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    Kelly Terry
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    Registered On: February 26, 2018
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    I have come out to people around me more and more. Earlier I did show up at a video call dressed and today I did go to office as Kelly. I expected to maybe meet one other person but ended up meeting several others including some who hadn’t been on that videocall. Later I did go to meet some people in a local club, some who didn’t know about Kelly. This did all go well, besides some comments of jealousy from some girls about my high heels that they can’t wear any more it was no talk at all about what I was wearing.

    With that I feel that I tipped the scale, of the family and people around me it is now more people who knows about Kelly than those who doesn’t. The reception have mostly been somewhere between “ok” and “great”, no negative reactions at all.

    /kt

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    • #648200
      Liara Wolfe
      Duchess
      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      That’s so great Kelly.

      Hugs, Liara

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    • #648182
      Kelly Terry
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: February 26, 2018
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      Are you going toward full-time?

      As I say in my profile and some post comments I don’t have the desire to do it full time and I never been interested in transition.
      I’m a part time CD and while it lately been a lot it’s not all the time.

      From experience I know that at some point the urge is going to go down, only to come back later.

      What changed most is that I don’t feel the need to hide anything, I mean if I need to meet some friends or go shopping or so I don’t change to drab first. Yes, some may read me but I don’t care, I feel this is what I am and I shouldn’t hide it.

      /kt

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    • #648174
      Kim Dahlenbergen
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      Registered On: November 18, 2019
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      Very courageous. Now that you are out to some, eventually all, what are your intentions going forward? Are you going toward full-time?

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    • #648084
      Kelly Terry
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      Registered On: February 26, 2018
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      IT WAS NO BIG DEAL!!!!

      In most cases it’s not even a small deal, it’s at most a second look and that’s it. This is especially true when meeting people for the first time. They don’t know if this is the way I been dressing every day the last 10 years or it’s the first time ever so they seem deal with it as if it’s as strange as if a women come in pants.

      Today I was out shopping and a small boy asked his dad something that to me sounded like “why is her lips blue?”, and dad said something down the lines of “i dunno, don’t bother her” and they walked away.
      Now I may have misheard “lips blue” since while I had lipstick it was red not blue. Anyway, I didn’t even think about that part, I was more thinking about the “her” part. I call my self glance passable and I feel I just got a confirmation of that.

      /kt

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    • #648056
      Cassie Jayson
      Duchess
      Registered On: September 29, 2019
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      Isn’t it great to be out. If yiuy read my post from this morning ‘Iv’e come a long long way’ about how far I have come out to many. my mind is becoming so much more at ease showing myself as Cassie more and more.
      Had another a couple of hours ago. I was asked to pick up a meat loaf at a catering service and didn’t want to take the time to change so I went in fem. The young lady that answered the door didn’t say a word about how I was dressed and just made pleasant small talk. IT WAS NO BIG DEAL!!!!

      . .Cassie

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    • #648042
      Angela Booth
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      Registered On: August 1, 2020
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      It sounds as if you have tipped the scales and they are sending you rushing forward. Good to hear and I hope it continues.

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    • #648039
      Fiona Black
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      Registered On: November 23, 2019
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      So nice to hear that things are going well.

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      Suzanne Martin
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      Registered On: January 8, 2020
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      Kelly –

      That’s great very happy for you.

      XOXO
      Suzanne

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    • #647899
      Michelle Brown
      Registered On: August 23, 2015
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      Hi Kelly,Thats wonderful news.Ok girl,you are now on a mission and that is to be the best lady you can be. Michelle.

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    • #647898
      Fredrika Jones
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      Registered On: February 24, 2021
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      Congratulations! You go, gurl!

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    • #647897
      Emily Alt
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: August 24, 2019
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      I don’t know that I’ve reached the “tipping point” yet, but the response so far has been overwhelmingly positive.

      Very happy for you.  Times are changing for the better.

    • #647855
      Stephanie Bass
      Hostess
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi kelly sounds wonderful for you  thanks for the update ..

      Stephanie

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