Do you secretly wear panties around your wife?
Just wondering if the excitement of getting caught wearing panties is a turn on
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Registered On: November 1, 2019Topics: 10Replies: 14Has thanked: 348 timesBeen thanked: 331 timesI secretly wear Vanity fair silky briefs almost everyday, even around my unsuspecting wife. I think the possibility of being caught is an exciting part of this. I usually change back to my regular stuff before going to bed. How many other cross-dressers secretly do this?
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I do it all the time. At home, work and when we go out. The sexiest part is when I get really brave and wear hers around her. XOXO…
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- Registered On: February 7, 2021Topics: 14Replies: 246Has thanked: 526 timesBeen thanked: 708 times
I voted yes, but it’s really only “sometimes”. My wife does not know about my cross dressing.. but I will occasionally wear panties while at the house. But thankfully my job enables me to dress away from the house and wear some things under my regular “guy clothes” every day during the week, and I remove the girl clothes right before coming home. I typically wear stockings, garter belt and a corset under my baggy work clothes. Yes I love the way a corset feels, squeezing me into an hour glass shape even though no one can tell because of my work clothes over top.
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- Registered On: December 20, 2016Topics: 19Replies: 264Has thanked: 906 timesBeen thanked: 895 times
I will tell you, I used to decades ago. But since the late 1990s and early 2000s. I stop hiding any form of crossdressing. I even have a stealthy mode of crossdressing for employment and business.
Hiding it, made it harder and made my fears grow stronger. So I let the kitty out the bag so to speak.
My life got a thousands times easier once I did.
Hippie
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I don’t need too she knows I wear sexy underwear all the time, so i don’t have a problem, she is very understanding
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- Registered On: February 3, 2021Topics: 29Replies: 548Has thanked: 1336 timesBeen thanked: 1569 times
I wear panties 24/7 even though I’m not married I’m around a lot of people. I add a bra in the winter time. I don’t think it’s the rush of getting “caught”. I just really enjoy wearing my bra and panties.
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- Registered On: January 4, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 119Has thanked: 315 timesBeen thanked: 359 times
I know what u mean and like you I wear panties 24/7 and because of my leaking problems wear a pad also but I do enjoy the feel and the look of having on a bra under my shirt and even went and bought my own and would love to get a pushup bra to wear when I go out to do my job as a driver
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although i wear everything with my wife now but years ago ive worn wifes sister in laws a few friends and mother in laws panties under my shorts hoping they would notice. only 1 did Sue
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- Registered On: January 4, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 119Has thanked: 315 timesBeen thanked: 359 times
hello Kim as a cd I have gone out in panties and bras and even stole my stepdaughters panties which are thongs and her bra which she now has implants but still took ne to wear and loved the feeling
One day I was a t a friends house and found her panties in basket waiting to be folded and though about taking a pair but they seemed to big for me but I do enjoy finding other womens panties and bra to wear when Im with their husbands having fun
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- Registered On: January 4, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 119Has thanked: 315 timesBeen thanked: 359 times
been wearing panties for long time hid from 1st wife but do wear them 24/7 now due to wearing pad since cancer and slight leak makes me feel better and I still love wearing panties and have added bra to outfit. When Iwake in morning I get a chance to sip into bra for start of day and can wear it as long as needed for pleasure
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- Registered On: January 21, 2018Topics: 430Replies: 1743Has thanked: 7662 timesBeen thanked: 6912 times
I secretly wear panties around your wife all the time… like every time we see each other at Wal-mart, the gas station, the laundromat, the park…although, it’s probably not so secret since my outerwear is of the female variety also… 😅😅
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- Registered On: August 1, 2019Topics: 3Replies: 659Has thanked: 41678 timesBeen thanked: 1284 times
I voted no I don’t secretly wear panties around my wife, because I can’t. One night in late 2015, even though she didn’t catch me in the act as she wasn’t home, she suspected I’d wore a pair of her panties; which I had. She nearly raised the tenth level of Hades. Since then I’ve bought my own and I never attempt to wear them when she is around. My current stage of dressing is full en fem and a secret from her, as she thinks I’ve quit trying on panties. I have quit trying hers on; as I said, I have my own now.
