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Registered On: January 21, 2018Topics: 479Replies: 1809Has thanked: 8179 timesBeen thanked: 7341 timesGood evening ladies,
I’d just like to remind everyone that CDH is supposed to be a support site.
You’re not on the twitterbox, nor are you on a fetish site.
I understand, and sympathize with the fact that many people are stressed out right now, for various reasons.
However, this is not the place to come take your frustrations out upon each other. It’s just not.
I’m very disappointed with the way some people have been behaving around here the past few months. Please stop.
If you feel stressed out or triggered, take a break. Think before you post.
Any questions or issues…you know where to find me. Just send me a pm.
I will leave this message pinned for the next several days, at least.
Please be kind to your Sisters…life is hard enough for all of us right now.
Thank you….Samantha, assistant manager.Total of 106 users thanked author for this post. Here are last 20 listed.
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Registered On:Topics: 1Replies: 15Has thanked: 7 timesBeen thanked: 49 timesHave you read Samantha’s plea?
There is no need to reply to this request, my friends. ( but I’m going to anyway. )
I’ve added my agreement and thanks. Your choice, you do not have to read any further.So you are curious? Let’s consider together shall we?
Please, if you feel anxious seek support.
Do not crucify the messengers of hope who roam in every corner of this website.
Hold on to your friend’s hand. Your loyalty matters to them. LISTEN to them.
Do not shout, just simply ask. We will do our level best to help you.
Misunderstood? Calmly rephrase your words and apologise for not making yourself clear.
Give space to those who need it. But let them know where you are. ” I’m here ”
Consider yourself no more important than your intended audience.
Neither allow yourself to be drawn into conflict.
Be who you are meant to be. Compassionate, Courteous, Considerate.
We are here together. I’d rather stay together… it’s much more fun.
T H A N K Y O U, ALL of you. Family XXXX and Friends by CHOICE.
Cheers…. ( little anya – a small fish but I want to grow 🙂 with you too.8 users thanked author for this post.
Registered On: March 10, 2018Topics: 0Replies: 604Has thanked: 1043 timesBeen thanked: 2104 timesHi Samantha thanks for making this a safe place for us girls to come to,
We are all sisters on here and we should all be kind to one another, well I’m just speaking for me I’m just a part time sister and i love coming on CDH,
The girls on here are lovely people who i would be happy to call my friends x
Hugs Rozalyne x
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Registered On: April 30, 2016Topics: 22Replies: 780Has thanked: 4465 timesBeen thanked: 2545 timesMy only response to this post is a hearty AMEN! Life is hard enough without hatred and back biting spreading to what is meant to be a support site. Thanks for posting what should have been an unnecessary topic.
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- Registered On: September 12, 2020Topics: 2Replies: 49Has thanked: 356 timesBeen thanked: 200 times
Between covid,screwed up weather,polarizing politics,it is no wonder why people are going haywire. I myself took a short break from CDH, sometimes stepping back is a good thing.
Debbie w
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Registered On: July 14, 2019Topics: 37Replies: 1184Has thanked: 18263 timesBeen thanked: 3216 timesLet us never forget we’re in this together.
No one is better than anyone else.
We all need each other.
We all have our own individual point of view and things that we find important.
I don’t have to walk a mile in your heels to appreciate your journey.
I may never fully understand your journey but I will lend an ear if you need it.
Not everyone will do what you do or feel the way you do.
Our journeys may be different, but let’s not fight, let’s take these journeys together
Hugs and love
Autumn
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Registered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 12Replies: 1772Has thanked: 20640 timesBeen thanked: 5882 timesHi Samantha 100% agree yes we all need to look around and remember why we are here and take that deep breath and calm down and thanks Sammy i havent had a bad note from anyone in a long time lol ha ha thank you for your job And you patience ..
Stephanie Bass
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Registered On: March 14, 2020Topics: 10Replies: 215Has thanked: 507 timesBeen thanked: 770 timesHildaRuth here,
What I really like about this site is that it is open, loving, caring and kind to all CDs however young, however old, however experienced or inexperienced and all comments/questions are treated with respect. It is the only site I’ve found about which I can say here we are all loving sisters. Sure we disagree with one another at times but we are never nasty to each other. If stress for whatever reason is getting to you here is a place where you can chill and as Samantha says not take it out on one another.
