- September 21, 2021 at 10:42 am #546213AnonymousInactiveTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
So about a month ago my wife found 2 pair of panties in my drawer when cleaning them out. She didn’t say anything but I knew she found them when they were laying on top of all my other underwear. I didn’t say anything and since she had found them and didn’t say anything I was going to wear them and see what she said. I put them in the dirty clothes like I would my regular underwear. I had left Thursday before the laundry had been done. While I was away she calls and asked “Did you know the new underwear you bought are woman’s panties?” I said “Um no” I was completely caught off guard. I was hoping we would have the talk when I got home, not while I was out of town. She starts laughing and say You must have bought them by mistake, they have a gusset and all they are defiantly woman’s panties.” She laughed it off and we went on with the day. So when I get home I’m nervous as all can be about this talk. I’ve wanted to have the talk for a long time and I was sure she had suspected something, just because some of the comments she had made over the years. So were sitting outside having a drink and I got the nerve to ask, “Would you like to talk about the panties?” She did and went into the same about buy by mistake. I told her “No I bought them on purpose and I want to start wearing them.” She looked at me for a minute and was like “Why” I went on to explain how they are more comfortable for me and I feel a certain way when wearing them that I enjoy. I told her “I’m not gay/bi or anything else I just like wearing panties.” She was slow to say OK but then said ” As long as your happy you can wear what you want.” I did tell her I’m not into the thong or crazy color panties, I just wear them for comfort and personal reasons. It felt like the world had been lifted off my shoulders after we spoke. So for the last month or so I’ve been wearing my panties everyday. She is getting use to it and if anything it has spiced up our marriage.
- January 2, 2022 at 10:03 pm #603074Michaela AnthonyLadyRegistered On: December 29, 2021Topics: 6Replies: 210Has thanked: 776 timesBeen thanked: 936 times
Woo-hoo! Just made the switch myself to full time ladies panties and thongs this week after enduring over six decades of all that boring mens underwear. It was my 2022 New Year’s Resolution – removed the last of my below the belt hair and threw out all my old drab undies…good riddance to both!!!
- January 2, 2022 at 3:10 pm #602991Beverly HansonLadyRegistered On: January 2, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 25Has thanked: 389 timesBeen thanked: 154 times
Wow! How wonderful so many of us enjoy the comfort, fit, and sometimes sexiness of wearing panties! I too have worn them for years. I started slowly with wife asking why, what for an what not. And now I wear nothing but panties.
I love Jockey’s brand… The modal ones feel so nice and comfortable. I’ve gotten many others, but I have found absolutely no downsides to wearing nylon, satin or modal panties. Being one with having to be careful cuz of skin sensitivity, I think I’m better off with a more comfortable with a thin nylon pair of panties.
Gotta tell ya…. Its so intriguing of emotions when dropping my pants in the doctor’s office! You know the tech, the nurse, and even my female doctor – the all love seeing me comfortable and confident in wearing even string bikini panties! Lots of fun!!!
- December 17, 2021 at 3:58 am #590092Dee FrostLadyRegistered On: September 18, 2020Topics: 4Replies: 38Has thanked: 83 timesBeen thanked: 261 times
A common sentiment throughout these posts is just how much disdain we have for the truly uncomfortable male underwear. I’ll add my “yuck!” too.
As so many of you ladies, I haven’t worn male underwear for 34 years. I made the conscious decision that I wasn’t EVER going to do that again. With that, all were discarded, and none even for emergencies has been kept. NONE. I’m just not that anymore and I don’t care who sees the “evidence.”
As I’ve written often, no one but “us” really cares what we wear. If we are embarrassed, it’s only us. It really is only us. I have advocated to many that we simply enjoy what we do and have no shame.
Well, with that, I’m signing off CDH for a few moments and going to check out what’s new at VS! I’m certain that there is something there I just can’t live without!
