To gaff or to tuck?

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    • #440527
      Nikki AtNite
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      Yes. It’s been pointed out to me by more than one boyfriend over the years. Usually, they don’t want to see it. Like… At all.

      I guess it has made me self conscious about it, because I have made my own gaffs from small bikinis before to avoid having a bulge while I’m out. I generally buy the polly thong style.

      For the ladies asking about comfort:

      Im afraid not, sweetie. Beauty is pain.

       

      uWu Nikki

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      Rayna (was Dala) Carlian
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      I have a gaff or two for certain outfits that I need to hide things.

      I don’t use the fake camel toe kind. I bought the smooth front silk gaffs from Em Femme.

      It’s very similar to the one sold in the CDH Store https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/product/slingshot-comfort-gaff-in-red-satin/

      Creates a comfortable flat smooth front….

       

      XOXO

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    • #439681
      Sharon
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      Nope.  I tend to go for long line tops so that I don’t have to.

      I dress as me, I want to be me, not disguise myself as something I am not.

      I am neither attached to or disgusted by my genitalia.

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        stephanie plumb
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        I wish I wasn’t attached to mine! But I’m not having them off either. A-line skirts, Skater dresses, tight panties is usually all I need.  I might be attached but its weird how small they are when I dress. They know they are not currently required and so make themselves scarce. Mind over matter? Muscle control? There has to be a scientific reason… must research this……………

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        • #439859
          Polly Stewart
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          Stephanie

          The Sumo wrestlers of Japan have practiced tucking for hundreds of years so you might start you research there?

          Sayonara baby xxx Polly

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    • #439365
      Wendy Swift
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      I have a gaff, and I did wear it a few times when I first bought it, but now it just sits on the shelf collecting dust.  I’ve found going to the bathroom tucked and wearing a gaff to be cumbersome (untucking then retuck).

      So now I wear restrictive under things, like control panty, tights, and shapewear.  It hides the bump and smooth things out quite well for me.

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    • #436173
      Patty Phose
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      When I was 18, I bought this amazing sexy and tight dress. I loved it. I looked so sexy in it. I couldn’t wait to wear it to a party. In my excitement and enthusiasm I didn’t notice my ladyboy bump.

      At the party they did notice it and noticed it right away. I became extremely popular. What started out as a gaffe on my part got me a lot of loving attention. I bought several more dresses similar to that to wear to parties.

      But when I wasn’t going to parties, I paid attention to what I was wearing and what I was showing. Sometimes it took adjustments, or wearing a different dress that was more suitable for where I was going.

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      Alice Penn
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      It depends a lot on what style we wear. If it is bodycon and one is very slim then tucking is a must. If like me one wears fit and flare and unfortunately a tiny tummy then just restrictive panties are enough. Personally I have one body con dress which gives me up hill with the tucking, so when it is time to thin out dresses this one will be the first to go. In one picture I am wearing a short white fit and flare dress. That is what I prefer.

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    • #434902
      Samantha Roarke
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      Here is a gaff review I did a few months back…

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/forums/topic/en-femme-gaff-collection-review/

      I use gaffs and they are sweet! I can do yoga pants all day and never show anything that shouldn’t be there.

      -SR-

    • #434229
      Michelle Bailey
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      I tuck the ‘little boys’ away then put on a pair of tight panties inc a pantyliner ,over them a pair of what you you might say ordinary panties and most days pantyhose gives me a ‘lovely front ‘ down below .
      Michelle xx

      • #434361
        Janet williams
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        since I had prostrate cancer I have no problem. It has gotten smaller since operation and had prostrate removed and it is so small I must sit down to pee or I will pee on myself but hell not usable so I continue to be the gurl I can and do wear panties 24/7 and if lucky can wear bra when I out and around

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      Stephanie Green
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      Tucking and panties work fine for me.  I can’t say that gaffs are good or bad.  I haven’t needed to wear them.

    • #434190
      BillieJay
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      I wear briefs, and I’ve practiced “pushing in” and then tucking. It also changes my walk, to keep them from dropping again, I keep my legs close together when I walk, which is more graceful to me.

