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Hello Ladies, what are your short and long term goals as far as a CD. I’m also looking for any advice or tips on how to accomplish my goals. I come to find out that my plans are just one way of getting there and may not be the best plan, so I’m always looking for better ideas.
I’ll start, my short term goal is to get comfortable to go shopping in person and buy Katey new items. I am working on it. I have completed two quick trips to the local store and purchased a few small items. With each trip I can feel the confidence building. So I feel that I should have no issue accomplishing my short term goal.
My long term goal would be to come out as a CD to my family and friends. This probably will not happen for a few years yet. My plan is to come out when I retire from the military. As of right now I’m still on track with that plan.
Thank you ladies for indulging me. I hope you have or you are having a GREAT DAY!! Love you all, Katey
Hi Katey my goal is to come out of the closet, and release Sarah so she can be free.
Love Sarah
I in a similar state Katey, going out and getting anything for Amy is a little worrisome. I would like to build confidence in buying and browsing through feminine items in the short term. In the long term I think I would like to be comfortable going out in public as Amy, even if its just for a drive.
XO Amy
Katey
I don’t really have any plans yet. I love the thrill of shopping. I love being Octavia. I don’t know if I can ever come out to family and friends. I do want to pass as being a woman. I am already more feminine than most females that I know. If I were to come out it probably would not be a big surprise to anyone. I just don’t know if I can do it.
Hi Katey i have many goals to achieve, the first one is to find the courage to come out to my wife and family I’ve been hiding my crossdressing for so long i don’t know what their reaction will be,
The next is to go out en femme and do some shopping, it would be nice to go into a big store and browse through the women’s fashion floors and pick out a few items to wear,
The next one would be to go out to a venue somewhere and be with other cross-dresser’s and spend a weekend or maybe a whole week being Rozalyne, these are my long term goals i just hope that someday they will come true xxxxx
Hugs Rozalyne x
My current goal is to partially come out of the shadows and find a GG who would share and enjoy my dressing with me.
Katey, my goal is get my SO to understand that dressing isn’t just a sexual thing, it is a fun thing which I wish to share with her.
Debbie
This is pretty simple. I just want to live as my authentic self. Part-time initially. Full-time ultimately. Some level of physical transition. HRT for sure. I’m still debating what else. I guess that makes me trans.
Getting there will take some time. Overcoming the mental obstacles is the biggest challenge – work and my girlfriend.
Meeting your goals….the best advice I can give you is to get involved in CDH. Make some local girlfriends and have some girly outings. Moral support goes a long way to overcoming your anxieties. It doesn’t matter how long it takes. The important thing is to get out there and start having some fun. Someday you’ll look back and wonder why it took you so long.
Wishing you the best! Emily
Hi Emily, I love your goals I too wish someday I can be Katey full time but that’s sometime off. Thank you for you advice on my goals. Funny you said try and find local girls. I did a quick search here and found so many CD here in my area. Your right I’m gonna look back someday and ask myself what took you so long to get here. The mental block issue – uuggghhh I know that one way too well. I’m working on that one as well. The moral support is outstanding here at CDH all you ladies have helped me out and I cant’t thank you all enough. Hugs – Katey
While I would love to “come out” to all of my friends, it is not a realistic goal because of my overall demographic situation. I am very happy to have my wife and a very good friend who knows.
From there I have some other goals.- Loose enough weight to fit in some really cool styles.
- Get fit enough where I get hit on in drab or if I EVER get brave enough in femme.
- Compete in a second sprint distance tri-athalon.
- Somewhere along the line, have my wife ask to borrow some lady clothes 😉
- Get a third academic degree. (I have an associates and a bachelor(ette)s.
I’m a Crossdressing Closet Girl. I like having the option of both. For me it’s like being twins (not a split personality) David’s personality a typical accepted guy while Davida’s persona isis an unaccepted silent shadow. I guess my goal would be to find a balance and comfortableness with myself to dress masculine while at work. Come home shower and dress feminine and go to the grocery store.
My long term goal is to come out to my wife and that she accepts my cross dressing at home. If that could happen, it would be easier to tell her that I’m trans.
Enjoying my feminine side while trying to balance my family life and keeping patty in the closet for now.
Hugs Patty
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