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When I came out to my fiancé there were certain things I realized would be a part of it and certain things I didn’t.
Her overall reaction was an unknown. Her feelings about it an unknown and still unknown. She has expressed some feelings but not enough to know her stand on it. I knew there would be questions. I knew there would be uncertainty. I knew there was and still is a chance that she will not accept it.
What I didn’t think about was the anger that is involved in the whole deal. I did realize she would most likely be angry I had not told her before I did but she got over that pretty quickly. The “other” anger which I don’t know what is about i don’t understand as she can’t express to me yet what the anger is about.
The big thing that I didn’t take into consideration was the fact that it would seriously affect her appetite. She has not really had a decent meal since I told her about my dressing ( a week and a half now ). This is not something I thought about and now I’m extremely worried about her health and well being as I always do anyway despite the situation.
She needs to eat something. She hasn’t ate in 2 days and it’s all because I have caused her such great suffering over something I deem as trivial.
If you’re thinking about telling your SO please take into consideration some of the forgotten aspects of revealing a truth. I didn’t and now I have a significant other who won’t eat.
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