- December 16, 2021 at 1:06 pm #589848Opal DreamLadyRegistered On: March 24, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 87Has thanked: 128 timesBeen thanked: 289 times
I’ve worn panties exclusively for a few years now and don’t own any male underwear in case of emergencies. I have both visited the doctor whereby I’ve had to remove my jeans or leggings and exposed my panties and also dressed / undressed in male changing rooms whilst my female underwear is proudly on display
- December 17, 2021 at 7:14 am #590140Alana TealLadyRegistered On: June 9, 2020Topics: 6Replies: 91Has thanked: 910 timesBeen thanked: 475 times
I’ve worn black satin panties to the doctor an dermatologist on several occasions. I think next time I’ll try royal blue or purple. Not brave enough to wear pink to the doctor yet. Though I wear pink panties of one shade or another at least 5 days a week. The little bow and lace inserts on my K&L Princess Juliet panties should be a tattletale anyhow.
- January 2, 2022 at 3:42 pm #603004melissa la quintaDuchessRegistered On: September 29, 2016Topics: 3Replies: 116Has thanked: 834 timesBeen thanked: 346 times
Alana, don’t you LOVE the Katie and Laura satin panties? I’ve tried both the Princess Juliet and the Goddess black satin. So adorable. I also love Elomi panties; they fit better than any I’ve ever owned. And yes, panties 24/7 for me. I’ve gotten over being shy about wearing panties for doctor visits; so much fun having my annual prostate exam, bent over the table with my satin floral panties at half mast. My urologist is very cute!
- December 17, 2021 at 5:51 pm #590385Aurora BorealisDuchessRegistered On: October 25, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 101Has thanked: 310 timesBeen thanked: 344 times
I simply love black nylon, lace or satin panties,wear them to bed as well as when I dress as Aurora. And often a bra with them. Aurora B.
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- December 16, 2021 at 10:31 am #589768Requal JoanneLadyRegistered On: December 15, 2020Topics: 5Replies: 500Has thanked: 538 timesBeen thanked: 1662 times
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Most of the time I’m wearing panties even under my guy clothes. Every now and then I’ll wear boy briefs or boxers for a couple of days because my girlfriend says I need to let “the boys” breathe every now and then. She always has my best interest in mind so I agreed.
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- December 15, 2021 at 4:23 pm #589454Wendy MeLadyRegistered On: July 20, 2020Topics: 4Replies: 70Has thanked: 19 timesBeen thanked: 321 times
I have 1 pair of men’s briefs for medical exams, the rest of the draw are panties, I prefer full briefs.
A quick funny story I had long dental procedure and I was wearing loose fitting sweat pants, when I was allowed to leave my wife was sitting behind me as I got up out of the chair she pulled my sweats up in the back. She told me your panties where in clear view. I gave her a kiss and a thank you.
- December 15, 2021 at 7:50 am #589273Stevie ParisLadyRegistered On: November 19, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 18Has thanked: 36 timesBeen thanked: 110 times
I haven’t worn men’s undies for years now. My wife keeps a couple of pairs of briefs in case of emergencies, by which I think she means a medical examination or perhaps communal changing rooms.
My mental picture though is of me falling off a ladder or somesuch, and my wife struggling to get me out of panties and into briefs before the ambulance arrives 🙂
- December 15, 2021 at 1:59 am #589186Lacy SatinLadyRegistered On: June 27, 2018Topics: 7Replies: 486Has thanked: 442 timesBeen thanked: 2232 times
What style of panties do you have that she could have thought you bought them by mistake?
All my panties are delicate nylon or satin most of them have at least some lace on them. I als love the fact that my panties are in every color of the rainbow.
I remember when I first told my wife I liked to wear and sleep in nightgowns. I told her I just liked the feel of the silky fabric. She didn’t have a problem with that, so she was nice enough to sew me some plain nightgowns from nylon fabric she bought.
It was a kind gesture on her part, but to me it was like wearing a large nylon pillowcase. In time I had to tell her there was more to it than just the silky fabric. I wanted to feel feminine as well.
She didn’t understand but I’m thankful the nylon pillowcases are gone and now I only wear very feminine nighties or full-length negligees.
