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Registered On: July 26, 2020Topics: 46Replies: 1319Has thanked: 6350 timesBeen thanked: 7484 timesLast night, one of my best friends left CDH…. she was terrified, confused, abused, belittled, insulted and threatened….by someone she has never met,!!??
Yes, I cried my heart out as I desperately tried to talk her into coming back into my/ our life…
I bawled like a baby as emails went to and fro…… result, she is back!!! If you have never met Kelly Ann, you need to…..all she ever asks is to be your friend and she loves her leather and leopard clothes..
I am posting this, not for thanks, but because horrible, evil people who hate us for what?????…
SHOULD NEVER WIN…. thanks,
Grace….just like to add, I have some beautiful new friends from last night….thank you…❤️❤️
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Registered On: January 23, 2020Topics: 2Replies: 231Has thanked: 319 timesBeen thanked: 809 timesAt another site I keep getting direct messages from ‘mistresses’ who invite me to be their ‘slave’. Not going to happen by the way. However, if responding seems relatively harmless I might query them as to motives, intent, methodology, etc. As I understand from one such response they ask you to ‘register’ for a fee. After that I suppose you never hear from them or they give you some ludicrous instructions in a crude, unimaginative and uneducated syntax.
The latest seem to be shilling for another website. They don’t become abusive and if they did I would have to reminded that a ladylike demeanour might be more appealing (and the fact that they seem to have difficulties with common etiquette might indicate less ‘miss’ in the ‘mistress’ than is suggested). This last was uninformative. Apparently he, *whoops*, she was a notorious kinkster and that was the whole of her motivation. I pointed out that she was actively trying to sexually seduce me. Perhaps her approach would be more effective if she adopted the techniques of a Mata Hari or, if necessary, Don Juan. (The latter could work!)
It was actually an almost pleasant conversation. A little one-sided and getting repetitive at points. I get two or three of these a week now. I suppose in another month I will be getting 20-30 a week and have to spend checking for actual sincerity and deleting the tiresome. Trouble is they will likely all be tiresome.
I suppose what I am saying is that if you can keep your cool and be a lady they will all disappear and never, ever come back again. Mine do not. (Maybe I should put up a different avatar?)
The dangerous, I think have to be resisted if not one-on-one then by enlisting the aid of the moderators, etc., perhaps even the police. One should not be afraid to say, “I am a cross-dresser and I am being harassed!”, to the police. At least I would hope not.
If there is someone being particularly nasty and nothing is done then you are saying that their behaviour is alright and they are free to continue terrorizing others. There are some kinds of permissibility that are not alright.
Araminta.
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Registered On: November 11, 2020Topics: 26Replies: 555Has thanked: 1681 timesBeen thanked: 2198 timesThis just moved up into my new since last visit category. This all happened just a few days before I joined CDH. All I can say is that I know some trolls are going to slip through the cracks. I even expect it so, I’ve already prepared myself emotionally in case it ever happens to me. It’s the same for getting out in public. I know I will have to deal with some a-hole at some point. Reading about this also reaffirms what we already know. And that’s how wonderful Grace is! And I’m happy that Kelly Ann and I are friends here too.
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- Registered On: July 26, 2020Topics: 46Replies: 1319Has thanked: 6350 timesBeen thanked: 7484 times
Mika
The thing with a troll attack is mainly the surprise….you open messages as usual…then this #### .hits you full on…and the first thing girls think is that it’s personal….it very rarely is…..it’s a bit of a depth charge….take out as many of us as quickly as possible…I have learned the hard way honey…..
Advice….ignore it and report it….
I’m sure she will not mind me saying…… Sammy is a bit of a rottweiler with these idiots…..and if it happens and your upset….message me… anytime honey xx
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Registered On: January 7, 2017Topics: 77Replies: 865Has thanked: 433 timesBeen thanked: 1747 timesHello Grace and Kelly Ann!
Please send me friend requests!!! Kelly Ann, I’m glad you have as good a friend as Grace, and glad you have come back to CDH. It is a great place and I hope the disparaging things that happened, didn’t happen here. It appears CDH handles those things appropriately.
We are all here to support you, and everyone!
Please take care!
