- April 10, 2021 at 11:23 pm #476208AnonymousInactiveRegistered On:Topics: 3Replies: 4Has thanked: 3 timesBeen thanked: 69 times
Good morning. I’m still a ‘Newbie’. This is just to warn you not to be stupid like me. Your timeline is open to the world and his sister so don’t post on there if you don’t want the world to see – that includes the REPLY button on those messages. I stupidly thought replying would be private. IT ISN’T.
You want PRIVATE then use the PRIVATE MESSAGE section. Don’t be STUPID like me.
Be safe out there all you lovely girls. xxx
- April 13, 2021 at 2:21 am #477095Stevie SteinerAmbassadorRegistered On: June 11, 2020Topics: 52Replies: 1260Has thanked: 5712 timesBeen thanked: 6451 times
Not knowing something doesnt make you stupid Carol, just means you haven’t learned it yet, or are ignorant of how it works. If that was the case, we would all be “stupid” about many different things. Shucks, I remember trying to figure out where the !@*$!#&! ‘Like’ button was when I joined up!! I wasn’t stupid, just a bit ignorant of how things worked (and I’m still learning things). As stated though for any personal/private things, always use your private photos or private messages – especially when it comes to your contact info.
- April 11, 2021 at 1:57 pm #476462Katie TimeDuchessRegistered On: April 3, 2021Topics: 24Replies: 179Has thanked: 1213 timesBeen thanked: 981 times
- April 11, 2021 at 7:03 am #476301Katie CollinsLadyRegistered On: January 25, 2020Topics: 3Replies: 199Has thanked: 100 timesBeen thanked: 578 times
Welcome and stick with it. This is a great site with so many supportive girls. Happy to chat with you any time, via private messages. I’m from your neck of the woods originally.
- April 11, 2021 at 4:40 am #476250Sa•man•thaManaging AmbassadorRegistered On: January 21, 2018Topics: 486Replies: 1808Has thanked: 8180 timesBeen thanked: 7342 times
Hi Carol. Not stupid hon, this site has a learning curve & we know that, so no worries. Feel free to contact any of our ambassador staff if you have questions or need help…that’s what we’re here for 🙂
I’m glad that you’ve brought this up tho, Carol. Let’s recap for the benefit of our newer members…
– Public pix: Visible to the whole internet. Goggle can find those.
– Private pix: if you have a private gallery, only other logged in CDH members can see that. Gaggle can’t get it. You can also mark these as “friends only”
– Wall page / public message: we do our best to keep the site safe, but this is still the internet so for security reasons, please do not share personal contact info (e-mail addys, ph numbers, etc) on public areas of the site. Only use private message for that.
– CDH is a family friendly site: We are a support site for the cd / tg community. No sex chat on CDH please, & if it’s not something you’d wear in public probably shouldn’t post pix of it here.
Thanks Carol & all…!
- April 11, 2021 at 3:29 am #476240Teralynn LovingLadyRegistered On: October 17, 2019Topics: 3Replies: 1173Has thanked: 11247 timesBeen thanked: 2287 times
Hi Carol, Teralynn here. Don’t be too hard on yourself dear. We all have our moments at times when we goof up. Sometimes it is more serious than others. I usually tell CDH sisters I am trying to help to use the site’s private message system. It is an old custom that I have always honored so that anything they tell me in confidence will never be revealed by me. I also invite new members to use the private message system or a public post whichever they are more comfortable with. Photos are quite a different story. I am a girl with an attitude. I only have public photos because I am quite satisfied with who I am and anyone who wants to look can do so and whether you like it or not is up to you. It is my opinion of my look that counts with me. I am sorry if some of your photos or posts were seen by people who you didn’t want to view them, but life goes on and I am sure you will overcome the displeasure that this incident has caused you. At least that is my hope. – Blessings from Teralynn
- April 11, 2021 at 3:18 am #476237Diane RakersLadyRegistered On: August 18, 2019Topics: 4Replies: 715Has thanked: 1255 timesBeen thanked: 2361 times
- April 11, 2021 at 3:15 am #476236Grace ScarlettBaroness - AnnualRegistered On: February 16, 2021Topics: 85Replies: 1821Has thanked: 6494 timesBeen thanked: 10196 times
Hi Carol….you were definitely not stupid, just not informed.
The first time I joined cdh, I posted 5 pictures in public photos..I didn’t realise either until it was explained to me.
This time around I just post in private photos….which I’m quite happy to do as I’m fine with cdh members seeing them.
Incidentally girls, don’t be put off by ” private photos” …you can look at them!!!!!!……it’s a bit misleading….I guess it means “private – members only”.
- April 11, 2021 at 2:56 am #476230Roxanne KorgiLadyRegistered On: December 20, 2020Topics: 2Replies: 67Has thanked: 429 timesBeen thanked: 269 times
Can you say what was posted?
We generally have different names, pictures are disguised and one should use a different email account…
How was this person recognised?
Is there something I should do differently?
- April 11, 2021 at 12:08 am #476213stephanie plumbBaroness - AnnualRegistered On: November 17, 2018Topics: 157Replies: 2112Has thanked: 3377 timesBeen thanked: 9967 times
Do you know that your public photo’s are viewable by the entire planet? To have some limited privacy your pics should be in private photo’s, which can be seen by site members only. And be aware that lingerie pics are frowned upon by the administrators, so tread carefully.
- April 11, 2021 at 2:04 am #476222Layla JonesLadyRegistered On: June 7, 2020Topics: 0Replies: 38Has thanked: 325 timesBeen thanked: 141 times
- April 11, 2021 at 2:54 am #476229Ambermaria MartinezDuchessRegistered On: July 8, 2018Topics: 5Replies: 70Has thanked: 29 timesBeen thanked: 240 times
That is why I don’t post pictures of me dressed only 5 people in the world know about ambermaria 3 woman from my job and my landlady and my best girlfriend my mother who guided me to be the woman I always wanted and felt I was even though she’s not with me anymore she’s looking down at me and saying you are a woman just born different
- April 11, 2021 at 12:14 am #476214
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