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- March 27, 2020 at 2:03 am #329327
Sooooo, in this new personal era of self discovery and attempts at self acceptance I had another opportunity to talk about this part of my being with my s/o. We were on our regular pre brekky jog/walk (~1hr, 6-7000 steps), and she was wondering what we should do first after the lockdown is lifted. (writing this down now it seems like something I dreamt or an out-of-body experience not a real conversation, like many recent happenings in my world)
Weekend trip to Basel by bicycle, tarte flambée in a brewery pub across the border, and I said ‘would you accompany me for a make over?’ ‘What do you mean, for clothes or…’ ‘well’ I said, ‘I went to Sephora a couple of weeks ago for a makeover’ ‘the full works’ ‘What did it look like, did you get a photo?’ ‘No, no photos’ ‘so, foundation and everything?’ ‘Yes, the works’ ‘so, who did it, a guy?’ ‘No, a girl. I’ve been reading a lot about self acceptance and I think this has been part of what I am for a long time’ ‘really?’ ‘Yes. I’m sorry I know this is a lot to digest’
This time in semi lockdown together has been really nice and I want to continue with this conversation soon.
In the meantime I’ve been sneaking in some steals panty wearing
S x
- March 27, 2020 at 2:37 am #329333
Hi Seraphina,
That is so awesome I am glad you are getting to share succh things with your S/O and she seems accepting.
Wish I was that lucky.
Patty
- March 27, 2020 at 4:46 am #329379
Obvs meant ‘stealth panty wearing’ 🙄
- March 31, 2020 at 6:37 am #330728
Very brave of you Seraphina,
Any response yet or is she still digesting it ?
Hugs
- March 31, 2020 at 6:56 am #330733
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still digesting I think…! I have an appointment with a new therapist this week so maybe that’ll help open things up a little
S x
- April 2, 2020 at 9:34 am #331621Anonymous
Seraphina,
I’m so happy for you that your Talk went well, and I hope your lady will accept your dual makeover date when you can do so again. I’ve been wishing for the same. And I found my makeover to be a big step toward self-acceptance.
Hugs,
Bettylou - April 9, 2020 at 1:48 pm #333410
I hope you can make this work. Being cooped up inside all day is difficult enough but it brings us all closer. Good luck.
SH
- April 10, 2020 at 1:55 am #333516
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Thanks Savannah, it’s going to be a long journey but I’m beginning to feel it’s acceptance or nothing x
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