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When I was married, I often wondered why my wife would make a big deal about sometimes avoiding going out in public is she wasn’t as presentable as she wanted to be “just in case” something happened or she met someone she knew. Yesterday, I got it. I had agreed to help a friend out by taking a few car parts to his friend in a city two hours away. He said his friend wouldn’t be home but asked if I would just leave the parts in his carport. Sure, no problem I had nothing else going on. I really didn’t want to get all made up for the task so I just threw on a pair of skimpy shorts (short, because I don’t own any others) and a crop top, some sandals and out the door I went. I just happened to be wearing a pocket bra with my forms that allows the nipples to protrude so I had some serious “nippleage” going on.
So, as luck would have it, I was about halfway there when Boom! Left rear tire went. Now I was out in the Florida countryside on a two lane road with nothing but cows and swamp around me as well as the occasional passing car. I quickly realized I was just a girl alone and with how I was dressed that this was not a good situation. Luckily, I had cell service and was able to contact AAA for assistance. The bad part was having to wait over and hour, dresses as I was, in the middle of Deliverance country. I just stayed in the truck with the A/C on until the AAA driver got there. Of course, he had a hard time keeping his eyes on fixing the tire instead of looking at my chest and legs. A few droolers also slowed to take a peek as they passed by. Now, I like to be admired, but I was feeling really uncomfortable and was wishing I had dressed a bit more conservatively. The AAA guy finished the job and looked me over like a piece of candy one more time and we were done. Finally, the tire was fixed and I was on my way with great relief. Now I usually carry some “protection” with me in my purse everywhere I go, but this day, I forgot that too. It would have provided some comfort in this situation. Lesson learned. Complacency just isn’t our friend.
That’s a seriously scary story Danielle and I’m glad you are still around to have a giggle over it. It’s a timely reminder to be aware of personal security when out alone dressed en femme night or day.
Though I live in a country where it is not necessary to carry ‘personal protection’ there are still enough A-holes around to make being stuck on the roadside in an out of the way spot concerning enough to bear in mind. Thank you for the warning.
“Nippleage” – 😂😂😂😂
Hugs Diana
I think we do need to be aware of our safety, just as women do, and for many of the same reasons. Many of the same predators who prey on women will prey on us, and may well react violently when they realize what they’re dealing with. Other times they may just know what they’re seeing, and just not like it.
There never seems to be a lack of bottom feeders out there these days.
Way to keep your cool out there, Danielle!
Bridgette
Part adventure part sad commentary on the male misconceptions concerning the desire of women to be attractive. They do not seem to comprehend that when a woman wishes to be attractive it may not be they whom they desire to attract. “She was asking for it by the way she was dressed!”, is a poor excuse for troglodyte brutality.
Araminta.
There’s a lot more nuance in this than we’d like to admit. We know that men are far more driven by visual images than women (there is a reason that far more men have a problem with pornography than women). But WOMEN know this too, and we’re being naive if we think that women don’t do many of the things they do to look attractive and feminine for male approval/attention. Not everything, of course, but some things at some times.
I would venture to guess that the majority of CDers here — even the perfectly straight ones — desire masculine approval for their feminine appearance just a little bit more than feminine approval. Because, well, masculine approval is kind of the ultimate test for femininity and vice versa.
I think we’re being a bit unfair to men to label them as troglodytes for being what they are — visual creatures. There is a reason for this. So dressing responsibly, as unpopular as that opinion seems to be today, is something a woman should do or she will invite the wrong kind of attention and put herself in unnecessary peril.
A woman victimized is a woman victimized. She is no less a victim because she dressed provocatively. A burglary victim is no less a victim if he accidentally left his front door unlocked than he would be if he locked it. It’s not the victim’s fault, but nor does it make any common sense to make it easier or more tempting to the perpetrator.
What man in this forum (assuming he is straight) has not looked at a woman with lust in his heart at some point? And what man in this forum has not looked longer at a woman who was displaying more to look at? I don’t know; maybe I’m the only one. I kinda doubt it though.
But I would tell the ladies here the same thing I tell my daughter, knowing that men are driven by the visual. Dress for the kind of attention you wish to receive.
And I would tell men here the same thing I tell my son. Treat women with the same amount of respect no matter who they are or how they are dressed, and keep your hands to yourself unless invited otherwise.
If we consistently communicate this message to the distinctive sexes, it would save a lot of heartache.
Great story…but Gen, you beat me to it….” Nippleage”….word of the week 😂😂😂.
Grace xx
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