- August 13, 2020 at 3:11 pm #373833Roberta DennyParticipantRegistered On: May 19, 2020Topics: 15Replies: 123Has thanked: 501 timesBeen thanked: 497 times
When I first joined a CD site eight years ago I felt very exhilarated when someone calked me by my femme name for the first time.It was extremely liberating.It marked the first time that I had told anyone except my wife about my passion for dressing as a woman.I called myself Belinda in those days.Although the site in question wasn’t quite as nice as CDH that thrill has never left me.Equally,I love it when anyone calls me Roberta on this site.It’s the femme name that will last me for the rest of my life.I love it,Roberta is a huge part of who I am.Did any other members on here feel a certain frission when they were first called by their girl name? Whether it be on this site,any others,or in the real world.
- August 20, 2020 at 12:59 am #375955Dani Bryn DenaliParticipantRegistered On: October 12, 2019Topics: 2Replies: 53Has thanked: 108 timesBeen thanked: 146 times
Great topic! I recently visited a Provisioning Center up north, and when my order was ready, a dude announced to the waiting room “Dani Bryn Denali?” Everyone there knew I was a dude, en femme, but there was no tension, weirdness or hate. What a great place.
- August 19, 2020 at 6:15 pm #375894ThereseWParticipantRegistered On: July 23, 2019Topics: 2Replies: 16Has thanked: 143 timesBeen thanked: 88 times
Roberta, Thank you for this topic. It helped me recall a wonderful moment in my life, more than 10 years ago. I walked into Carla’s in San Jose in drab mode for a scheduled makeup lesson. Aejaie, the owner, asked me “Are you Therese?” I blushed and said “ Yes, I am Therese.” It was the first time I had ever said those words out loud. She is so affirming and she helped me tremendously on my journey. I miss her and can’t wait to get back to California for a visit.
- August 19, 2020 at 8:31 am #375711Diana WParticipantRegistered On: July 9, 2020Topics: 9Replies: 209Has thanked: 881 timesBeen thanked: 902 times
I get it! I came out last month on my Twitter account. Admittedly that account is very kink friendly. But I tweeted a photo of myself wearing a black dress.
One person tweeted to me “I see you and you are beautiful. Thank you for sharing, Diana.”
I felt this joy bubbling up inside me that someone had acknowledged me as Diana. I actually got emotional about it. I thought at one point I was going to cry. So I understand exactly where you’re coming from with this post. I had a similar reaction when my wife called me Diana for the first time. She doesn’t do it often, but she’s recognizing when I’m acting as Diana and she will call me that name at those times.
- August 19, 2020 at 6:18 am #375673Jennifer LynnParticipantRegistered On: August 15, 2020Topics: 1Replies: 69Has thanked: 27 timesBeen thanked: 322 times
It was a thrill the first time someone (other than my wife) called me Jennifer. Now when people call me by name or address me as Miss, Ma’am, Lady or any other feminine term I feel that I have achieved my place in life that I have worked for.
- August 15, 2020 at 11:20 pm #374617Jen KellyParticipantRegistered On: February 2, 2019Topics: 1Replies: 17Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 43 times
- August 15, 2020 at 4:48 am #374247AnonymousInactiveRegistered On:Topics: 2Replies: 261Has thanked: 79 timesBeen thanked: 483 times
I felt excitement with all of the firsts associated with my cross-dressing, including being called Stephanie. Since then, I don’t feel excitement as much as I feel validation. If I look, act and talk like Stephanie, then I should be addressed as Stephanie.
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- August 15, 2020 at 3:45 am #374229Stevie SteinerParticipantRegistered On: June 11, 2020Topics: 24Replies: 542Has thanked: 2356 timesBeen thanked: 2561 times
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- August 14, 2020 at 8:33 pm #374186JOJOParticipantRegistered On: August 5, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 30Has thanked: 32 timesBeen thanked: 137 times
- August 14, 2020 at 1:47 am #373956Lee Ann RakersParticipantRegistered On: August 18, 2019Topics: 4Replies: 433Has thanked: 652 timesBeen thanked: 1290 times
Thank you for the post. I have a nail appointment this afternoon. I go to Elegant Nails in Oro Valley, Arizona. I am a client of Sarah, the owner. She knows about me being a crossdresser. She gives me manicure and puts nail polish on. I do have her take it off before I leave. My circumstances dictate so.
When I see her today I plan on asking her if see would call me Lee Ann.
I have never been vocally addressed by my feminine name. That has got to be one of “those moments”.
Hugs and kisses,
- August 14, 2020 at 12:16 am #373946TJ Laber-TeaParticipantRegistered On: June 29, 2020Topics: 11Replies: 75Has thanked: 576 timesBeen thanked: 272 times
Being called TJ (here on CBH) for the first time was strange but exhilarating. I hadn’t considered giving my femme side a name as I was so new to the idea. But Amber nudged me to find a name, so TJ was born.
I guess for me it validated her, made her more real in a sense. I am not sure if the name will stick forever, but it kinda works for me right now. X
- August 14, 2020 at 12:05 am #373945Laura LovettParticipantRegistered On: March 26, 2020Topics: 7Replies: 370Has thanked: 995 timesBeen thanked: 1651 times
- August 13, 2020 at 4:54 pm #373877Alison AndersonParticipantRegistered On: October 15, 2018Topics: 3Replies: 317Has thanked: 152 timesBeen thanked: 1123 times
It didn’t bother me online when I was called Alison. But the first time I went to a transformation place for a makeover, I was called Alison right from the start, even in male mode. It kind of threw me for a loop. Still to this day, she calls me Alison whether I’m in male or female mode.
Now the thing you really have to watch out for is when some female you know has the same name. You have to be careful not to turn when someone calls to her!
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