Under dressing at work

[Rachel Tyrell]

For those of us not yet out to the rest of the world, and whom choose to underdress at work, are you concerned with people noticing? Does it change any of your behavior throughout the day? Not so much for panties (unless you work as a lifeguard) but a bra can show and does alter your appearance slightly. Even panties if pretty colors can get you spotted in the bathroom at the office.

Keep in mind I say this on my 1st day back wearing a Victoria Secret’s crossover strap bra and black hipster panties.

Just wanted your thoughts,

Rachel

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[Anonymous]

Today is actually my first day fully underdressed at my desk.

It feels so comfortable but I do keep checking (discreetly) that the straps of my camisole aren’t showing through my shirt and sweater.

Gemma.

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[Jill Quinn]

I wear panties everyday to work and I’m concerned about them being noticed in either the bathroom or the locker room where both men and women dress (we put on full body jumpsuit over our clothes) side by side. Because of this, I tend to wear t-shirts that are a little long. This way if I’m bending over to tie my work shoes at the beginning of shift or my boots after my shift, my shirt shouldn’t ride up too high and expose the tops of my panties. But I never wear a bra to work. They’d be too noticeable under my t-shirts and they’d get very sweaty. Yuck!

But I really need to wear my panties. When I’m having a bad day at work, I’ll just stop and remind myself that I’m wearing a very comfortable and girly pair of panties, and I calm down. A little bit at least.

Hugs to my sisters in this wonderful group! I’m so happy I have others just like me to talk to about these beautiful things and feelings!

Jill

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[Emily Lace]

I wear panties 24/7 so I am always at least underdressed with those. I often wear thigh highs or a garter belt and stockings under my male pants as well. I am allowed to wear jeans to work so I am never worried about panty lines or the bumps from my garter clasps showing. When I feel really frisky, I add a pretty camisole to the ensemble to feel really feminine all day.

Hugs,

Emily

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[Sara Scarlet]

In a previous job I would work away from home a lot so I could take some clothes with me and would underdress often. I can’t really do it at all now. No one knows I dress so this forum is my only real outlet these days.

When I did underdress, I often found that I felt quite empowered even though it was my little secret.

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[J J]

I am now retired, but I did underdress at work quite a lot. I am not sure when I went to panties full time , but at least for the last ten years of my career. I wore bras frequently, and while I never wore forms, I did wear silicon enhancers on occasion.

I was a medical professional, so I did have a reputation to uphold, but realized wearing nice lingerie was not really a problem and so what if somebody did notice. Of course, like most I worried about VPLs and bra straps showing, but after awhile I didn’t care. Either people (clients and staff) did not notice, or if they did, did not care. I had a very loyal clientele and staff, and after all the years I dressed that way I find it hard to believe no one ever noticed.

Maybe it is just me and the fact I wear bras and panties that I notice such lines in women, on occasionally men, but unless we make major efforts to hide such lines they are visible…maybe very subtly, but they are on occasion visible. I am okay with that. So, wear what you want, as I have said many times, if somebody has a problem with it, it is their problem not yours. If my staff noticed, they didn’t have a problem with a VPL or bra strap outline.

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[Cece X]

Work does not feel to me like the place where I want to underdress. I prefer to underdress when I go out after work and on weekends with my girlfriend.

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[Emily Alt]

I’m out to most people that know me.  Work is one of the few exceptions.  I’ve written about that before and will skip the details.  Suffice to say coming out would be disruptive.

The clothes I wear are more about function and less about the gender they were intended for.  That said, I’ve taken things a small step beyond underdressing.

I wear panties daily.  They’re more comfortable than guys underwear.  I wear no-show sports bras as needed – usually days when I’m using the gym or wearing a tighter fitting top.  That’s to support and minimize my small boobs.  I wear women’s jeans and a unisex t-shirt most days.  On occasion I’ll wear tights under my jeans for warmth and support.

I’m less concerned what my staff thinks and more concerned with keeping them.  I’ll continue the guessing game until I can’t do it anymore.

