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    • #633126

      I thought I had already did this so if I made a mistake please forgive me.

       

      As a long time lover of all things femme and cross dressing I have longed to find others  who share the same need to dress. A little about myself…. Well I am a closeted hot mess lol I love being dressed  in femme from heels to hair and everything in-between. Being me is not just about the clothes but how I present myself …. I love being bubbly fun and inviting and making others feel like they are important wanted and welcomed which transfers to my everyday life. 

      I am happily married with 3 twenty somethings and one handsome grandson. No one knows about my dressing but joke that I am eccentric in my mannerisms and mindfulness of colors and fashion. Most of the time poking fun that I would prefer shopping for clothes then “hanging out with the guys.” I would love to share Courtney with my family but I am scared to death of the outcome.   I am active in my community and work in a conservative environment so being discreet  is important to me. 

      Through my journey I have come to the realization that I am more gender fluid  and just love being me even wearing makeup( foundation) when going out. I love dressing and cannot imagine stopping anytime soon. At his point I am so tired of hiding and living in the shadows of my closeted self and want to meet others who are struggling or have come to peace with who they are. Maybe even find a friend or two along the way.

    • #633127
      Evan Nine
      Duchess

      Nice to meet you Courtney, we have a lot in common.  I too am a hot mess, but I am out with my wife…. Anyway, best of luck and welcome.

      hugs, Evan

    • #633144
      Anonymous

      Hi!

      my situation is very similar too in that I live in a conservative environment which makes it very difficult to dress as I want. I also prefer to go shopping then to hang out with the guys. I prefer to hang out with the women but only as one of the girls.

    • #633145
      Lara Muir
      Baroness - Annual

      Hi Courtney

      You are in the right place for friendship and acceptance! There are lots of friendly girls here to share tips, and advice with.
      I’m also a closet girl without a lot of chances to dress. I do love it though and can’t imagine stopping either!

      Message me if you want to chat.

      Hugs,

      Lara

       

       

    • #633146

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      Hi Courtney and Evan Nine and all sisters out there I say we’re home safe and sound I thank I found this site CDH with our founder Vanessa Law and our Ambassadors that help us guide and afirm who we are every time I have a chance to log on counting on time place and hoping never getting caught for me if I don’t have time to dress feel feminine for just minutes hours even a whole day it’s well worth the wait now I’m 69 but resemble younger thanks to quitting smoking licor not all the time but one or two drinks , still I read and re-read stories again and again maybe more I can think and like you I applaud you for the way sisters told family and friends we all learn from testimonies how well or not so well . For me I came to my wife 30 years ago more or less she understood but didn’t like it only when she would go and go shopping and knowing she will be out for 3/5 hours and calling me in advance when ETA giving me enough time to undress and take makeup off but almost except for mascara and eyeliner up to date I haven’t done like before retired most of the time with the pandemia it’s me going to markets and retail stores which now I kind of like it cause I can ask for help getting my wife’s size correct or say my size and in the meantime happy dressing. Auroras Livingfem

    • #633150

      Welcome Courtney, a member for 3 years or so, you have seen a lot of new ladies come on site.
      I can understand how you are tired of being closeted.
      You will have to find a way to have some time for you. Easy to say. But you have a great family, a reward in itself.
      The outside can be scary, but perhaps worse to be stuck indoors.
      I recently went to a Casino in Hobart, Tasmsnia enfemme.
      But, most people ignored me, some comments, but I just looked ahead.
      I really hope you can expand your outings and live life.
      Best Wishes
      Jane

    • #633174
      Angela Booth
      Hostess

      It would seem that you have a very eccentric attitude for all to see and a wife who understands. One day you will burst out and, with the aforementioned  in mind, your friends and associates will probably just raise an eyebrow, thinking yup, I expected that.

      Welcome to the forum and enjoy!

    • #633183
      Stephanie Flowers
      Ambassador

      Courtney welcome…

      Stephanie 🌷

    • #633240
      Liara Wolfe
      Duchess

      Welcome Courtney, you will like it here.

      Hugs, Liara

    • #633308

      Hi Courtney, and welcome. Judging by your photos you not only look great but are comfortable being you. I am several years older than you and when I resumed crossdressing after a lengthy hiatus I decided to be honest and straightforward about my hobby. My wife was at first very upset but has slowly warmed up to where she now buys me clothes and does photo shoots with me as Paulette. I think what worked for me is I had the strong support of my sister who advocated for me, but I also took it slow, ‘testing the water’ to make sure I didn’t overstep my boundaries. The problem is what worked for me may not necessarily work for you. But then who knows. I look forward to hearing more in the coming weeks. Hugs, Paulette

      • #633485

        Hello  Paulette,

        Thank you for the encouraging words. I love how you describe “dressing”  as a hobby. Whenever I am asked to share about myself in a public setting I often wish I had the courage to say, “ I am an avid  wearer of  heels, skirts and nylons as part of my daily routine” or something like that. I definitely am using baby steps towards my goals. I have convinced her that we should get a pedicure together which she thought was a splendid idea:)

    • #633333

      Hi Courtney,

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

    • #633978

      Hiya Courtney! Happy to have you here!

      -Esme

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