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- Registered On: January 4, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 119Has thanked: 315 timesBeen thanked: 359 times
nothing like shopping for ur own panties and seeing the looks given to u by the person taking ur money When I do go looking for items no matter what I go thru self checkout
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- Registered On: August 1, 2019Topics: 3Replies: 659Has thanked: 41678 timesBeen thanked: 1284 times
Stores that have self check-out, I also use them; that’s what they’re there for. Some SAs/SOs know that the panties are mine because they either cater to shoppers like us or are non-judgmental and I’ve said they are for me. I have yet to be “called” out on who I’m buying the panties for.
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- Registered On: January 4, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 119Has thanked: 315 timesBeen thanked: 359 times
the one time I went to buy panties for myself the operator actually said to me I bet they look great on you and I wanted to tell him he can judge for himself but did not as I was running late for work
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- Registered On: January 16, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 106Has thanked: 120 timesBeen thanked: 328 times
I love Vanity Fair panties as well. They can stick out the top of your pants sometimes. You may get caught (very thrilling). I wear panties even to work a few times a week. However before I go to bed I change into my boxers.
Holly🤷♀️
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- Registered On: January 2, 2021Topics: 5Replies: 569Has thanked: 717 timesBeen thanked: 1648 times
I never wear my frillies secretly… and I wear them 99% of the time whether in drab or en femme. Why would men put up with such god awful underwear? Even gay men have a far better selection than stupid boxers or y fronts!
Giggle and love //Polly
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- Registered On: January 14, 2020Topics: 0Replies: 145Has thanked: 26 timesBeen thanked: 615 times
My wife knows that I wear panties everyday. A shopping trip isn’t complete if she can’t find me new panties. She loves to have me hold them up to my body to see how they will look regardless of who is close by. A lot of times if I am not right beside her she will hold the panties up and holler “ do you have these?” It makes me feel sooo naughty!
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I did for number of yrs and then just wore them all the time I find them more comfy than men underwear and it does help hide buldge which is not very big since cancer but I also wear a bra when I can and often go out with bra and panties on hoping to find some hot guy to play with
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I had to answer no since she knows, and in fact would be quite angry if she found out I wasn’t wearing panties. In fact she gets quite angry if I’m not dressed like a proper lady. I’m quite fortunate to have a SO that embraces and encourages me. Now the thrill you speak of comes that I wear panties 24/7. Now I spend very little time in bro mode these days but even when necessary like at work (for now), I have that thrill of panties on under my fit clothes. Sometimes even more like tights, a cami, maybe even a bra.
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- Registered On: February 26, 2020Topics: 4Replies: 61Has thanked: 292 timesBeen thanked: 337 times
My wife knows I wear panties 24/7 so no need to hide that from her. She prefers that I don’t wear my garter belts and stockings when with her so that is sometimes hidden. Hoping that will be a non-issue and some time in the future as well.
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- Registered On: September 2, 2020Topics: 6Replies: 24Has thanked: 379 timesBeen thanked: 162 times
Being divorced I have no wife to hide them from but I wear them every day and suddenly I’m feeling the need/desire to add a bra to the mix.
Down the rabbit hole I go.
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- Registered On: November 13, 2020Topics: 2Replies: 61Has thanked: 112 timesBeen thanked: 380 times
It’s OK – the rabbit hole leads to a giant pink dressing room filled with the nicest lingerie, the silkiest stocking and the most beautiful dresses. If you explore the room carefully you’ll also discover makeup and wigs and perfumes and bags and heels…
…You might never want to leave the rabbit hole after that 🙂
Rachel xx
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- Registered On: October 26, 2020Topics: 0Replies: 41Has thanked: 814 timesBeen thanked: 168 times
I had comeout to my wife about 6 months before I wore panties under my sweats. I was herr housewfie at the time although she didnt want to see me. One nite she told me not to have a headache as she was needy. When she put her hands in my sweats she was instantly a different woman.
