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    Autumn Gold
    Registered On: October 19, 2022
    Topics: 2
    Replies: 60
    Has thanked: 443 times
    Been thanked: 275 times

    Hi Everyone,

    I am trying this again. I had to reset my password as I didn’t remember it. I have been away for a while. Things got away from me. I have figured somethings out. I will throw myself into something, like this website and get overwhelmed and burnt out fast, them quit. I hope to proceed at my own pace. I am on several paths of self discovery. I now realize that I can’t read, respond, read, fix, please everyone and everything. Maybe that is obvious to you, but I grew up like that. Besides all the stress in life, work and hate for us in the news lately! I needed to step away from everything that I possibly could.

    I consider myself transgender. My journey, the path I walking is of self discover, growth, evolving and healing. I know that I must consider my own needs, tend to self care and self love first. I love reading about other’s lives.


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    • #732175
      Michelle Clevenger
      Registered On: June 28, 2022
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 64
      Has thanked: 101 times
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      welcome back sister

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    • #732117
      Trish White
      Registered On: December 2, 2021
      Topics: 4
      Replies: 549
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      Hi Autumn,

      I think that is a really good start for you this time. Just remember, the first person you need to please and look after is you! That said welcome back and I hope every thing goes much better for you this time. You have a ton of sisters here that would be more than happy to help any way we can. Just reach out to us.

      Trish 💖

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      Terri Anne
      Registered On: February 7, 2018
      Topics: 34
      Replies: 1549
      Has thanked: 2184 times
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      Hrllo Autumn,

      Hello Gigi,

      Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM).  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.

      ****** https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/


      Terri Anne, Ambassador

      ======= Link to our Public Chat Room   =========


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    • #731226
      Jill Lacey
      Registered On: December 25, 2022
      Topics: 3
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      Hi Autumn, love your name. Was your mom a flower child like me?( that would be born in the fifties for you people that missed out on Woodstock)

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      • #731228
        Autumn Gold
        Registered On: October 19, 2022
        Topics: 2
        Replies: 60
        Has thanked: 443 times
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        Hi Jill,

        My mother was born in the mid 1920’s. I was born in the early 1960’s. My mother was not a flower child. My parents lived thru the depression and my father was joined the army for WWII. He joined near the end of the war and never saw action. My parents were pretty conservative and straight laced. I had an older brother who was a bit of a hippie. I remember when he came home from college for a visit with longer hair. That really upset a lot of people in my family!

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      Wanda Ovahear
      Registered On: October 19, 2022
      Topics: 8
      Replies: 593
      Has thanked: 1466 times
      Been thanked: 1822 times

      Autumn? It’s barely Spring! 😉

      Hugs & kisses,

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    • #730561
      Autumn Gold
      Registered On: October 19, 2022
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 60
      Has thanked: 443 times
      Been thanked: 275 times

      I want to thank everyone who responded and thanked my into! All of you are so supportive and friendly! Hugs,




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    • #730551
      Lara Tucker
      Registered On: September 29, 2021
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 1372
      Has thanked: 30738 times
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      Hi Autumn,

      Welcome back! We are here for you girlfriend.



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    • #730524
      Stephanie Flowers
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
      Topics: 35
      Replies: 6862
      Has thanked: 15632 times
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      Autumn welcome back sweetie. get comfortable once again and start enjoying all that were about. Meet with many of our ladies here and talk about anything you like. Much to see and do . Nice to meet and look forward to seeing you around here soon.


      Stephanie 🌹


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      Rozalyn Richards
      Registered On: July 27, 2022
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      Replies: 1006
      Has thanked: 1037 times
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      Welcome back Autumn it’s nice to meet you, there is no need to apologise about the way things are, we all go at our own pace, we are all sister’s on here and we will support you any way we can X

      Hugs Rozalyn X

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      Jeffie Goodwill
      Registered On: April 4, 2023
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 12
      Has thanked: 43 times
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      Well hopefully you find the middle ground that makes you happy enjoy yourself here glad to have met you!

    • #730488
      Sherri Remington
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: August 8, 2018
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 294
      Has thanked: 237 times
      Been thanked: 1161 times

      Welcome back Autumn, please take your time and enjoy what life has to offer. Happy to have you with us.


    • #730485
      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
      Topics: 100
      Replies: 6056
      Has thanked: 7974 times
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      Hi Autumn,

      Welcome back to CDH.


    • #730477
      Evie Wonder
      Registered On: March 30, 2023
      Topics: 2
      Replies: 24
      Has thanked: 31 times
      Been thanked: 131 times


      I had to build a lot of self confidence and courage to even make it to CDH in the first place, and yes, what we are going all going through can be overwhelming at times, wherever we are on our journey. I am also scared at times by my feelings, and I am learning (slowly) that that is ok too. One step at a time.
      It seems as if  you have a lot to deal with, especially at your workplace. Things can move so slowly out in the world when we are ready to make change happen.
      we are here ti support each other and that feels good.


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      Lola Caprice
      Registered On: May 26, 2021
      Topics: 13
      Replies: 418
      Has thanked: 2570 times
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      Welcome back to the sisterhood sweetie!  Lots of us drift away and return. I was gone for almost a year not only from CDH but from my femme side as well. But I knew I couldn’t leave Lola behind for long.
      We all have to find the right balance. It sounds like you tried very hard to be supportive to others last time you were here and I sincerely hope that this time you will find the friendship and support you need as well.
      I wish you happiness on your journey, wherever it takes you.

    • #730472
      Stephanie Bass
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
      Topics: 29
      Replies: 4677
      Has thanked: 68482 times
      Been thanked: 16605 times

      Hi Autum and welcome home girl we allways keep the light on so you can find your way home .. Once you join you are allways a sister and family member so jump back in .. We are here for you girlfriend look around ask many questions rekindle old friendships and make some new ones hint hint he he … Anytime you need to chat please say hello and remember slow and steady wins the race oh sorry as rose said this isnt a race he he hugs sister..
      Stephanie Bass

    • #730470
      Stevie Steiner
      Managing Ambassador
      Registered On: June 11, 2020
      Topics: 91
      Replies: 2030
      Has thanked: 9040 times
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      Hi Autumn!  Welcome,  I’m so happy you found your way back to us!


    • #730469
      Robyn Drake
      Managing Ambassador
      Registered On: March 19, 2019
      Topics: 64
      Replies: 802
      Has thanked: 1676 times
      Been thanked: 2628 times

      Nice to meet you Autumn, welcome back.

      – Robyn

    • #730455
      Willa Rose
      Registered On: March 27, 2023
      Topics: 1
      Replies: 86
      Has thanked: 348 times
      Been thanked: 251 times

      Hi Autumn, welcome back. Take it in stride, this is not a race. I too, get overwhelmed at times on sites like this and in my daily life. I begin to neglect all my social platforms I interact with or cut back on time spent. One thing I know is that when I’m ready to comeback, I’m always politely greeted which makes me feel uplifted. I quit trying to play catch up and instead, just blend back in. I try not to burn myself out.


    • #730592
      Stephanie Bass
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
      Topics: 29
      Replies: 4677
      Has thanked: 68482 times
      Been thanked: 16605 times

      Ha Ha such a deserving girl you are ..


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