What do you like to do the most when you're en femme?

This poll asks what you like to do the most when you're en femme.

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  • Stay home and lounge around
  • Stay home and be the housewife and clean and cook
  • Go out driving around
  • Run errands or go shopping
  • Meet a friend
  • Go out to eat
  • Go out to a show or movie
  • Go on a date
  • All of the above
  • Other


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    Holly Morris
    Registered On: April 15, 2022
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    Hi ladies!

    We all know how wonderful it is to transform ourselves into that wonderfully feminine woman we all want to be, but what then? After you’ve spent all the time picking out and putting on your lingerie and dress. Doing your nails and putting on your makeup. Choosing your favorite dress and making sure your heels match. Coordinating your jewelry, spritzing on some perfume, and then choosing which wig to ear. What’s next? Do you lounge around the house? Be the happy housewife and clean and cook? Go out and run errands? Go driving around? Go out to eat? Meet some friends? Go to a movie or show? Go on a date? Or what?

    For me, it’s some combination of all of the above. I absolutely LOVE to be the housewife and take care of the home (imagining of course, that I’m getting ready for my husband to come home after work, a la Donna Reed), but I also really LOVE going out and running errands as a woman, going out in public and interacting with people as a woman, and driving around as a woman.

    I’m pretty sure that almost all of us want to share our feminine selves with the world, so of course, that got me to wondering…

    What do you like to do the most when you’re en femme?



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    • #675171
      Sharon Leys
      Registered On: January 27, 2021
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      I enjoy a wide range of activities en femme. While my employer required me to work from home because of Covid, I spent 16 months dressing as a woman every day, at home, shopping, getting gas, banking, mailing parcels at the post office, meeting a T-girlfriend for dinners and movies and occasional bar hopping. I had to give up dating though, as I was high risk for Covid, and intimate contact was too high risk. Now working conventionally, I have had to cut back on dressing, but I still get out now and then, and love living as a woman.

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      Requal Joanne
      Registered On: December 15, 2020
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      Just being Requal around the house; combined with cooking and cleaning to occupy in the time.

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      Chrissy Perry
      Registered On: August 28, 2022
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      Favorite is strolling through small nearby towns with my wife and our sweet rescue pooch.

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      Jennifer Lynn
      Registered On: August 15, 2020
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      I love doing them all but going on a date would have to be my favorite,

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    • #674882
      Patty Phose
      Registered On: May 7, 2016
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      I enjoy dressing at home, Usually it’s in something to sexy to wear out, or something I probably shouldn’t wear out. I enjoy the fantasy, euphoria and thrill of it.

      But I also feel going out is the ultimate crossdresser experience. To have my legs looking and feeling so great in my silky pantyhose and heels and shown off so great in my short dress, with my nice breasts and pretty hair is such an incredible feeling and experience.

      To just drive around some and get out here and there is so exciting. Of course from there, depending on nerve going into a store and buying more girly things is an insane, incredible thrill. To be buying pantyhose while wearing pantyhose, trying on and buying shoes, getting that amazing dress you can’t leave behind, or getting an amazing matching bra and panty set is such an incredible feeling and experience, if you have the nerve. Unfortunately most of the time I don’t and end up chickening out. But those times I didn’t, WOW! Feeling of excitement and thrills like nothing else.

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    • #674854
      Kris Burton
      Registered On: August 6, 2022
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      I am an at-home CD at the moment, a boundary with my wife having been set that I do not crossdress publicly. As such, I am surprised that no one mentioned taking photographs. CDing has revitalized another interest of mine in photography. I thoroughly enjoy dressing up as best and completely as I can, and taking some nice photos to post here and elsewhere. Effectively this has become my community outreach, and hearing comments from others extends and enhances my CD experience. It is my hope that on the future the boundary eases and I can begin to venture out publicly. When and if that happens I will be out immediately – camera in hand – and get some nice  pics of some of the natural scenic beauty so close to my home. I will put myself – en femme of course –  in many of those too. It will be great!

      I must confess though that I have not been completely adherent to the set boundary. In the early morning hours with no one around, I also enjoy doing some simple things outside of our home while casually crossdressed – watering the plants, setting up the lawn sprinkler etc. At these times I have often taken a quick walk about the neighborhood. To my knowledge I have not been seen yet. I know I’m playing with fire, but damn it feels good!

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      Marg Produe
      Registered On: March 16, 2022
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      I’m like Rayna.  The bigger the party/dance the better it is.  And yup, love to dance all night.  Prefer the house wine or a draft beer along with a great band with dancing tunes.  I do all the other things on the list but most of all I’m a rock and roll roadhouse gal.   Party on!   Marg

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    • #671828
      Registered On: December 5, 2020
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      Hi Holly,

      Very good poll, as always. 😉

      As a homebody and private crossdresser, “stay home and lounge around” got my vote. 😉


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      Rayna Carlian
      Registered On: March 4, 2020
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      I chose a few(eat/friend/show/date), but the thing I love to do most it go to a lively bar or nightclub.

      I LOVE to go out dancing… LOVE….IT!!!

      So, I’ll do my face, put on my tightest and cutest minidress, and slide in the sexiest shoes I can shake my tush in…

      Then I am looking for a few Vodka Tonics or Collins and I’m ready to DANCE!!!

      That’s my number one fave activity en femme.

      Gotta have fun out there,



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      Fiona Black
      Registered On: November 23, 2019
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      My response could be almost a carbon copy of Deborah’s answer. Going out in public en femme is such an important ingredient in truly coming to terms with your cross dressing and validating your feminine side. I love presenting Fiona to the world. And what I like to do when out & about is simply all the things that one would do when dressed in drab – go shopping, take in a play, eat at a restaurant, sit in a park, run errands, take a trip …etc.

