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    • #51989
      Anonymous

      Members there has been some confusion over what is and what isn’t acceptable as subjects of discussion on CDH. Politics and religion is fairly easy to define, they are simply topics that can polarise a community and create division that can lead to abuse or offence. Thus generally we avoid them altogether. We could say “There’s an election coming up so we should all vote” and it would generally be okay but already we can see that those who oppose voting might get angry at the suggestion. Keeping things in broad context though will usually keep you within the rules. The same goes with religion. Making a statement like “God bless you” or “”I’ll pray for you” might be seen as innocuous yet those who are not religiously inclined could be annoyed or even upset by such comments. Again, broad context is safer – “Bless you” or “I wish you the best” as examples.

      We all have a right to express our views but in a supportive environment such as we have here at CDH, those views shouldn’t offend others. There are other places for such discussion.

      Sex chat also poses something of a challenge because of the potential that a conversation could turn into explicit pornography. I think, as a broad outline, a discussion you’d be happy to have your mother involved in would be a good guideline. It’s okay to talk about things like sexuality. You could say “I’m gay” or “I’m bi” or “I love crossdressing but I don’t know if I’m gay or straight.” Although a person’s sexuality is their business, if they are willing to or want to discuss it then that’s okay. What isn’t okay is expanding on what activities a person might want to engage in. The discussion could focus on who we want to be with, how we feel or what considerations we make when trying to define our sexuality but, as we are all adults, we already know what the ‘bedroom mechanics’ are so there’s no need to describe those. If that’s what you want to do then there are many other places to do it. Let’s face it, many parents are okay to know a child is heterosexual or gay but that doesn’t mean they want to know what goes on behind closed doors.

      If there are any doubts, please consult with an Ambassador. They have been instructed to err on the side of caution when it comes to moderation of chat or the forums. It’s easier to close off a discussion than to control one that gets out of hand.

      Safe, supportive and family-friendly. That’s Crossdresser Heaven.

    • #332761

      Bump….on a great article!

      Thank you, SR

    • #332900
      Anonymous

      Well said.  I totally agree w you.  Keep up the great work.  Z

    • #333103

      It’s like that old saying…..

      “I don’t know how to properly define pornography, but I know what it is when I see it”

      Some have said a PG rating kinda applies. If you can’t word what you want to say in a way that wouldn’t be found objectionable by all the parents of Tweenage (yes the w is intentional) children, then you probably should rephrase it.

    • #333116
      Anonymous

      I think we all know enough to avoid explicit language and (I hope)bragging about encounters while dressed. So for me, no sex chat refers to the hookup offers I have seen, and which are usually promptly removed. There are other sites which exist for that purpose, and I would be dismayed to see CDH thought of as being another of them. I also believe we see folks vanish after a day or two is because we are not one of them. Thank you, Administrators.

      Bettylou

    • #333283

      Well said and enough said.  luv Stephanie

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