- December 14, 2021 at 7:21 pm #589123sarasue olsonLadyRegistered On: October 7, 2018Topics: 27Replies: 262Has thanked: 1059 timesBeen thanked: 1436 times
I have worn panties only for over sixty five years, my wife says men’s under ware is totally gross and forbids my wearing them. That is fine with me, who in their right mind would want to wear such nasty men’s undies. Not me.
- December 15, 2021 at 2:07 am #589187Lacy SatinLadyRegistered On: June 27, 2018Topics: 7Replies: 486Has thanked: 442 timesBeen thanked: 2232 times
Sarasue, I couldn’t agree more! I only wear panties but I have always kept 1 pair of gross men’s underwear that I will wear on very rare occasions just to remind me of how uncomfortable they are and totally not sexy. Blah!…
- December 14, 2021 at 1:52 pm #589037Carla CumminsLadyRegistered On: December 12, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 34Has thanked: 113 timesBeen thanked: 168 times
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I can think of a lot of things that make me feel more feminine but sadly I can’t wear them under my drab male clothes on a daily basis. When it’s really cold out I often just get dressed over my nightie and wear that all day to help keep me warm.
My wife thinks it’s silly and says “Thin layers of nylon is not keeping you warmer” I think it does but maybe just thinking about all the silky lingerie I’m wearing is psychologically keeping me warm.
- December 16, 2021 at 7:06 am #589711Carla CumminsLadyRegistered On: December 12, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 34Has thanked: 113 timesBeen thanked: 168 times
Thin layers will help keep cold out some, but the feel of nylon does wonder to your feminine side. Just knowing you have them on makes its all the better.
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- December 14, 2021 at 11:45 am #589010LaraLadyRegistered On: December 13, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 9Has thanked: 19 timesBeen thanked: 61 times
Like you lucky enough that wearing Panties is fine. I told my wife early in our relationship i liked them… Then never wore them until few years ago she suggested i wear them. I now have a few pairs she washes and puts away… Mostly nice lace or pretty ones. Some Thongs, Brazilian and normal ones. It deffo spiced up our sex life… So much so daytime when no kids bra’s are fine also which is great.I have been wearing lingerie since i was 13-14 so its like a normal pair for me.. Sometimes though male life gets in the way and male boxers have to be worn. Luckily i get enough Panty time for it to be no issue.
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I have been wearing panties for about 20 years now and my wife will wash them with hers on a more gentle wash. She will also put them in my underwear drawer. I also wear cami tops with lace edge to bed with my wife. I get pains in my legs and cramps at night my wife suggested support tights but I told her they make me very hot in the crotch area. She said I would have to get some suspenders to hold support stockings up which I replied I do have quite a few. Therefore now during the winter I wear stockings and suspenders with my panties. I have no male drab underwear now.
- October 27, 2021 at 8:14 pm #565246Ginger Taryn GreenLadyRegistered On: June 16, 2021Topics: 3Replies: 61Has thanked: 68 timesBeen thanked: 346 times
I have been wearing panties every day for about six months now and my wife still does not know. Not sure how I will explain it if she does find hm. Cross that bridge when we get there I guess. Glad to hear that she is accepting about your panties. Maybe there is hope for me.
Hugs and stuff Ginny
- December 4, 2021 at 6:57 am #584173AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
Ginger I was in the same boat. I was to the point that every time I wore my panties I wanted to tell my wife. I felt like I was lying and hiding and almost made me want to stop. So I bought new panties and folded them up and left them in my drawer. She found them and didn’t say anything. So I wore them and put them in the laundry and still nothing. I went out of town and left them out and she found them. When I came home we had the talk. It went better than excepted due to her suspecting for years and finding panties before. She had never mentioned and let it come out she didn’t want to embarrass me so she let me come out with it. Now, it’s not even a topic. I order them all the time and she opens them washes them and put them away.
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- October 27, 2021 at 7:36 pm #565234Amy MyersBaronessRegistered On: February 11, 2019Topics: 23Replies: 1644Has thanked: 4875 timesBeen thanked: 5352 times
I am glad to hear that it is going so well for you. I too wear panties everyday, and at first my wife thought it was a bit strange, but she doesn’t mind, and as you implied it has brought us closer together also.
