgeon postponed my surgery because I developed an infected wisdom tooth and I cannot get it pulled for two weeks unless I can find a dentist that has an opening sooner. The retired “Snowbirds” are here right now and when they come it’s very difficult to get a doctor/dentist appointment. The downside of living in The Valley of the Sun!!! But Thanks Little Sister, I hope all is going good for you and yours as I know Sammi wasn’t feeling well last time we spoke. Thanks again for your support!!!

        Hugs, Bree

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