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I secretly wear Vanity fair silky briefs almost everyday, even around my unsuspecting wife. I think the possibility of being caught is an exciting part of this. I usually change back to my regular stuff before going to bed. How many other cross-dressers secretly do this?
no i don’t secretly wear panties behind my wife’s back she knows i wear panties along with other female or feminine clothing even colgene at time’s I’ve been wearing women’s panties for very long time now an not going back wearing men’s underwear i started at young age of 10yrs old but way back then they didn’t know or realize what i was doing)zena
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- Registered On: January 4, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 119Has thanked: 315 timesBeen thanked: 359 times
I did the same thing and then went nuts and just wore panties 24/7 and if I can wear a bra I love it I even went so far as to sleep in a bra and panties because she went to bed before me I got to put bra on and put on shirt in morning with the bra under it I love wearing fem items and only wish I could dress more often as a fem that I wish I was
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- Registered On: October 23, 2017Topics: 10Replies: 418Has thanked: 1889 timesBeen thanked: 1181 times
Yes , I wear panties and a camisole around my wife, covered in shorts and a t-shirt and feel so girly when I serve her tea and toast in the morning , give her medications, check her temp, blood pressure, blood glucose, oxygen saturation. I feel like her cute nurse. When I am doing paperwork at the desk, I take off the shorts and t-shirt coverings and feel so much a girl. I can hear her walking, so I have time to cover up!!
As for “getting caught”………………..its not so much a concern these days. I don’t do that macho mansplainging b>S>. and kinda think If I do get discovered, it would be “oh yeah, figures…….I thought it might be……….” karley
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some of u girl’s going bout it wrong way or wrong attitude not matter of getting caught or changing from panties to male underwear or vise versa thing to do is wear what’s comfortable to u or style of course size counts if you’re n situation where gotta change do it at night time before going bed or after taking bath/shower once again during night time but if must do it during day make sure no one is watching or around i myself wear panties 24 \7 now for past 20 yrs or so even got to point wear my clothes mixed during day and week’s now no body has said or mentioned anything to me im at point rather like it or don’t my way of wearing my clothes yes out n public to y’alls friend or adviser zena
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i went 0n a blind date didnt think we would do anything hour later she pulled my pants down said hey im wearing the same panties and color. married 4 yrs never wore male clothes again
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good for you for choosing do that on date an fact she didn’t freak out or worse thankfully she was kind that accepts n perfer u do only means she wants share girly panties with you or doesn’t matter what kind as long both wear same size}zena
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Yes , And sometimes I’ll even challenge myself and shut the light off and get in bed and sleep next to her while wearing women’s panties or pantyhose
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- Registered On: October 15, 2019Topics: 60Replies: 286Has thanked: 919 timesBeen thanked: 1547 times
I voted no.
My wife knows about my panties and I am glad she does.
For me crossdressing is not a sexual thing, secret pantie wearing would not be a turn-on.
CDing is more of a mental health thing for me. when I wear panties, its simply to acknowledge and express my feminine side, even if only to myself. If I don’t my mental health suffers.8 users thanked author for this post.
- Registered On: September 27, 2016Topics: 3Replies: 236Has thanked: 151 timesBeen thanked: 958 times
My wife know about my panty wearing, as I’ve written elsewhere on CDH I was “busted” to her by our housekeeper, but I also try not to go out of my way to show in front of her.
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wonder what the female Dr. would say if you were wearing panties instead. that would be a great thing to see and see what the Dr would talk about. she might even give you her personal number to play dress up. i guess wishful thinking
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Yes, selectively. When we were both working at home or if we are going to be out doing something but not in the evening or if we are working around the house, too easy for a waistband to be seen.