Love and Hugs,
Rebecka
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Registered On:Topics: 2Replies: 13Has thanked: 28 timesBeen thanked: 45 timesHi Grace and Kelly Ann, trolls like teenagers can be awfully abusive. There will be people who have nothing better to do than try and interrupt the lives of people minding their own business. To them I say scoot along and leave me to my devices. This is a community of understanding and love tied together with a feminine Bond that only true CDs will understand. Maintain your strength for you femininity is your strength. Never be afraid and always know you have friends here 🌈.
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Registered On: November 28, 2020Topics: 1Replies: 30Has thanked: 90 timesBeen thanked: 135 timesThey should NEVER win. Enough prejudice of this patriarchal world from males and gg’s alike. I just found this beautiful safe refuge and I feel home already. Kelly and sisters I love you and I need you all.
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Registered On: August 26, 2018Topics: 4Replies: 386Has thanked: 316 timesBeen thanked: 1032 timesTrolls are the dregs of the online world.
They actually have my pitty as their sad little lives must be so torrid for them to want to (or even have the time to) abuse other people, regardless of any difference that may exsist.
I wouldn’t be surprised in the least to discover that they are racked with personal inadequacies.
Take care girls
Anne-Marie
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Kelly Ann is safe now, and back under the pink cloud where she belongs. I missed all the crap! but ,i also wonder how i would have coped. Best wishes to all, I like happy endings. Pyxx.
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Registered On: January 15, 2020Topics: 17Replies: 815Has thanked: 6524 timesBeen thanked: 3137 timesLeslie sweetie no girl on here is responsible for the consequences from the action of Trolls. Certainly not you. CDH has an extremely good record of spotting them and dealing with them immediately, unfortunately one or two do get through. Grace has a good point always check profiles, doesn’t mean that all blank profiles are Trolls but it a starting position for safety. We all have different perspectives when faced with the prospect of possible Trolls “is it one” “could it be” “I wonder”. My point is we all at sometime have dismissed something that afterwards turns out to be what we thought was a Troll in the first place. No one is to blame, except the Trolls for any distress caused, and certainly no girl on here would blame another. Leslie sweetie we all get fooled at some point, but please lay no guilt at your expense sweetie, no one here certainly does.
Keep safe Lv Amanda xx
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- Registered On: September 14, 2020Topics: 12Replies: 103Has thanked: 653 timesBeen thanked: 572 times
Grace, Kelly,
I am sorry for the unhappiness and pain you suffered! But I am happy to hear that Grace was there to help.
l almost feel that I am responsible for some of this as I noted the other a very strange response on one of they threads (it was hateful and very bigoted which I thought strange here).
And having been a system security admin in my past life. I looked at the profile of the sender it was not filled in. I guess I should have reported it. I guess even here it is a case of see something say something.
Again I am sorry you were hurt Kelly but I am also glad than you had a friend like Grace to help and comfort you!
Hugs❤️
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- Registered On: July 26, 2020Topics: 46Replies: 1319Has thanked: 6350 timesBeen thanked: 7484 times
Leslie
We have been friends for quite some time now, and I really WILL not accept you were somehow responsible….utter rot!!!
…all I will add, is that I totally base my ” friendship acceptances” on profiles…I have had quite a few from girls whose profile is virtually blank….sorry, but if you can’t be bothered to introduce yourselves properly, you don’t get into Grace’s world…..please don’t take offense, that’s just the way it is….
huggs, grace x
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Registered On: February 11, 2019Topics: 15Replies: 1141Has thanked: 3119 timesBeen thanked: 2984 timesGrace, I’m glad your friend decided to stay. I really think this is a great site, and whatever happened to her I truly believe is the exception. Come early next year I will have been here 2 years, and personally have found a very helpful and welcoming place to be.
Amy
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Registered On: September 27, 2019Topics: 1Replies: 79Has thanked: 143 timesBeen thanked: 321 timesHello Grace and Kelly Ann,
It’s always good to get in contact with someone so caring and sensitive towards friends’ struggles. And it’s even greater when it unfolds to a happy ending like having a friend back to CDH.
I’ve sent friend requests for both of you and I wish you all the best in your crossdressing journeys.
xoxo
Daisy
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Registered On: August 3, 2020Topics: 11Replies: 126Has thanked: 766 timesBeen thanked: 568 timesI have no idea what happened, but I’m very glad things turned out ok.
I really, really don’t like it when someone is trying to hurt one of us, so it is probably for the best that I didn’t know about it.
Thanks Grace for being there for her. Love and peace to you all.