Love and hugs 💋💋
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Registered On: March 26, 2020Topics: 15Replies: 1173Has thanked: 3781 timesBeen thanked: 5637 timesHi Sammy
I used to wonder why ladies who had been around for a long time would suddenly close their accounts and leave an “Anonymous” trail behind.
About this time last year, I did exactly that.
This time around, I took myself offline for a couple of weeks.
There’s a whole raft of articles on stress just a Google away – a few of these are actually scientific, but only a tiny minority as far as I can see.
The thing is to recognise the symptoms as early as possible, and take time out, as Sammy says.
But it’s a tough one to identify and a tougher nut to crack. It feels like it’s not you but everyone else, then it feels like it’s totally you and you’re responsible for everyone else’s actions and it’s swings and roundabouts of something approaching madness that manifests itself differently in everyone.
Giving it a name is the same as saying “Voldemort” instead of “He who must not be named”.
I would really like to thank you, Sammy, also Amanda, Grace, Cindy and Genevieve for being so supportive through this and helping me to beat it in record time this time around.
Last time it took months.
The time before took a couple of years.
I could write a book on my experiences if I thought anyone would read it and get something positive out of it.
Bottom line is, hang on in there, focus on what’s important, talk to your sisters, friends, everyone and don’t judge yourself (or anyone else) for giving in to stress occasionally – it’s a mean, unreasonable critter.
Anyway, gorgeous girls, stay safe, and if feel things are getting to you, take time out, but keep the focus on recovery and believe it, you will be fine.
If you’re going through Hell, keep going.
Love Laura
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Registered On: January 15, 2020Topics: 34Replies: 1554Has thanked: 9150 timesBeen thanked: 6131 timesLaura, I am pleased to see that you are back, and hope your future and journey will always be rewarding. As you rightly say a break is refreshingly rewarding and gives us time to reflect on the above. Sometimes life is an up hill struggle but if you have belief in your self and and honesty with in it, it’s a climb worth making. Lv Amanda xx.
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Registered On: January 2, 2021Topics: 13Replies: 963Has thanked: 1361 timesBeen thanked: 3307 timesI have had such a good vibe from the sisters on this site I cannot imagine not being part of this community. Anything I have posted here has been in support of everyone and I cannot imagine doing the opposite.
This place is unique! All you girls must understand that…Love to you all xxx Polly
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Registered On: January 31, 2021Topics: 57Replies: 663Has thanked: 577 timesBeen thanked: 3128 timesJust a brief word of thanks as a newbie to the site. I am loving this site for its friendly natural comraderie. It’s not heavily sexually charged as some other sites and doesn’t seem to have the factionalism and political awareness of others. In summary it is friendly and supportive in an inclusive way for crossdressers and thier partners and all you girls are a welcome addition to my life. Sending my hugs to everyone who may have become stressed over recent events and hoping we will ALL be here for each other in the future
Lisa xxx
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Thanks Samantha. You have my full support. Love, Stephanie 💖
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Registered On: June 26, 2018Topics: 40Replies: 1022Has thanked: 304 timesBeen thanked: 3426 timesDo you PM those who you feel are offenders and explain your thinking? I know if I was/am on that list I would want to know in order to either defend myself or correct my behavior whichever applies best.
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- Registered On: January 21, 2018Topics: 479Replies: 1809Has thanked: 8179 timesBeen thanked: 7341 times
It’s not really a matter of how I feel, we have guidelines here. And how I handle stuff depends on the situation. But yes, people do receive warnings from me. If they dont respond appropriately, I may warn them again, or just close their account. Its situational, and I’m usually pretty understanding and forgiving. Thanks for asking Celeste.
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Registered On: October 9, 2020Topics: 35Replies: 1033Has thanked: 10883 timesBeen thanked: 4532 timesOur home, a place for serenity and comfort.
Thank you, Samantha.9 users thanked author for this post.
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I’m new here, but thank you for the welcome Regi.
Serenity x
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