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      Jane Mansfield
      Registered On: December 27, 2020
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      Hi Holly, many of the options listed as well. Date with my wife, shopping, lunch, holidays. Comparing our wardrobe, and panty collection.
      Our marriage is now richer and soothing, as well as sweet smelling, perfume abounds in our house.
      Overall, one of my best decisions too live a changed life enfemme.
      Great article Holly. Live life we all should.

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    • #671085
      Holly Marie
      Registered On: August 8, 2022
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      For the moment, I don’t really have much of a choice; my wife doesn’t know about my dressing and going out in the daylight is still – just – beyond me.  Goiong out for a meal would probably be my ultimate aim; yes, Mr Waiter – this is me and thank you for calling me “Miss”.  I’m amazed at how brave you ladies who are living (more or less) full time en femme are; can you lend me a bit of courage?  Holly XXX

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      Lauren Mugnaia
      Registered On: November 1, 2021
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      I voted all the above, Lauren is a full time girl, now a legal female. Anything and everything I do is enfemme and will be forevermore.  🙂

      Hugs girls,

      Ms. Lauren M

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      karley delaware
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      Registered On: October 23, 2017
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      I like to be at home ….Pink Fog feels the house…………feeling like a very young woman……………….the short cute gal  checking herself out in the mirrors as she does the housework……only it does not feel like work …………….same with home office ………..she’s the pretty girl getting the work done ……………………reading  or watching a video about how to do something …..she’s the gal the guys like to show how to do things ………..she’s a cute and  eager learner ……………….when working with her dogs …….she’s softer as a girl and the lessons go a lot smoother ……………………..when I take a break…..I think of being with the girls at CDH …….only as total girls ………………………………………………………..karley

    • #670908
      Sarah Kanter
      Registered On: April 25, 2019
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      My favorite is going to work en femme. Really though, one of the best things about dressing up is that it makes anything more fun.

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      Kim Dahlenbergen
      Registered On: November 18, 2019
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      I found it barely satisfactory to spend my days dressed at home. Once I realized I could do a reasonably good job of presenting myself as a woman, I was out the door and into the world. Within a few days I had been grocery shopping, out for coffee at Starbucks, at the bank, and to the mall.

      I thoroughly enjoy the feelings of freedom and, I guess, authenticity I derive from experiencing the real world presenting myself as a woman.

      I know I am probably clocked fairly often, but I do seem to blend in well enough for most situations, and in more direct encounters it seems I am often given the benefit of the doubt. I am totally ok with being read as a transwoman, so long as I am treated with courtesy and respect.

    • #670879
      Registered On: September 24, 2021
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      I voted staying around the house and housework but I also like to dress while traveling (usually driving while dressed) and also like to dress while out camping.  If I lived in a bigger town I could envision dressing up and going out to a club or something.

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      Alicia Sunrise
      Registered On: June 3, 2021
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      I lounge around for the most most part as a single woman. It does get fairly lonely at times. Working up the nerve to go to a few lgbtq bars within a hour of home dressed light fem in the hope of meeting some friends to hang out with.   I live in a small town, closeted, and am not going out around here.   Also beginning to plan a fall long weekend trip to a trans friendly area where I will hang as Alicia the entire time.  A girl can dream…

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      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Holly,

      I love retail therapy.


      • #670876
        Holly Morris
        Registered On: April 15, 2022
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        Alice, we all do!! 😉



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    • #670746
      Registered On: January 9, 2021
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      I voted for hanging around the house, because that’s what I usually do. I’ve spent most of my time as Melanie staring into a mirror and taking selfies. Kind of sad to be honest but over the last year or so I’ve met a few others, and I’ve learned I like their company. Simply being with another dresser is a revalation whether it’s having dinner or simply chatting. Most things in life are best enjoyed with another and dressing is no different.

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      Greta La Folle
      Registered On: August 6, 2022
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      Of the activities indicated I do only one, so for my own enjoyment I have indicated all those I would like to do sooner or later as soon as it will be possible for me to be surrounded by people who are not ignorant but with an open mind.
      XOXOX from Italy
      Greta ❤️

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    • #670719
      Rozalyn Richards
      Registered On: July 27, 2022
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      Hi Holly, if i could i would do all of the above, it would be nice to meet and go to a bar with a few friends, or go shopping for some new clothes and lingerie, maybe take in a show or go out to dinner with some friends and just talk about everyday things, you know i love the dress 👗 my friend is wearing i love the way you have your hair and would it suit me to have it styled that way, girly talk,

      Hugs Rozalyn X

    • #670657
      Deborah Sullivan
      Registered On: February 27, 2020
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      Yes Holly for most of us we just cant be confined to just dressing and makeup for the evening. It is so important to get out to express our true feelings as women and interact with the world. I love getting out to run errands and just live a normal life as Debbie be it going to movies, meals, shopping or visiting others that accept us. What a thrill to behave talk and relate to others as our true selves

    • #670655
      Dawn Judson
      Registered On: November 26, 2017
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      Hi Holly. I don’t like to be confined. I want the world to see me & know me. I love clubbing with friends. And as far as the housewife thing goes, my wife says that I’m much more domesticated & helpful with “girly chores” when I’m me rather than “him”.

    • #670732
      Holly Morris
      Registered On: April 15, 2022
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      Hi Nicole.

      There isn’t a right or wrong answer, just different answers, as everyone has their perspective and opinion.

      And as we say in the south, “Differences of opinions is what makes a horse race.” 🙂



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