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The List
General Overview of “The List,” I’m sure that there are many items that I missed that could’ve been added. Though this should suffice for an “out the door” general start reference for communication with your Partner/SO.
Other Variations of the list can be made from this as well to fit whatever you need (IE; Forced Feminization/Sissification, Etc.)
The way me and my SO utilized the rough draft of this list was to label each item as; Green – for “I am good with this” / Yellow – for “I am on the fence about this” / Orange – for “I could be convinced to do this” / Red – for “No, I am not okay with this”
- Group 1 – Under Clothing – General Wear and Use
- Panties, Bra, Hosiery, Etc.
- Underdressing beneath regular wear
- Underdressing with Feminine attire
- Group 2 – Nails – Proper Care and Maintenance
- Nail Length
- Fake nails
- Buff and Polishing
- Manicures
- Pedicures
- Nail Polish
- Clear Coat
- Colors
- Group 3 – Wearing Feminine Clothing
- Wearing Feminine Clothing
- Wearing within the home
- Wearing in public
- Accessories (IE; Jewelry)
- Wigs
- Make up
- Lashes
- Plucking Eyebrows
- Breast Enhancing items (IE; Forms, padding, breastplate, etc.)
- Group 4 – Body Modifications
- Piercings
- Hair Length
- Shaving/Waxing/Epilating/etc.
- Supplements
- HRT
- Implants
- Surgeries
- Group 5 – Female mannerisms and more
- Female Voice
- Use of other pronouns
- Use of other name(s)
- Female Mannerisms (IE; Walking the walk, twirling hair, crossing legs, etc.)
- Group 6 – Girls Nights
- Time in femme with your partner/SO having a “Girls” night
- Implies whatever you feel consists of a “Girls” night
- Inviting other girls over for “Girls” night
- Agreed upon list of those that you are both okay with
- Crossdressing for a “Girls” night
- Whether or not it is acceptable to dress up in feminine attire for a “Girls” night
- Group 7 – Shopping
- Partner/SO willing to go shopping for you
- Receiving gifts from your Partner/SO
- Going shopping for feminine attire/accessories with Partner/SO
- Having Partner/SO pick out outfits/accessories for you
- Picking out outfits for your Partner/SO
- Shopping alone for Feminine attire/accessories for either yourself or your Partner/SO
- Group 8 – Spa Days – Mani/Pedi
- Going out alone for a Spa Day and/or Mani/Pedi
- Going out with your Partner/SO for a spa day and/or Mani/Pedi
- Group 9 – Privacy of Crossdressing
- Agreed upon terms of who gets to know about your crossdressing
- Group 10 – Intimate/Bedroom
- Leaving this group blank for items, add the items, or scenarios that apply.
- This group can be as detailed and as in depth as you feel you need to communicate with your partner(s).
- This is also a good group to dictate which Kinks you may or may not have
- Group 11 – Boundaries and Exceptions
- Leaving this group blank as well, as boundaries and exceptions will be different for everyone.
Kyra,
Thank you for putting this list together!
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