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    • #488062
      Anonymous

      Good morning ladies….

      I have a question for all you married or separated or divorced girls……did you underdress on your wedding day????

      For you single girls…..would you underdress on your wedding day????.

      You girls that are out to your partner’s, I have read quite a few posts of some girls desires to get married dressed as the bride….so did you????….or is it planned????

      …..just wondered, grace xxx

    • #488077

      Hi Grace, no, this part of me was deeply buried way back then. If I could do it again, now, though? Hmmmm
      Hugs, Regi👩💕

    • #488081
      Anonymous

      No sweetie, it was her big day, , as she said “I am getting married to you, and adopting your Amanda to share it”.
      Wouldn’t have had it any other way.

    • #488091
      Anonymous

      No, it didn’t even occur to me. Just me wearing what I fancied. It wasn’t my mindset in that period.

      We had a laid back wedding. My wife wore a simple silk dress she’d had made when we were in Thailand the year before. I bought a cheap and cheerful casual silk shirt to colour coordinate, just worn against my skin, and over trousers, In those days I often wore (male) silk boxers anyway.

      Marti xxx

    • #488153

      Having never been married, I can’t say I would have in the past, it just wasn’t legal in most places.

      But, even at my age now, I don’t think I would have much problem wearing a beautiful gown down the aisle.  But, it definitely would NOT be as extravagant as some of the ‘bridezilla’ nightmares you see on TV reality shows.

      PaulaF

      • #488157
        Anonymous

        ” bridezilla ”

        ….😂🤣😂🤣😂.  xx

    • #488169
      Anonymous

      When my wedding day comes if would underdress will have to wear male things lol. By that time be all female.  Was married at one time before and yes did wear pair of panties

      • #488190
        Anonymous

        Donna…

        Y- fronts under your wedding dress…..PLEASE Noooooooo

         

        • #488220
          Anonymous

          would go bare before putting on y front hehe.

        • #488276
          Anonymous

          Ah Grace maybe they will be two sizes to small to add that smooth tucked feminine lines

          • #488896
            Anonymous

            When that day comes be nothing to tuck be smooth will be wearing those wedding theme type panties white lacy type

          • #488903
            Anonymous

            Already have the set just gotta find that someone special now? Harder than you 🤔 think x

          • #488906
            Anonymous

            That true thought found someone few months ago then he decided to go cheat around thankfully have good friends that are my eyes and ears and looking out for me.  Do have some more leads building up though.

    • #488188
      Rachel M
      Lady

      When I married my wife, I clearly knew that she expects a masculine man, husband and the future father of our children. I have and had every intention of fulfilling that then and now so no I wouldn’t underdress or to wear a wedding dress on our wedding day to diminish that.  Although that being said, Rachel will always be a part of me and often dream of wearing a beautiful wedding dress and be a bride for a day. My wife accepts my femme side but does not participate in it. I guess some things are not attainable because of the choices we make, but a girl can always dream.

       

      Rachel M

    • #488194
      Krista
      Duchess

      And a very good morning to You Grace,

      I did not underdress at any of my three weddings.  As Marti stated, it just wasn’t part of my mindset at the time.  And as Amanda said, it was her big day.

      I can assure you that there is never going to be a fourth wedding (three times is enough – though I did ask a fourth woman to marry me a very long time ago and she did say yes – but that is a very long story, suffice it to say that we never married and parted as very good friends).

      I’d love to wear a bridal gown but it won’t be for walking down the aisle.  We’re headed straight to the reception for dancing and drinking.

      Stay healthy, stay safe, Big Hugs, Krista.

      • #488195
        Anonymous

        Krista….you genius!!!….

        Okay, there’s lots of happily married people….

        but I wonder how many others  wished they had  missed the church …..and just had the reception….😂😂

        • #488894

          The reception is cheaper to untie, lol!

          Bridgette: divorced once but never again!

    • #488242

      At my wedding my ex and I wore matching panties as to color fabric style and size😊💕

    • #488245

      Before we got to the point of the ceremony, we had already had the discussion about my proclivity for underdressing. So she knew and was accepting and had seen me in my lingerie. That being said, I wore a black VS 2nd Skin Satin hipster, with black Hanes Silk Reflections thigh highs under my tux pants. I thought it looked rather fetching.

      Kay👩🏻‍🦳👄

    • #488264

      On my wedding day I wore the nicest white panties under my tux, when bedtime came we gave each other nighties we bought for this special occasion. White satin for her and A beautiful light blue satin one for me.

      • #488271
        Anonymous

        That’s wonderful xx

    • #488273

      Hi Gracie,

      Another good post.

      I didn’t Know Patty 27 years ago when I got married .

      I definitely would have underdressed.lolIt would be a wonderful experience to wear a bridal gown but I don’t see that happening.🤭

      Huggs Patty

      • #488277
        Anonymous

        Never say never patty honey….

        I never thought they would let me out of the lunatic asylum….but they did !!!….hahahaha  xx

        • #488284
          Anonymous

          Hi Grace seen straight jackets are making a come back and some are lacy and some nice colors too.

          • #488433
            Anonymous

            I wonder if Amazon……?????

          • #488825
            Anonymous

            Yes Amazon has them

    • #488913
      Amy Myers
      Baroness

      I got married in 1985, and I’m still married to the same woman. At the time I dressing so I just wore regular guy clothes, though my rental tux was pretty nice!

      Now, if I were to do that again, which I really don’t ever want to, but one of those ceremonies where one renew’s their vows I would like to do. I would likely be underdressed, but what I’d love would be for both of us to be wearing matching wedding gowns to stand up and take the vows again.

      Amy

      • #488932

        Hi Amy a girl after my own heart same here have been married for 38 years now and would love a dual bride wedding with my wife  ..

        Stephanie Bass

    • #488919
      Anonymous

      Oh, Grace…

      I have gained many fond memories during the 57 years I’ve been married; but your question recalls one I would rather forget. I didn’t know of Bettylou then, and couldn’t have co-existed with her if I had. I regret to say I was a complete male chauvinist pig back then, and I’m still embarrassed by the thought.

      Hugs,
      Bettylou

      • #489058
        Anonymous

        Bettylou…

        A good thing about memories is that even remembering the bad ones is sometimes a good thing…..look how you have changed so much for the better!!!

        Grace xx

    • #488937

      Hi Grace no didnt get the chance to underdress as my mom and wifes mom were fighting about wedding as what they wanted so he he we grabed our kids and headed to court house and got hitched  made them both mad but they got over it .. Been married for 38 years now and would love a dual brides wedding sounds like so much fun he he ..

      Stephanie Bass

    • #489036

      Your Graciousness…

      I must admit to not underdressing when I married (twice) but I did wear morning dress on my first and a dinner jacket on my second!
      I have already discussed this with my SO and we both agree that beautiful dresses on each would be appropriate!
      No more chintz!
      But for all you out there not having been married before… go for it!

      👰🏼‍♀️🍾🥂 Polly

    • #489071

      No Grace 38 years ago my dressing was on hold back then, and restricted now with same women. Has knowledge of my dressing but does not want to see it. My imagination see’s me in a full length gown and my SO dressed in a tux taking off my garter at the reception. My bridezilla that day made for fighting and arguing and ruined wedding night. Was not a good day.

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