      • #439360
        Janet williams
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        If I push any further in I would appear to have a vagina and no penis but heck life is good when u can be the gurl u dream of being

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      • #434241
        Polly Stewart
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        Hi BillieJay

        Precisely what my wife first told me… keep your thighs together and shorten your step. She now says I have it down pat!

        xx Polly

        • This reply was modified 1 month ago by Polly Stewart. Reason: spelling mistake
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    • #434150
      Kathleen 60454
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      I use a #4 Poise Sanitary pad and it takes care of my bulge and I am more than average. Not bragging but truth.

       

    • #434139
      Anonymous
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      I do not have a penis to speak of. It has shriveled to nothing. If an erection did happen, 2 inches would be an exaggeration. My problem are my testicles. They are huge like a bull you see grazing. Wearing a thong or g-string is impossible. Panties cause the same problems. They either split down the middle or to one side. My problem is not concealing my penis but my testicles. The gaffs I’ve looked at do not list different sizes. Any suggestions appreciated. Rachel.

      • #434152
        T.J. Byron
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        Rachel F.

        Don’t know how old you are, kids, etc…

        You can have an orchectomy. You would need HRT ( Testosterone), which I inject every other week.

        Otherwise…you have to drag Everything back Or… Secure UP INTO THE FAT CAVITY …checkout the anatomy and feel it…TegaDerm wound dressing, with adhesive will hide it.

        Let us know what worked for you so the next person gets the advise.

        CHECKOUT MY GALLERY.

        Dr.T.J.

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    • #433979
      Regine Rich
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      I thought the same, about Gaffes until I got a pretty good one, Polly, now I just love it. i got a thong style, no tucking required, and the toe doesn’t show, it does have one, but it is so smooth, and holds everything in place so well there is no more adjusting, anything.
      I wear it whenever I wear anything remotely tight.
      Regi.

      • #434379
        Polly Stewart
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        Hi Regine…

        Can you wear it for sport? I ride my bike a lot and want to feel comfortable on a bike while being en femme. So far it is more than uncomfortable hence the desire to get rid of the whole lot.

        xxPolly

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        • #440590
          Regine Rich
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          Yes, I believe you could, Polly. mine fits a lot like a jockstrap, if you know what they are, and they were designed for sports.
          Regi

    • #433971
      Bettylou Cox
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      I am thankful (finally) that I don’t have a lot to hide. A bladder leak pad in my panties almost gives a flat appearance, and a pair of tights completes the task. I can wear leggings and look the same as a GG. I did so, yesterday.

      Bettylou

    • #433915
      Kathryn Lynn Peters
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      No need to gaff or tuck. I use my wife’s Depends under my panties and I get the nice smooth femme look I want.

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      Caty Ryan
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      Not only do I “gaff”, but I also use a pair of one size too small control panties and wear them back to front!.

      Why? 1. as has been posted many times on this wonderful site, at least for me the above gives me the smooth front I need to look and feel like the “woman inside”. 2/. This and the feeling of having  (attached) breasts and long hair, (make me has next to none), go a long way to making me feel like “Catherine Louise Ryan” (at your service!!).

      Of course then comes the inner and outer clothes, jewellery and make up and Caty “the mature elegant lady” is ready for her day.

      By contrast if left untucked, all I feel is plain ‘bleedin'” uncomfortable. Tho it must be said I underdress 24/7, but wear panties with a wide enough gusset to prevent “fallout”.

       

      Happy (gaff) dressing

       

      Caty.

       

       

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    • #433704
      Sophia Dwyer
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      Yes I gaff and tuck all the time! I have several pairs or I wear a tight gstring under my panties to form a lovely lady hump!
      Just love the look and feel plus it is a must to complete my Feminine transformation! X Sophia

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      • #434019
        Serena Stevens
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        Hottie that you are Sophia, I’m sure it works well.

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        • #434145
          Joy Joy
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          My lady friend gave me a gaffe and she cut a neat hole in back so now I can pee sitting down!

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    • #433693
      T.J. Byron
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      Sorry, never been an issue…never touched a gaff.

      Never needed anything to hide …very happy never having to need a gaff of any kind, shape or form to treat a ” buldge”.

      Later, love…Dr.T.J.

      • #434147
        Serena Stevens
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        You & me babe. Glad someone spoke up for us honest ladies!   😘

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    • #433680
      Krissy Richards
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      Absolutely one must. Its what completes the look as I dont want to be seeing any unnatural bulges if I can and as I don’t tuck I find gagging the best way to hide that pesky bulge that no girl really wants to see.

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