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I have come out to people around me more and more. Earlier I did show up at a video call dressed and today I did go to office as Kelly. I expected to maybe meet one other person but ended up meeting several others including some who hadn’t been on that videocall. Later I did go to meet some people in a local club, some who didn’t know about Kelly. This did all go well, besides some comments of jealousy from some girls about my high heels that they can’t wear any more it was no talk at all about what I was wearing.
With that I feel that I tipped the scale, of the family and people around me it is now more people who knows about Kelly than those who doesn’t. The reception have mostly been somewhere between “ok” and “great”, no negative reactions at all.
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Isn’t it great to be out. If yiuy read my post from this morning ‘Iv’e come a long long way’ about how far I have come out to many. my mind is becoming so much more at ease showing myself as Cassie more and more.
Had another a couple of hours ago. I was asked to pick up a meat loaf at a catering service and didn’t want to take the time to change so I went in fem. The young lady that answered the door didn’t say a word about how I was dressed and just made pleasant small talk. IT WAS NO BIG DEAL!!!!. .Cassie
[quote quote=648056]IT WAS NO BIG DEAL!!!![/quote]
In most cases it’s not even a small deal, it’s at most a second look and that’s it. This is especially true when meeting people for the first time. They don’t know if this is the way I been dressing every day the last 10 years or it’s the first time ever so they seem deal with it as if it’s as strange as if a women come in pants.Today I was out shopping and a small boy asked his dad something that to me sounded like “why is her lips blue?”, and dad said something down the lines of “i dunno, don’t bother her” and they walked away.
Now I may have misheard “lips blue” since while I had lipstick it was red not blue. Anyway, I didn’t even think about that part, I was more thinking about the “her” part. I call my self glance passable and I feel I just got a confirmation of that./kt
Very courageous. Now that you are out to some, eventually all, what are your intentions going forward? Are you going toward full-time?
[quote quote=648174]Are you going toward full-time?[/quote]
As I say in my profile and some post comments I don’t have the desire to do it full time and I never been interested in transition.
I’m a part time CD and while it lately been a lot it’s not all the time.From experience I know that at some point the urge is going to go down, only to come back later.
What changed most is that I don’t feel the need to hide anything, I mean if I need to meet some friends or go shopping or so I don’t change to drab first. Yes, some may read me but I don’t care, I feel this is what I am and I shouldn’t hide it.
/kt
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