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- Registered On: October 9, 2020Topics: 8Replies: 163Has thanked: 475 timesBeen thanked: 609 times
I have the same panty wearing routine with the exception of any doctor appointment if I am going to be in my underwear. I might be braver at the doctors if I had a female doctor.
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No I wear panties everyday and my wife knows it.
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- Registered On: January 4, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 119Has thanked: 315 timesBeen thanked: 359 times
I love the feel of having a bra on me and try to wear one daily and even go out and do my thing for Uber and Lyft. Just knowing I have a bra on excites me and makes me want to be discovered by one of my passengers and made to do delightful thing with him
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i wear panties 24 7 but not on day i have a Dr . appointment wife knows i wear panties, she also know when i am wearing a bra, then she knows i am wearing a dress for i tell her i am wearing a dress.
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panties are so comfy have worn bikini underwear most of life but found it hard to find so I switched to female panties and loved the feel and now wear bikini panties 24/7 and given a chance wear a control slip under my clothes and a bra love it all and wish I could dress 24/7 as a woman
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I regularly wear bra and panties tonight I have gaff on I love them the most my wife ordered and bought everything I have right down to the high heels I voted yes because I’m a mechanic and she never now’s for sure when I go to work if I kept them on or not I love the feeling and love for being understanding
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I have been doing this openly for over 10 years. I’m was wearing the Vanity Fair String Bikini panties but I stumbled onto some vintage Satiny n Lace panties From a local Consignment Shop and have been wearing them ever since. I’m 63 yrs old and still love the feeling of being soft, silky an snug underneath my male clothing.
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I think the secretness of wearing women’s panties is a turn on in itself.
Sincerely Sara
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Hi, i to have to be secretive but to be honest i wish didnt have to be. I wear stockings suspenders and a chamise or bodice under my male clothes around the house. Feels so natural and comfortable.
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- Registered On: October 22, 2018Topics: 2Replies: 279Has thanked: 1432 timesBeen thanked: 886 times
Like a lot of the ladies here… There’s no need to be secretive about it. She knows, and doesn’t comment on them often, so I do wear them, but not secretively.
-Molly
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- I don’t have to be secretive I will wear right in front of her, sometimes she likes it sometimes not so much.
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Not secretly, my wife sees me in them everyday
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I would have to say no. Given that it was my wife who told me get rid of my boxers as I obviously prefer panties, she has known from the beginning that I wear panties.
MacKenzie Alexandra
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Hi Vanity
I wear panties around my wife all the time especially on my days off and after work when I’ve showered I slip on a pair of panties
L❤ve
Kelly💋Ann
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I voted no because it’s not a secret. My preference is Vanity Fair panties if that helps. Love the fit and feel.
I have been expanding my wardrobe though to add more womens styles and moving from exclusively clear nail polish to some light colors. I guess as my wardrobe grows it is forcing Joanne out of the ‘closet’.
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Hi Vanity. Yes I secretly wear panties everyday and my wife is unaware. Her best friend saw me perusing panties in a local store and I’m sure she told my wife. So far she hasn’t asked about it. Has she found my stash of panties in the bedroom? I don’t know.
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- Registered On: January 8, 2020Topics: 38Replies: 332Has thanked: 1842 timesBeen thanked: 1186 times
Vanity Fair,
I have never had to hide my dressing around my SO. We knew each other 50+ years ago and I dressed then without her knowledge, back then, and always in secret. Since we managed to get back together, three years ago, she has known since day one and she encourages my dressing and approves of it.
While at home I am dressed 24/7/365. When we have to go out I underdress. I live in the Bible Belt, Deep South of the US, and crossdressing is very much frowned upon.