/EA

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[Fredrika Jones]

I wear panties all the time. At work it’s easier and more comfortable to wear standard uniform items (shoes, socks, pants, shirt) so I just keep it simple.
Fredrika Jones

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[Cassie Jayson]

Right now a bra is a step to far, besides I don’t want to get my pretty bra all sweaty. My Disney princess socks might give me away, but I will try to distract them with my painted nails. I think most of my co-workers that I have not fully come out to already know.
. Cassie

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[Julianna Frances]

I underdress pretty much every day. Usually one or more of the following: tank top, bralette,bra, women’s t-shirts, leggings, tights. I also wear panties every day, have been for years. Im sure the outline of my straps show through my clothes, but oh well.
It definitely makes me feel better about myself.💜

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[Nikki Just Nikki]

I’ve worn women’s panties exclusively for years, but apart from the occasional tights under my jeans that’s the only underdressing that I do at work. I once wore a teddy under my clothes but it was much too distracting since I work with teens and it’s not about me. In work mode, I’m as compartmentalized as it gets.

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[Leah]

I typically under dress daily, wearing panties, bralette and a camisole top  I have done it for so long, it feels weird when I don’t wear something. Nice thing is that you cannot see and “wrong” lines  and cannot feel anything different if someone hugs me. My wife seems to think that anyone that hugs me will know right away.   My response is that no one expects me to be wearing something, so it not like they are thinking… “he is wearing a bralette or a camisole”…lol

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[Eileen Bach]

My Dear Terri has tried underdressing and found it too distracting. That was before being discovered by this wife. He works in a metal manufacturing type occupation. A hot steel chip would cause more damage if caught in a bra than a work shirt that can be quickly untucked.

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[Stephanie Jones]

my office mandated a hybrid return to the office last summer, 3 days @ office and 2 @ home. i don’t do videos calls, so home days are full dress up days (garter, stockings, sexy panties & bra, forms and skirt).

i underdress in panties and sometimes bra (only during winter months when i can wear something like a hoodie) but when underdressed at all i am super conscience of what i’m wearing and will find i bend more at the knees rather then bend over, always checking my shirt is tucked in, when in washroom panties stay above my knees to avoid any stall neighbors accidentally seeing them.

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[Rachel Tyrell]

Thanks Stephanie!

Yep, I have a hoodie on today. The bra gives a noticeable bump to my chest. And you are right about panties at the knees in the bathroom. I’m a little concerned about that flash of hot pink showing through the door gap on days when I wear those.

Rachel.

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[Stephanie Jones]

i try to avoid the bright or neon colours on office days for that reason.

i have tried wearing a garter belt with stockings on a few occasions. was always worried the bumps of the garter clips would be noticeable to the observant person if you pants are too snug or while sitting. this also obviously runs the risk of being seen by someone glancing through the stall gaps, but still less likely seen then a bright pink pair of panties 😉

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[Wendy Swift]

Since I still work from home, I underdress at work nearly everyday.   Feels great.

 

 

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[Natalie Jones]

Happy New Year Miss Rachel

I’ve been underdressing at work for many many years. I’ve had some pretty close calls through the years but to my knowledge I’ve never been detected.
I’m in remodeling  and most of the time work alone which makes it easier. I love wearing pretty lingerie under my work clothes. But there are a number of precautions I take to not get caught. I wear either bikini or hipster style panties so they sit lower and rarely show bending over. I wear a bra or bralette mostly in the cooler months where I’ll have on a heavier shirt or sweatshirt. Even then a regular full coverage bra will sometime show. So I prefer bralettes or smaller triangle bras which actually look great with my cute little boobies! I like wearing regular bras that front close and have the adjustment loops in the front, they show less in the back.
I always take my bra off at least an hour before I head home so the bra marks have time to disappear. Camisoles are wonderful to wear underneath my guy clothes.
Knowing I’m wearing these girlie items underneath my guy clothes is such a fabulous feeling so I rarely forget I’m wearing them which makes me more cautious.
My most recent close call was back in mid November. I was working inside at a customer’s seashore house. They live an hour plus away. I was wearing a regular bra with my smaller forms (something I don’t do often at work)
And just a short sleeve t shirt. It felt wonderful. Suddenly I hear the garage door open and a car pulling in. I quickly grabbed my sweatshirt and ran to the bathroom. I didn’t have time to take the bra off so I just took out the forms and put on my hoodie and put the forms in the front pocket! Whew!!
I’ve been a little more careful since.
I’ve began to stealth dress at work some days but that’s a whole other story

Natalie💋💋💋

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[Ashley Konners]

I underdress daily. Work , home , out and about, it doesn’t matter where really. I do find that I make sure my shirt is tucked in at the back and yes panties can pep out now and again as I got caught once by my right hand man. I was bending over a machine and he called me out on my pink panties.  I’ve also had my pant leg get caught up in my boot and a woman noticed my black pantyhose.  But hasn’t stopped me from still doing it daily with panties , bralettes, pantyhose and a camisole.

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