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      Lily-Rose Nielsen
      Duchess
      Registered On: November 2, 2020
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      Hi Bambi

      It’s not easy to struggle with your gender. I’ve done it for all my life, I have felt anxiety, depression and I think all things nearly all transgender persons experience. But this autumn I felt so bad that my coworkers asked me what’s wrong, but at the moment I wasn’t ready to tell them. But after a week of thinking I decided to come out to my siblings, son and my closest coworkers. And it turned out that they all had know/felt it already. So I think that everyone knew that I was transgender before I finally accepted it to myself. And it was such a relief to not having this secret of mine to think of any more. When I accepted I was trans all the pieces of my life’s puzzle fell into place, and I’m sure I have sent those signals all my life.

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      Samantha Roarke
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      Registered On: April 17, 2019
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      Hi, hello, and welcome to Crossdresser Heaven! You have just arrived at the best and greatest CD site on the web! CDH has tons of very helpful crossdressing information, tips, and support from real people just like you! We highly encourage new CDH members to ask questions no matter how trivial you think they may be, as we are happy to answer to the best of our ability. We also love a well written profile, this helps everyone to get to know you better as the beautiful woman you are! We hope that you enjoy your stay here at CDH, as we are happy to have you as a part of our wonderful crossdressing community.

      Thank you, Samantha Roarke

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    • #427642
      Michelle Newman
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      Registered On: June 22, 2017
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      Welcome Bambi!

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      ANDREA RAVEN
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      Registered On: December 21, 2017
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      Hi Bambi

      I think we have all struggled at some point, and many of us continue to do so. It is a very difficult thing to get your head around and can take a long time. To my mind, it’s all about acceptance, and here I an talking about personal acceptance. You understanding who you are and accepting that being trans to some extent is part you. If you are anything like me you have had these feelings for years, but was only when I allowed my female side to grow that I began to understand who I really am. As I said it might take a long time to come to terms with yourself, but you have taken a vital first step in joining CDH and asking for support. You will find lots of friendly girls here willing to help you………

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    • #427097
      Rachel McFadden
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      Registered On: November 13, 2020
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      Hi Bambi,

      And hello from an older but equally confused girl in the UK. Feel free to ask whatever comes to mind.

       

      Rachel xx

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      Alice Underwire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Bambi,

      Welcome to CDH.

      Alice

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      Trisha Lilly Hibbert
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      Registered On: December 8, 2020
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      Hi Bambi, welcome to the CDH family. Your friend was right, this is an amazing website. The gals here are so wise and supportive. Feel free to let your hair down here honey and ask whatever you need to. I can practically guarantee someone on the site has been though it and had good advice for you.  Can’t wait to get to know you more honey.

      Love Trish

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      Stephanie Flowers
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      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Bambi  wonderful your friend mentioned us to you…welcome.. You’ll find just that  many friends in an environment where all can enjoy our femininity without judgement. A beautiful place with wonderful people  like yourself and of all ages and in time meet some your age. Happy meeting you and looking forward to seeing you around here.

      Stephanie 🌹

       

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    • #426782
      Regine Rich
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      Registered On: October 9, 2020
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      Hi, and welcome, Bambi.
      I think we have all struggled, in one way or another.in this journey to become “us”
      You ask where is the best place to look, lol, I have been looking for months, and, depending on your specific questions, it is everywhere on the site. Read the forums and topics in Lifes Like that, in beauty and fashion, and the many other forums available.
      What I do, everyday, is check on “new posts since my last visit” ( if you hover over the forums on the top of the page, you get a drop down list)
      The best way for info, is read, read, and read some more, and if you have specific questions, just ask? we are all so ready to give advice, and support, you will feel right at home in no time.
      So, (oh,by the way, I tend to ramble, a bit at times,lol) welcome, sister, reach out any time.
      Hugs, Regi

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        Bambi S
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        Registered On: January 3, 2021
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        Heya thanks for the info and support I feel like I will definately be doing alot of reading lol I will be sure to reach out if I have any questions!

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          Regine Rich
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          Registered On: October 9, 2020
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          Sorry, that should have been Life as it goes on, not Lifes like that.lol
          Regi

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      Bambi S
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      Registered On: January 3, 2021
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      Thank you all for your replies!

      Where would you the best place for info is on the site?

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      Bianca Everdene
      Lady
      Registered On: April 11, 2017
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      Hi Bambi

      welcome to the site, hope you have fun exploring and stick around.

      ❤️Bianca

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    • #426766
      Robin Girly
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      Registered On: March 29, 2020
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      Hi Bambi,Welcome to the site.I hope it helps you with your struggles.I’ve learned to accept the fact that I’m trans and I like men.

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      Anonymous
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      Hi Bambi,

      We are all friendly here and there is a lot of good information to read. Reach out to any of us if you want to chat.

      Kay

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    • #426757
      Jon Dunn
      Registered On: September 28, 2020
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      Welcome.
      You are not alone

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