Kathleen
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- Registered On: October 13, 2015Topics: 4Replies: 390Has thanked: 1025 timesBeen thanked: 847 times
Hi Ladies,
My wife introduced me to Bali panties and
camisoles.. however Kathy doesn’t support my expressing myself as Leonara..that is our compromise don’t ask don’t tell..she’ll
wash my panties and folds them with the rest of my clothes.. we’ve been married 49 years and looking forward celebrating our
50th with family & friends next April
Be well and stay safe😷
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- Registered On: May 26, 2019Topics: 18Replies: 1827Has thanked: 3376 timesBeen thanked: 6259 times
I voted “no”; been wearing panties for over a year, and it’s a non-issue with my wife. The bras did cause a couple of comments when she first noticed, but now are just normal clothes.
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Secretly? No. It’s kind of a don’t ask don’t tell situation but she is “OK” seeing me wear basic and sometime colorful panties. But, there is still an awkwardness contrasted by a thrill when she see’s me wearing them. On occasion she washes my panties with the rest of the wash. It’s a bit exhilarating seeing them folded on my pile of clean clothes when i enter the bedroom.
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- Registered On: August 25, 2016Topics: 18Replies: 231Has thanked: 1162 timesBeen thanked: 1085 times
I had to answer-no- because I wear panties all the time and my wife knows it. In fact, she usually buys them for me. I do sometimes secretly wear a bra, but even with that if the bra is totally undetectable she has very little issue with it.
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- Registered On: July 28, 2020Topics: 22Replies: 803Has thanked: 7254 timesBeen thanked: 3367 times
I answered ‘No’… I do wear panties, however don’t hide it from my Wife…
I’m in panties 98% of the time…. my Wife knows of my CDing but doesn’t want to see much more than panties and nail polish…
Gen 💋
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No, never been a turn on, it just feels right. Today working from home in blouse, jeggings, and ballet pumps, just put a hoodie over my blouse for Teams video calls.
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she knows I wear panties most days and a bralette a lot of the time. she does not haev any issue. She will feel on my shirt to see if she can feel and straps or tell tale signs I am wearing one.
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- Registered On: October 1, 2020Topics: 5Replies: 103Has thanked: 284 timesBeen thanked: 572 times
Well, although not fully onboard with my dressing, panties are surprisingly one of the feminine items my wife is completely relaxed about. Although I still have some male underwear, they are in the minority, and are all my wife’s favourites that she likes me to wear on special occasions. She will often choose me a pair of panties to wear for the day. When we go shopping, I won’t even be looking at getting any and she’ll put a pair in the basket for me when she buys for herself.
…Sometimes I secretly wear male underwear just to see if she’s paying attention 😜
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I wear panties every day and it is no secret. One time, my wife asked me to look at some plumbing under the sink. And you know what happens when you bend over to look at plumbing, your panties are quite visible. And that particular day, I was wearing my very bright pink panties so my wife commented on them (she wasn’t very flattering about it I must say although she didn’t say I shouldn’t be wearing them so that’s a win). I swear sometimes she touches my shoulders and chest checking to see if I’m wearing a bra. I figure she’s just very confused by it and rather than talking about it (which I’ve tried many times) she prefers to not address it. She does her own thing, I do my own thing and as long as our adult kids don’t know, she’s happy to ignore it. Stay safe, stay healthy, Hugs, Krista.
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I had to answer “no” to secretly wearing panties around my wife. She knew that I wore before we got married, as we had the discussions about my xdressing before we walked down the aisle. 30 years later, she would be shocked and dumbfounded if she caught me in male underwear.
Kay
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Wear panties and dress around the house all the time. Wife is my favorite person to shop with and we often do each other’s hair and makeup.
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It would be difficult to wear panties in secret around my wife as she is the one who purchased my first pair, and then purged all my male underwear and replaced them with panties.
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I wear panties 24/7 around my wife… it’s been no secret for a long time…
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I wear panties most days and my wife knows I like to wear female clothes. I wear a bra regularly too as under dressing is my main routine.
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my secret is out about panties and wear them 24/7 and love the feeling of having them on me all the time at times I do wear a bra also and do go out to do my thing wearing bbra and panties
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Not yet married. But ya secretly wear panties sometime.
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I dress freely, openly and often around my wife. She knows Patty well, likes her a lot and they are good friends.
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