They are simply clothes, but is quite remarkable what they can do for you.
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Congrats Michelle for starting to wear panties now. Here a idea that when I first started wearing panties all the times were when buying a pair or more throw away that amount of your mens underwear. Sooner or later will have a drawer full of nothng but pretty women’s panties. Try some different styles too from briefs to thongs.
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- September 21, 2021 at 10:27 pm #546509Michelle BaileyLadyRegistered On: July 17, 2020Topics: 1Replies: 178Has thanked: 7994 timesBeen thanked: 814 times
Hi Michelle I wear panties nearly all the time now and when the weather isn’t to hot one of my lovely bras ,I have to take my panties before I go to bed as I only sleep in my undies, my wife and i sleep in the same bed so as she doesn’t know about my cd has be boxer shorts but saying that I some nights keep my panties on underneath ,one day I might be allowed to sleep just in panties and other female nightwear ,it could happen . Michelle xx
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I’ve already started. I’ve accumulated probably 50 pair already and have more coming that I ordered. The wife actually laughed about it and said “Awe look at you buying all new panties” She’s been supportive to say the least.
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- September 21, 2021 at 4:44 pm #546396Mika MaloneDuchess - AnnualRegistered On: November 11, 2020Topics: 61Replies: 983Has thanked: 2273 timesBeen thanked: 3888 times
That’s really awesome. I had the talk with my wife before I started underdressing. I was already wearing men’s thongs prior to that and women’s thongs are much cheaper so it was no big thing. I underdressed for ten years before I started fully crossdressing. That also helped get my wife a bit used to my femme side before I asked her if I could crossdress.
- September 21, 2021 at 12:30 pm #546269Jamie WilliamsLadyRegistered On: July 26, 2021Topics: 15Replies: 130Has thanked: 297 timesBeen thanked: 971 times
That’s very cool for you. It’s a very difficult conversation to have, and could go either way.
Unfortunately for me it was the final straw that ended my marriage. But that turned out to be a blessing in disguise. She was already heading in that direction and this became an excuse for her. So in a way, the conversation was necessary in for a different reason.
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- September 21, 2021 at 12:10 pm #546257Abbie NormalDuchessRegistered On: June 13, 2021Topics: 13Replies: 679Has thanked: 1375 timesBeen thanked: 2806 times
Sounds like you’ve done the hardest part, congrats! Assuming you don’t just stick with panties, it will be harder to explain a bra as a comfort item but this is basically how I did it as well. I started my wife off slow to give myself and her time to acclimate to the new situation.
— Abbie 🥰
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- September 21, 2021 at 3:23 pm #546362Abbie NormalDuchessRegistered On: June 13, 2021Topics: 13Replies: 679Has thanked: 1375 timesBeen thanked: 2806 times
Honestly, that is my dream. I’ve always wanted to go out on Halloween dressed but I guess I always worried that someone would figure it out.
— Abbie 🥰
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That’s wonderful, Michelle. I’m so happy for you. I tried something similar with my wife about 6 or 7 years ago and got a resounding “No. I’m not comfortable with that.” So, I’ve been in hiding ever since.
I have to say, though, she came across a pair I had stuck in a vanity drawer in the master bath of the condo we rented a few weeks ago while we were on vacation. It was as we were packing to go home.
She called out from the bathroom, “What’s this?”
I asked, “What?”
She replied, “Panties. I guess they’re yours?”
I sheepishly went in and retrieved them after she walked out into the bedroom.
Nothing else has been mentioned of them since.
I suspect she has had an inkling of my CDing for a while, now. But it’s a DADT scenario.
She also commented/questioned why my legs were so smooth one day while we were on vacation. I blew it off as an extension of my manscaping, which I began performing a few years ago. Somehow she never noticed (which I doubt) or, again, just didn’t want to ask about.
I so wanted to just “have the talk”.
BTW, she went to the office today, a rare occurrence since the beginning of the pandemic, and I kept at the opportunity to have some Raquel time.
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