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Registered On: February 11, 2019Topics: 24Replies: 1681Has thanked: 5126 timesBeen thanked: 5592 timesWell Girls, the title says it all! Four years ago I finally summoned the to courage sign up here!
I’d gone three other times, but backed out before committing myself. It is no exaggeration to say that step changed my life, and for the better.
Before that I was so totally closeted only my wife knew, and I felt it was like my “dirty little secret” but as so many of us are the pull to be femme had been getting stronger and stronger till I started searching online and found this website.
The support and acceptance from everyone here was just astounding. Then shortly after that a couple of girls somewhat local to me reached out and invited me to an informal get together, a local support group for CDs and TGs and for the very first time I went out (other than my own yard) dressed up. The acceptance and support was amazing there too, even though my presentation was pretty terrible, but with help here, and from them I quickly learned!
Now I have the confidence to go out and about fully femme just about anywhere. Of course I use judgement and don’t do silly things, but I’ve learned to dress to blend quite well, and then to NOT blend and show off my glamorous side.
I was recently elected as President of the group which welcomed me so warmly almost four years ago.
All from having the courage to join up here!
Amy
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Registered On: June 26, 2017Topics: 35Replies: 6747Has thanked: 14965 timesBeen thanked: 14506 timesAmy wonderful hearing and many more to come 🎊. Yes our first is always an unforgettable memory. And other times and your experience I will always remember. Heading to my 6th year myself this June. How times fly lol..🌷
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- Registered On: August 25, 2015Topics: 124Replies: 1396Has thanked: 819 timesBeen thanked: 2223 times
Congrats -I’ve been here about 7 1/2 years (August 2015) and never regretted a moment . I will be here til either I or the site dies (and I hope it’s the former not the latter but not for decade or two yet!)
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- Registered On: August 1, 2020Topics: 9Replies: 1510Has thanked: 5386 timesBeen thanked: 6980 times
Happy fourth anniversary Amy. What a great example of how CDH helps and supports girls to come out of the closet developing the feminine in yourself, being part of a wonderful community.
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congrats Amy and thank you and your lovely wife for leading our support group
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- Registered On: September 29, 2019Topics: 75Replies: 1224Has thanked: 2840 timesBeen thanked: 5793 times
Congrats, Amy. Have to agree with yo9u about all the wonderful moderators here at CDH. I’ll have 4 years in Sept. Today I only wear men’s clothes at work, even when ‘presenting as male’.
. Cassie
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Happy Anniversary Amy, It started with one small step for Amy,, that’s all it takes that first step and look at all you have accomplished, I have yet to take that first step myself I’m not sure if i have the courage to take it, all i can say is good luck in all your future endeavours Amy X
Hugs Rozalyn X
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- Registered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 28Replies: 4529Has thanked: 65984 timesBeen thanked: 16259 times
Hi Amy happy anniversary to you girlfriend as you came on board a bit before Stephanie joined in November of 2019.. So coming up on my 4th year so happy for you girlfriend as this home is such a wonderful home and so many fantastic family members and sisters that i really do love and am happy to be a part of this family.. hugs girlfriend ..
Stephanie
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- Registered On: June 14, 2021Topics: 31Replies: 1881Has thanked: 14299 timesBeen thanked: 9522 times
Congratulations Amy and Happy CDH Birthday!!
Thats wonderful you got out that front door and your experiences have exceeded your expectations. Thanks for sharing. You are an inspiration!
I’m coming up on my second year here in June and I agree with you completely. CDH really is a great support site for the CD/trans sisterhood. Thank you Vanessa Law and kudos to the moderators who work so hard to make this a safe place. All the girls here are wonderful in helping each other with advice or sharing their inspiring, positive, life experiences. We gain a little more confidence and/or understanding just by reading and sharing like women naturally do.
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