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- Registered On: January 15, 2020Topics: 17Replies: 815Has thanked: 6524 timesBeen thanked: 3137 times
Amanda
obviously I can’t let what you have written just go!!!…….but apart from ” I love you too” ….I simply don’t have the words…..
do you girls realise how much mascara I’m getting through at the moment???
humbly, grace x
Bless you sweetie, I think I can speak for many on here, we love you too. ❤️
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- Registered On: January 15, 2020Topics: 17Replies: 815Has thanked: 6524 timesBeen thanked: 3137 times
Grace sweetie, you are a truly beautiful person. Anyone who has you in their life is rich with genuine love.
It’s a honour and a privilege to have you as a friend, you are a true ambassador for all that CDH stand for,and a true friend in time of need. Bless you sweetie.
Welcome back Kelly Ann, your strength is a powerful weapon to those who hate..
Love to all, and thank you Grace.
Amanda xx
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- Registered On: July 26, 2020Topics: 46Replies: 1319Has thanked: 6350 timesBeen thanked: 7484 times
Amanda
obviously I can’t let what you have written just go!!!…….but apart from ” I love you too” ….I simply don’t have the words…..
do you girls realise how much mascara I’m getting through at the moment???
humbly, grace x
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Registered On: September 12, 2019Topics: 5Replies: 173Has thanked: 84 timesBeen thanked: 650 timesSo glad you are back Kelly Ann and well done Grace – it sounds as if the two of you have a very emotional evening and it’s so lovely that the genuine CDH ladies can do that for each other. As someone else said CDH 1 v Trolls 0!!
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Registered On: November 17, 2018Topics: 116Replies: 1324Has thanked: 1935 timesBeen thanked: 5686 timesGrace, you really are such a lovely girl! You make me laugh and inspire me to be a better person.
Well done for sticking up for your fried. ✔✔✔ We can’t let the “Bell ends” win, can we?
Stephanie P 💋
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Registered On: October 11, 2020Topics: 19Replies: 791Has thanked: 4885 timesBeen thanked: 3206 timesI’m so happy she had a friend like you Grace to help her through such an emotional bombshell.
It’s great she has returned and found even more strength and friendship.9 users thanked author for this post.
Registered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 9Replies: 1050Has thanked: 9826 timesBeen thanked: 3389 timesHi Grace Kellyann and i have been friends for a good while and it was a shame that someone can come in our door and cause so much grief. To our lovely kelly we chatted earlier today and then she was back a very happy time in my life as she is ill replaceable as a sweet girlfriend i have many girlfriends such as yourself and would not trade any of you for the world when i came here i was alone as many of us here were but my heart is so full of friends and joy i get giddy as a school girl when i get a message from any of you girls thanks for your love and friendship as Kelly needs all of us now .. she is a keeper so let her know ..
💋💋🌹🌹💞💞💞💞💞💞💞Stephanie
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Registered On: October 24, 2020Topics: 13Replies: 515Has thanked: 1608 timesBeen thanked: 2212 timesGrace where do I start
First a big Thank you for last night and that’s from my 💜 our conversations last night made me realise I am who I am and wouldn’t change for the world I was hurt and very upset last night and did shed some tears and it was eating me up inside today and thanks to you sis this wild cat ain’t going anywhere I’m here for good
All my l❤ve sis
Your sis
Kelly💋Ann
💋💋💋
Welcome back Sexy Girl!!
xo – Robyn ❤️💋❤️💋
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- Registered On: October 24, 2020Topics: 13Replies: 515Has thanked: 1608 timesBeen thanked: 2212 times
Grace – Your a hero in my book!! Cannot thank you enough!
xo – Robyn 🤗❤️
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- Registered On: July 26, 2020Topics: 46Replies: 1319Has thanked: 6350 timesBeen thanked: 7484 times
Thanks Robyn
I’m s bit embarrassed now, I am so not a hero, I’m just like the majority of you girl’s, I CARE…..maybe I wear my heart on my sleeve a bit more than some….but what you see is what you get..
love to you all!! grace ❤️
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We all need friends that is why I come in here I feel so alone and it help to come in here and chat
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Grace where do I start
First a big Thank you for last night and that’s from my 💜 our conversations last night made me realise I am who I am and wouldn’t change for the world I was hurt and very upset last night and did shed some tears and it was eating me up inside today and thanks to you sis this wild cat ain’t going anywhere I’m here for good
All my l❤ve sis
Your sis
Kelly💋Ann
💋💋💋
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